Power of Parents ® Middle School Handbook
Chapter 4
Make the following agreements with your child:
High Quality Agreements A good agreement is clear and understood by all. But rules are broken when they only reflect the parent’s wishes. Agreements work best within strong relationships built on mutual trust, respect, honesty, responsibility, and care for one another. Children who feel valued and respected in family discussions are more likely to take these agreements seriously. At times, you may have to ask for an agreement based on respect for your authority. In those cases, emphasize that your purpose is to protect, not control, and increasing responsibilities will come with time. Framing rules in terms of care and guidance rather than punishment strengthens the foundation of trust between you and your child.
No drinking alcohol before age 21.
No other substance use.
No socializing in places where youth are drinking alcohol or using cannabis.
No riding in a car with a driver who has had any amount of alcohol or cannabis.
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