SIGNS YOU’RE BEING CONTROLLED, NOT CHERISHED WHEN ROMANCE BECOMES A TRAP
SLOW BURN, REAL CONNECTION Real love is consistent and respectful, and tends to grow gradually. If your partner supports your hobbies and outside relationships, it’s
When someone showers you with constant compliments, lavish gifts, and nonstop affection, it can feel like true romance. But these grand gestures can sometimes be a carefully crafted trap meant to manipulate you, called love bombing. Especially during a divorce, this tactic is frequently used to gain control and create a dependency that makes it even harder to leave. This deception, hidden under sweetness, is not real love, and spotting the signs can protect your heart and your future.
a sign they value your independence. They will take steps to build trust with you and won’t just leave if conflict or
misunderstandings occur. Healthy couples are open to honest communication, even when it’s a difficult or painful subject. Unlike love bombers, someone who truly cares about you won’t give or take affection to get what they want. They will show you affection because they mean it. When your marriage is built on love, your spouse will give you the space you need and encourage you to have meaningful friendships and family ties. Love bombing and genuine love often look and feel the same at first. But if you find yourself constantly anxious, withdrawing from other people in your life, or forever worried about a breakup, it may be a sign that you’re being controlled, not cared for. If you are ready for a fresh start, contact Bruce Law Firm to schedule a consultation.
ALL HEAT, NO HEART Love bombing aims to emotionally hook you because it’s not about genuine affection; it’s all about power. If someone is wielding this manipulative tool against you, the relationship may have progressed very quickly and intensely. This person may have made bold statements about their feelings for you, even in the early stages. Love bombers commonly pretend to care about you, your passions, and your plans, but they are actually trying to keep tabs on you. If they get upset when you don’t respond right away or question your friendships or activities, it’s an act of control. Over time, this partner may try to isolate you from others and withdraw their affection as punishment.
BLF’s Holiday Party at Raindancer Steakhouse
VODKA CREAM PASTA
INGREDIENTS •
1 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil
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32-oz can crushed tomatoes Coarse salt and pepper 16 oz penne rigate pasta
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1 tbsp butter
3 cloves garlic, minced
2 shallots, minced
1/2 cup heavy cream 20 basil leaves, torn
1 cup vodka
Best Wishes for this coming year!
1 cup chicken stock
DIRECTIONS 1. In a large skillet over moderate heat, sauté oil, butter, garlic, and shallots for 3–5 minutes. 2. Add vodka in a steady stream and heat for 2–3 minutes to reduce by half. 3. Add chicken stock and tomatoes, bring to a light boil, then reduce to a simmer. 4. Season with salt and pepper. 5. In a large pot, cook pasta to al dente in salted boiling water while sauce simmers. 6. Stir cream into sauce until it bubbles and remove from heat. 7. Drain pasta, toss with sauce and basil leaves, and serve with sides of your choosing.
We enjoyed a delicious lunch together
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