FRANK AND SUE
Frank and Sue had the type of relationship most people only dream about. They connected on every level and shared the same dreams and goals. “We showed up for each other and had each other’s back,” said Frank. “All of these things caused our souls to become intertwined.” When Sue received the diagnosis of brain cancer, Frank accompanied her on the roller coaster ride of emotions, hoping for the type of brain tumor that was treatable but ultimately learning that Sue’s prognosis was terminal. He engaged The Elizabeth Hospice for end-of-life care. After Sue’s passing, the things that Frank loved—cooking, playing the guitar, listening to music, watching the sunset— became difficult for him to enjoy. “I was stuck. My inner clock stopped working while the whole world’s clock kept ticking,” he said. Frank sought grief counseling from The Elizabeth Hospice. When it was determined that there were obstacles preventing the natural grieving process to progress, Frank began a comprehensive counseling program for complicated grief.
“Losing a spouse is life-changing,” said Liane Fry, Clinical Counseling Program Supervisor for The Elizabeth Hospice. “For some, the feelings of loss are debilitating and even with time there is little adaptation to the loss. This is known as ‘complicated grief,’ and we can provide a specific treatment to resolve this.” In addition to individual counseling sessions, Frank began attending a spousal support group with The Elizabeth Hospice. “I’m surrounded by others who understand what I’m feeling and I never fail to learn from them. For me, group is a life boat, a place for travelers who are waiting to get back to a life filled with meaning and purpose.” Frank is now focused on appreciating the 50 years that he had with Sue instead of being constantly consumed with the sadness of losing her. “Little by little, I am becoming unstuck,” continued Frank. “Along with the love and support of my family and friends, I credit my counselor and The Elizabeth Hospice with saving my life.”
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