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ANIMAL BITES

CAR ACCIDENTS

MEDICAL MALPRACTICE

Hosting Thanksgiving in Our Home MAKING NEW MEMORIES AND TRADITIONS

BICYCLE/ MOTORCYCLE ACCIDENTS

Over the years, my wife and I kind of transitioned from traveling to our different family members’ homes throughout the holiday seasons to hosting the gatherings at our house. We try to spend time with everyone we can, and when the kids were little, it was definitely a challenge packing them all up and visiting the family. So, during the last two years, we have hosted Thanksgiving at our house and invited both sides of the family to get together. It’s what works best for us because it gives us an opportunity to see everyone under one roof, and it’s always interesting seeing both our families interact with one another, which is something we don’t get to see too often! Luckily, even when we did travel, it wasn’t too far away. Our families live near the Kansas City metro area, and that’s part of what makes it possible for everyone to come to our home. It allows us to hang out together and do all the preparation for the different dishes we all enjoy. The ham and mashed potatoes always end up being the family favorite. There’s some special way of making it, and I don’t know what the magic is behind it, but it’s always something we look forward to. Each side of the family has their own traditional dishes; frankly, I always look

Obviously, everyone has their own opinion, but something about my mom’s deviled eggs just calls out to me, and I always look forward to those at Thanksgiving dinner. Traveling is much easier nowadays since the little ones are a bit older. But we also enjoy hosting Thanksgiving at our house because we just recently adopted two kids earlier this year, and our home makes for a more comfortable environment for them. I never want them to feel out of place visiting one set of relatives and then another, so when we host gatherings, they get to feel as if we’re all one big family. And that’s how we want them to feel with everyone. Usually, it’s just my parents who would come over to visit during the holiday season. But, my wife’s brothers, sisters, nieces, and nephews come over as well, so it totals out to about 15 or 20 people. Aside from the delicious food, watching football has always been a fun tradition for us. During Thanksgiving, my dad and father-in-law will have the game on the television, and they always have a great time doing that. Our newly adopted son is on the high school football team, so I’m really excited to introduce him to that part of the tradition and watch it all together.

BRAIN & SPINAL CORD INJURIES

BURN INJURIES

CONSTRUCTION INJURIES

NURSING HOME ABUSE

SLIP & FALL ACCIDENTS

forward to my mom’s summer salad. It’s basically coleslaw, but it was my grandmother’s recipe, which makes it even more special to us.

Thanksgiving is all about showing gratitude and spending time

BOATING ACCIDENTS

It isn’t much of an argument, maybe a debate in some sense, but we all try to figure out whose dish is the best. It’s always who has the best dressing, the best dessert, or the best deviled eggs — and for the record, my mom makes the best deviled eggs!

with your family, and I’m so glad I have the opportunity to do that and create memories and traditions with the kids that’ll last a lifetime. –Adam Evans

TRUCK ACCIDENTS

PHARMACEUTICAL & DRUG INJURIES

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Unlike other types of injuries, brain injuries are not limited to just physical body effects. In the wake of a brain injury, it’s important to note that physical and emotional experiences can vary in severity. It can cause mental, psychological, cognitive, and emotional changes for a victim due to the imbalance of chemicals in the brain. Depending on the severity of the injury, these damages can last days, weeks, or much longer. WHAT CAUSES THIS PROBLEM? Many would assume that a brain injury can only result from hitting your head on something. But that is not the case! It can also be sustained by the motion of the brain hitting the skull. This could be from whiplash — a forceful, rapid back-and-forth movement of the neck — or even simply a jolt to the head or body. Depending on the area of the brain impacted and the severity of the injury, the brain can change how it works. WHAT ARE SOME COMMON EMOTIONAL DAMAGES? Physical damage to the brain can result from a blunt force injury or a stroke. These kinds of injuries cause physical damage to the brain tissue, affecting a wide range of functions, namely speech, language, and cognitive skills. NAVIGATING THE EMOTIONAL DISTRESS How Brain Injuries Affect Emotions Celebrate the Holi

We’ve heard of guard dogs, but have you ever heard of a guard cat? Well, Bandit the calico cat somehow knew exactly what to do when she spied intruders at her owner’s back door! Some may call it instinct, some may call it luck, but to Fred Everitt, she’s a hero. Everitt, a 68-year-old retired oral surgeon, was sound asleep in his Mississippi home on Sunday, July 24, when Bandit started letting out deep meows sometime between 2:30–3 a.m. Everitt assumed Bandit had seen another cat or other animal outside. Cats tend to be active at night, and Bandit is no exception. She’s been known to roam the living room and explore the kitchen cabinets while Everitt sleeps soundly. He quickly realized it was something else when she came into his room and tried to pull his comforters off and clawed at his arms. Bandit’s behavior was unusual, so Everitt knew something was wrong. “She had never done that before,” Everitt said. “I went, ‘What in the world is wrong with you?’” FELINE DEFENDER PREVENTS ROBBERY GUARD CAT MODE ACTIVATED

Bandit’s persistence eventually pulled him from bed, and after throwing his robe on, he went to investigate. When he finally got into the kitchen, he noticed two figures — one

with a crowbar and one with what looked like a handgun — trying to break into his back door.

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By the time Everitt returned from retrieving his own handgun, the intruders were gone. Thankfully, it didn’t turn into a confrontational

Join us in Kansas City to kick off the season and celebrate Thanksgiving with lights, turkey trots, and good times! HOLIDAY LIGHTS ON FARMSTEAD LANE Enjoy a nightly show synchronized with your favorite holiday and movie music. You can view the show from your car in the Farmstead’s main parking lot. Watch, listen, and enjoy a free holiday-light show.

situation, and Everitt gave credit to the 20-pound cat that he adopted from a Humane Society. If it hadn’t been for Bandit’s alertness, it could’ve been a completely different story.

Tune in to 90.5 Rose FM to hear holiday music as you watch this year’s spectacular show.

The display is at the main entrance of the Farmstead; you can park in the Farmstead parking lot and come and go as you please. They ask you to please turn off your vehicle’s lights while watching the show! The show takes place from 5–11 p.m. Nov. 24–30 at Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead, 13800 Switzer Rd., Overland Park, KS 66221. LUMINARY WALK Kick off the season with the annual Luminary Walk! This festive family walk goes through lights at the Overland Park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens. You can take a stroll along the lit pathways to experience the magical Gnome and Fairy Villages, serene winter woods by candlelight, and the colorful Children’s Garden.

“I want to let people know that you save a life when

you adopt from a pet shelter or rescue one,” Everitt said, “but the tides could be turned. You never know when you save an animal if they’re going to save you.”

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Some examples of common emotional damages include:

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Lack of empathy or patience Change in self-esteem Personality changes Easily irritable or frustrated

Grief and sadness

Feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness

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Suicidal thoughts

Withdrawal from favorite activities

Isolation from others

Some individuals are more susceptible to emotional damage from a brain injury than others. This includes people who have suffered concussions or

brain injuries in the past as well as those who may have had mental health issues before the injury, such as depression or anxiety.

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There are even times when victims may turn to drugs or alcohol to cope with the changes caused by a brain injury. That, in turn, causes further emotional damage brought on by the injury. If you experience emotional pain and suffering from a brain injury, a brain injury lawyer at Dickerson Oxton, LLC can make it easier for you to recover the financial compensation that you deserve. Contact us today at 816-368-563. iday Season in KC!

Inspired by TasteOfHome.com Apple Cranberry Crisp

ME GOOD TIMES

Guests can also enjoy musical performances in four different locations and visit Santa in his Woodland Depot. The gardens are bright with color, while the woods are lit with candles lining the walkways. Trees, buildings, and bridges are all part of the show, with thousands of lights aglow! This event will take place Nov. 25–26 from 5–10 p.m. Check out ArtsAndRec-op.org for more information and ticket prices! WARD PARKWAY THANKSGIVING DAY RUN Nothing says Thanksgiving like a classic turkey trot! On Nov. 24, you can kick off your Thanksgiving Day celebration with a run or walk for the entire family! Wear your turkey hat, pose for

If you’re feeling old-fashioned, treat yourself to this warm and bubbly dish. Nothing says Thanksgiving quite like a classic apple recipe.

INGREDIENTS

• 3 cups peeled and chopped tart apples • 1 1/2 cups cranberries • 3/4 cup packed brown sugar, divided

• 1 tbsp lemon juice • 1/2 tsp ground cinnamon • 1/2 cup all-purpose flour • 1/3 cup butter, cold • Vanilla ice cream (optional)

DIRECTIONS

pictures, and earn your pumpkin pie and special turkey trot T-shirt by running along beautiful Ward Parkway. Guests can participate in a 5K, 10K, or a 1-mile walk, and younger guests can run the 200-yard Little Turkey Trot! To register and for more information, check out WardParkwayThanksgivingDayRun.com.

1. Preheat oven to 375 F. 2. In a large bowl, combine apples, cranberries, 1/4 cup brown sugar, lemon juice, and cinnamon. 3. Grease an 8-inch baking dish and pour the mixture into it. 4. In a small bowl, mix flour and the remaining brown sugar. Cut in cold butter until the mixture is crumbly. Sprinkle this over the fruit. 5. Bake uncovered for 25–30 minutes or until the topping is golden brown and the filling is bubbly. If desired, serve with vanilla ice cream and enjoy!

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What Adam Looks Forward to During the Holiday Season Calico Cat Saves Owner From Would‑Be Burglars Understanding the Emotional Damages After Brain Injuries November Events in Kansas City Apple Cranberry Crisp A Daily Dose of Gratitude

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If you want grateful children, you need to be grateful parents. Consider how you can incorporate gratitude more into your everyday life. Are you as thankful as you should be? Do you repay favors and write thank-you notes? Do you regularly talk about why you’re so fortunate or what you’re thankful for? Cultivating gratitude in your life sets a good example, and many studies show it benefits your mental health as well. Next, consider how you can encourage your child to reflect on who they’re grateful for. Acts of kindness and returning the favor to those who have been good to us can inspire kids to put their gratitude into action. Doing some yardwork, sharing a toy, or making a painting as a gift can help children understand how powerful it can be to outwardly show our gratitude for the people who are in our lives. Consistency is the most crucial factor, so try to find ways you can incorporate gratitude into your everyday routine. Children of any age can keep a gratitude journal with their parents’ help. Some families also use a gratitude jar where each family member can write what they’re grateful for on a slip of paper and add something different to the jar each week. It’s the perfect way to keep gratitude front and center. These lessons may not sink in immediately, but by cultivating these positive habits in our everyday lives, you will see a big difference in the long run.

Most parents want their kids to view Thanksgiving as a meaningful event — not just an opportunity to indulge in turkey and mashed potatoes. Unfortunately, most kids’ eyes will glaze over when their parents launch into a lecture about thankfulness. You will likely find better success by emphasizing the value of gratitude all year long. “What do you say?” It’s a question we all ask our young children after someone does something nice for them. This practice instills good manners, but it shouldn’t be confused with teaching gratitude. Imparting the meaning behind the words “thank you” takes something more. Raising Thankful Children A DAILY DOSE OF GRATITUDE

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