Power of Parents ® High School Handbook
Chapter 4
Make the following agreements with your teen:
High Quality Agreements A good agreement is clear and understood by all. But rules are broken when they only reflect the parent’s wishes. Agreements work best within strong relationships built on mutual trust, respect, honesty, responsibility, and care for one another. Teens who feel valued and respected in family discussions are more likely to take these agreements seriously. At times, you may have to ask for an agreement based on respect for your authority. In those cases, emphasize that your purpose is to protect, not control, and increasing responsibilities will come with time. Framing rules in terms of care and guidance rather than punishment strengthens the foundation of trust between you and your teen.
No drinking alcohol before age 21.
No other drug use.
No socializing in places where teens are drinking alcohol or using cannabis.
No driving impaired.
No riding in a car with a driver who has had any amount of alcohol or cannabis.
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