by Oliver G. Wilson
N o counsel is necessary on the how of getting married, but how to stay happily married is a problem that must be faced squarely if mar riages are to live through the years. To realize the pertinency of this ques tion one needs but spend a few days in a divorce court observing the bitter ness and pain which come to those involved, and also the terrible in justice heaped upon innocent child hood. How may the charm and romance of those first days together be extended through all the after years? Here are a few suggestions: Remember, marriage is a partner ship demanding close cooperation and unmixed loyalty. Each has a part in the song of wedded love if it is to be a harmony. The true husband ever strives to be worthy of his wife; and the true wife, while she clings and leans, also helps and inspires. Seek counsel from the Bible daily.
Be absolutely honest with each oth er; readily apologize when in the wrong. Live within your income regardless of what the relatives or neighbors may think. Take God into the partnership by systematically starting with the tithe. Give no place to a childish, blame- the-other-fellow attitude. Resist self- pity qs you would a drunken intruder. Never say anything or do anything that would make your partner appear in an unfavorable light before others. It is easier to forgive deeds than words. Duty well performed is worthy of your commendation — never, never neglect this. But duty slighted or neglected breeds loathing, contempt, scorn. Renew often your pledge of love. Repeat your wedding vows to each other occasionally. Avoid suspicion and accusation. Be ware of jealousy. Sarcasm has no
place in married life relationship. Be considerate daily of the other’s wishes. Practice the grace of giving up, the art of giving in, the virtue of self-control. Render some unexpected favors now and then. Be courteous, kind, and thoughtful always. Express the glad ness you feel for being so fortunate as to be a member of this exclusive part nership. Cultivate your sense of hu mor. Build your home on honesty, truth, justice, purity, and godliness. Pray together daily. "Work together at every task possible. Plan for a family of well-born, well- trained children. Unite with the children and take your place among the followers of the Master as a public testimony that you belong to Christ. Live constantly with the coming of the Lord in view. END
JUNE, 1960
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