An idyllic and peaceful setting for memorials
Memorial options A guide to our additional options and personalised memorials 02392 222 648
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“An idyllic and peaceful setting to reflect and remember”
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Welcome to memorialisation at The Oaks The final resting place of a loved one is an extremely important and personal decision and careful consideration should be given to all options available. To help you with this we can hold ashes for up to three months without charge, allowing you time to consider how you wish to remember your loved one, and ultimately what is to be their final resting place. We have a number of tranquil memorial areas within the grounds, including landscaped memorial gardens, a woodland glade, memorial mounds, children’s memorial area and a traditional book of remembrance. This brochure will guide you through the range of options available, and once you feel ready, our experienced team will be available for a memorial consultation to show you around the grounds and to discuss your wishes, ensuring the memorial chosen is the right one for you. A dedicated area of our grounds has been set aside for scattering of ashes, but should you wish, you can also hold all or part of the ashes within any one of our unique memorials, alternative urns or special memorial jewellery. A remembrance memorial at The Oaks will provide a special place for family and friends to visit, reflect and remember when commemorating anniversaries, birthdays and other special times of the year. Contents Introduction 3 Woodland memorial orbs 6 Memorial mounds 8 Stone memorial orbs 8 Children’s memorial area 10 Scattering area 12 Scattering of ashes 14 Book of remembrance 16 Additional options 18 Ornamental orbs 19 Photo plaques 20 Remembrance benches 22 Memorial checklist 25
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Sustainability at our heart
At The Oaks we are committed to developing and managing the crematorium in a responsible and sustainable manner, supporting Southern Co-op’s vision of working together to make a positive difference to the local economy, the environment and our communities across the South of England. The Oaks Crematorium has been built to the highest environmental standards, employing the latest techniques in cremation and clean air technology to prevent pollution to the air and surrounding environment. The low rise building has native oak cladded walls, with traditional local flint and brickwork and boasts a green sedum ‘living’ roof which provides additional habitat for wildlife.
Offering a space of remembrance
Surrounding and within the extensive grounds of the Crematorium is semi-ancient, semi-natural woodland, designated as a Site of Importance for Nature Conservation (SINC). To the northeast of the site there is a shaded naturally draining pond which provides sanctuary for a locally very rare heathland species called Floating Clubrush (Eleogiton fluitans). This is only the fourth known location for this species in Southeast Hampshire. The clubrush forms roots on the pond bed when the pond is dry and when the pond naturally fills with rainwater, its roots detach and it ‘floats’ on the top of the water, re-attaching its roots when the pond naturally dries out again. In another area of the site an attenuation pond provides further wildlife habitat. The development of the site has involved converting poor quality agricultural land used for grazing, into various enriched habitats.
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“My mums memorial orb sits beautifully within the backdrop of The Oaks, I find a quiet comfort every time I visit.”
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Honouring memories in the heart of nature
The Oaks is surrounded by peaceful ancient woodland, a landscape that brings comfort and reflection to everyone who visits. Gentle pathways, quiet glades and the natural beauty of the trees create a meaningful place to remember those we love. Families often tell us that the calm of the woodland helps them feel connected, offering a sense of closeness that only nature can provide. Within this setting, we offer memorial options designed to sit harmoniously in the landscape. Each one is created to blend with the natural environment, allowing you to choose a tribute that feels personal and enduring. Woodland memorial orbs Crafted from sweet chestnut wood harvested from our own coppice woodland immediately next door to the crematorium. Each woodland orb is unique, providing an authentic natural memorial. As the orb becomes established within the woodland it will become home to mosses and insects, contributing to the wildlife and health of the woodland environment. The plaques are made in England using regionally sourced materials. A flower holder (also made of sweet chestnut) and vase can also be ordered for floral tributes, complementing the style and look of your chosen orb. Sweet chestnut is naturally very durable due to the high tannin levels in the heartwood which makes it resistant to decay. This inherent resistance means it will serve as an excellent choice as a natural memorial.
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Location • Woodland glade Options (Subject to additional cost) • 5 or 10 year renewable lease • Interment memorial • Remembrance memorial • Personal tribute inscription • Oval photo plaques in colour or black and white • Motif designs • Flower holder & vase
Item no.
No. of ashes/product
Name plate size No. of lines for inscription
C2
Wooden orb - 2 sets
N/A
N/A
C1
Wooden orb - 1 set
N/A
N/A
CM Wooden memorial Orb - No interment
N/A
N/A
Wooden flower holder only
C3
N/A
N/A
Multiple sizes available
BP
Bronze plaque
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Additional options
Photo plaque (Black and White or colour)
1 size
N/A
Motifs (custom/bespoke)
N/A
N/A
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Memorial mounds Memorial mounds offer a simple and peaceful way to remember someone special within the dedicated memorial gardens at The Oaks. Their gentle, raised shape creates a natural focal point, giving families a quiet place to pause and reflect. Many choose the Memorial mound area for its calm presence and the sense of permanence it brings. The surrounding gardens change beautifully through the seasons, allowing the mound to sit comfortably within the landscape while remaining easy to visit throughout the year. Stone memorial orbs The stone memorial orbs are designed to weather and age to create the established look of natural stones amongst the various plants and flowers. The cost of an orb includes; supply, delivery and fixing of the selected orb, one steel ashes casket with an inscribed nameplate and blank polished granite memorial plaque. Inscriptions for the granite memorial plaque is charged separately (per letter) and is available in gold or silver inscription.
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Location • Memorial mounds • The Rockery • Woodland glade Options (Subject to additional cost) • 5, 10, 15 or 20 year renewable lease • Interment memorial • Remembrance memorial • Personal tribute inscription • Oval photo plaques in colour or black and white • Motif designs • Flower holder & vase Included • Granite memorial plaques To note • Stone orbs vary in colour and price, speak to a member of the team to discover the options available
Item no.
No. of ashes/product
Name plate size No. of lines for inscription
S1
Stone Orb for interment - 4 sets
N/A
N/A
S2
Stone Orb - 2 sets
N/A
N/A
S3
Stone Orb - 1 set
N/A
N/A
S4
Stone Orb - No interment
N/A
N/A
Stone flower holder only
S5
N/A
N/A
Additional options
Multiple sizes available
Photo plaque (Black and White or colour)
N/A
Motifs (custom/bespoke)
N/A
N/A
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Children’s memorial area Our Children’s memorial area has been created as a tender, peaceful place for families to remember little ones who hold a very special place in their hearts. Thoughtfully designed with soft planting and a calm atmosphere, it offers a space where families can visit, reflect and feel supported. This dedicated area provides a setting that is both nurturing and respectful. Many families appreciate the sense of quiet connection it offers, along with the opportunity to create a personal tribute that reflects the individuality and spirit of their child. Carefully chosen memorial options allow you to add a meaningful touch, whether through a plaque, a symbol or a personalised tribute. Each one is crafted to sit gently within the space, offering comfort while honouring a deeply cherished memory. We’re here to support you Creating a place of remembrance can bring comfort, but we know that grief continues well beyond the moment a memorial is chosen. Every family experiences loss differently, and it is important to have the right support around you during that journey. This is why we offer access to our Bereavement Care services. Whether you are looking for someone to talk to, guidance on coping with loss or practical support during the weeks and months ahead, our team is here to help. Their experience, compassion and understanding provide a safe space for families to navigate grief at their own pace. Speak to a member of the team or visit bereavementcare.uk for more information.
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A comforting keepsake or memorial Our memorial plaque has been thoughtfully designed to offer comfort when remembering a baby or child. Suitable for wall mounting or on stake (additional cost may apply) for your garden we are sure it will provide you with comfort. Also within the collection is our Memorial Bear, a soft, cuddly bear with a small opening at the back in which you can place a small amount of ashes or other keepsake from your loved one.
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Scattering areas at The Oaks
At The Oaks Havant Crematorium, a dedicated scattering area has been set aside within the peaceful grounds for the surface scattering of ashes. This space lies on the west side of the wildflower meadow, providing a calm and respectful setting for families to scatter ashes if they choose. This scattering area sits alongside other memorial options within The Oaks grounds, such as landscaped gardens, a woodland glade and personalised memorial orbs. The surrounding wildflower meadow and natural planting create a gentle backdrop, helping make the moment feel reflective and meaningful. Bronze memorial plaques
Natural oak obelisks with a distinctive acorn and oak leaf design are located close to the wildflower meadow and scattering area as focal points to visit and remember. Bronze memorial plaques can be placed onto the obelisk with several options for personal inscription and motifs.
Location • Wildflower meadow Options (subject to additional cost) • 5, 10, 15,20 year renewable lease • 3 size formats • Personal tribute inscription • Motifs
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“When we scattered Dad’s ashes at The Oaks, having a memorial orb we could make uniquely his brought real comfort to our family.”
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Scattering of ashes There are many thoughtful and personal ways to scatter a loved one’s ashes, allowing families to choose a setting that reflects their life, interests or favourite places. Some prefer natural landscapes such as woodlands, meadows or hillsides, while others feel drawn to water, whether that is a peaceful shoreline, flowing river or a dedicated scattering at sea. Modern options can include scattering a small portion into space or choosing a biodegradable urn for a gentle water ceremony. Each approach offers its own sense of meaning and comfort. What matters most is finding the setting that feels right for you and your family, creating a moment of remembrance that is both personal and lasting. Ask us how we can support you with; • Scattering at sea
• Natural landscape scatterings • Mountain or hillside scatterings • Garden or home scatterings • River scattering • Scattering into space • Aerial scattering • Lake or Pond (using biodegradable urns) • Shared scatterings
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Bamboo scattering tubes The Eco Scattering urn is equipped with a unique closing mechanism, making the urn especially suitable for scattering ashes. If you are wanting to explore mountain or hillside scatterings, we would recommend a lightweight product, that is secured with a pin.
Leaf urns A range of handmade biodegradable urns decorated with dried leaves, these natural urns come in square, oval, rectangular or tubular.
Water urns Water urns are designed specifically for water burial and will float briefly to allow a final farewell before gracefully sinking. They are produced in a variety of materials including, recycled paper, rock salt, gelatin and sand. Although they are designed for water burial, all of these urns can also be used for Earth burials
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Book of remembrance The Book of remembrance is a permanent memorial with a page for every day of the year, within the Book of remembrance room. Made from the finest handmade paper and richly bound in leather and gold leaf, the names of your loved ones are commemorated by skilled calligraphers and artists. The Book of remembrance is always open on the current date and can be viewed in The Book of remembrance room. If you wish to see your entry on a different date, please contact the team. The Book of remembrance room is available 365 days a year, as a rule we will have the book open to the day of the year. The memorial entry The memorial entry is normally inscribed under the date of death although any other date of significance to the family can be used i.e. birthday, anniversary. Personal text, motifs, designs and badges significant to your loved one or family can be added to enhance the entry. Our skilled calligraphers can work from photographs to recreate an image of a family pet or to reflect a favourite hobby or interest.
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Location • Book of remembrance room Options (Subject to additional cost) • 2-10 line inscriptions (maximum characters 36 per line) • Emblem and motifs
Inscriptions 2 line inscription 3 line inscription 4 line inscription 5 line inscription 6 line inscription 7 line inscription 8 line inscription 9 line inscription 10 line inscription Emblems and motifs (only available on lines 5 and 8) Floral Birds, animals, badges, coat of arms
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Additional options Choosing a memorial is a meaningful way to honour a loved one, and many families find that having a dedicated place or item of remembrance can bring comfort during bereavement. Memorials offer a focal point to return to, helping individuals and families process grief at their own pace. Whether it is a plaque, or another memorial purchased from The Oaks, each option provides a gentle reminder of the connection that remains. These memorials can become part of a personal ritual, offering moments of reflection throughout the year. They also create a sense of continuity, allowing future generations to understand and appreciate the life being remembered. For many, having something tangible to visit or hold brings stability during a time of change, supporting emotional healing while preserving precious memories.
A hand-crafted bird bath that incorporates a small amount of ashes during its creation, resulting in a permanent and discreet memorial. Designed for placement in a garden or outdoor space, it offers a peaceful place of reflection while also providing a haven for local wildlife. Keeping with nature We offer a range of memorial items for you to have at home, for more information speak to a member of the team.
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Ornamental orbs Nature themed memorials in a choice of elegant designs can be inscribed and used as an individual remembrance memorial, or for complementing an existing stone or woodland orb. Cost includes; selected ornamental orb, supply, delivery, fixing and inscription up to 65 letters. Additional cost apply for any additional letters. Location • Memorial gardens • Woodland glade • Memorial mounds • Rockeries • Children’s memorial area Options (Subject to additional cost) • 5, 10, 15 or 20 year renewable lease • Personal tribute inscription (includes up to 65 letters) • Leaf, Dove, Butterfly, Star and Fairy designs
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Oval photo plaques
Oval photo plaques can be fixed on to the granite memorial plaques on a Stone Memorial Orb. When purchasing a bronze plaque, you also have the option to include a photo plaque as a personal tribute. Photo memorial plaques may be attached to the scattering totem poles located within the scattering memorial areas at The Oaks.
In order to achieve best quality reproduction of the image, the original hard copy should be provided where possible. Emailed or scanned images may not produce as good of a result.
Image
Size
Black and white
Small 5x7cm
Black and white
Large 7x9cm
Colour
Small 5x7cm
Colour Large 7x9cm Sizes above are to be used on granite plaques, speak to the team for bronze plaque options.
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”A photo plaque on my wife’s memorial orb gives me a place to feel close to her. Coming to The Oaks to see her brings me real comfort.”
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Memorial benches Our range of benches, made from high quality Chiltern stone and natural timber provide a restful place for you to reflect and remember your loved one. Sitting here gives families a quiet space to feel close to someone special. The careful blend of comfort, privacy and natural beauty makes these benches a meaningful choice for those who want a memorial that can be visited throughout the year. Personalisation options are available, allowing you to create a tribute that reflects the life, interests or character of your loved one. Interring ashes At The Oaks, our memorial benches offer a peaceful and lasting way to honour a loved one. Families can choose to inter ashes within the bench, creating a dedicated place to return to whenever they need a moment of reflection. Each bench is carefully positioned to make the most of the surroundings, offering gentle views across the grounds and toward the wildflower meadow that comes to life in the summer months.
Location • Memorial gardens Options
(Subject to additional cost) • 5, 10, 15, 20 year renewable lease • Interment memorial (South Downs bench) • Motif designs and inscription • Bronze memorial plaque
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The Southdowns Interment bench The Southdowns bench offers a unique feature for holding ashes within the bench. Steel caskets within each stone niche chamber can hold up to two sets of ashes or personal keepsakes and mementos. Each niche chamber has a bronze front plaque providing an area for personal inscription and motifs. Memorial benches offer 8 plaques and are shared, each niche is purchased seperately, or they can be purchased together.
The Solent remembrance bench The Solent bench offers shared ownership of the bench within our grounds. Each bench has an option to add individual memorial plaques to commemorate your loved one with personal inscription and motifs or the interment of ashes.
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Choosing the right place for a memorial
Selecting where to place a memorial at The Oaks is a personal decision, and taking a moment to reflect on what feels right can bring real comfort. Our grounds offer a variety of peaceful settings, each with its own character. You may prefer a spot beside the wildflower meadow, where the colours change with the seasons and the landscape feels open and full of light. Others are drawn to the woodland, surrounded by established trees and birdsong, offering a sense of calm and continuity. It can also help to think about the type of memorial that best reflects your wishes. Stone provides strength and longevity, creating a lasting tribute that settles naturally into the environment over time. Wood offers a softer, more organic feel, ideal for those who want something that blends gently into the landscape. Whatever you choose, our team at The Oaks can guide you through the options so your memorial sits in a place that feels meaningful, peaceful and true to the person you are remembering. Choosing the right place for a memorial
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Memorial checklist Our team are on hand, in person or over the phone to help you make a decision. We welcome you to come take a visit and experience our different areas. If you would like more information about our memorial items, please get in touch.
To assist you with finding the right memorial for your loved one, you can note down your chosen memorials, locations and inscriptions below, or use this as your quote when you meet with one of our friendly team members.
Item No.
Memorial
Lease length
Location
Price
Inscriptions
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26 The Oaks Havant Crematorium is a trading name of South of England Funeral Partners Limited. Registered in England and Wales No. 06961496. VAT registration No. 107656468. Registered office: 1000 Lakeside, Western Road, Portsmouth, Hants, PO6 3FE. V2 Jan2026. All content correct at the time of printing - January 2026.
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