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October 2023
Patrick’s Experience Coaching Kids and Clients A coach can push you to be the best version of yourself, and becoming a decent coach is no easy task. If you’ve ever played sports, had a devoted teacher, or learned from an experienced mentor, you know what they do is incredible. Having all the right pieces is crucial: an effective game plan, tactics, and motivation. While I don’t consider myself a Manchester City fan, you can’t deny that Guardiola is one of the best soccer coaches in the world right now. One quote from him I always remember is: Lessons From the World’s Best Coaches Expressway Tower • 6116 N. Central Expy., #1201, Dallas, TX 75206 • 214-682-7132 Alps Building — Historic Stockyards • 222 W. Exchange Ave., Suite 106, Fort Worth, Texas 76164 • 817-382-8387
They also need to inspire their team to follow their guidance wholeheartedly. To do that, you need to understand people and their specific motivations. This is what makes some coaches surpass those who simply instruct. I’ve coached before — it was for my kids’ sports teams! Coaching little ones playing soccer and basketball was more a test of my patience than anything else, and I did learn that coaching young kids may not be my specialty. It’s hard to motivate others when your whole team is asking what ice cream they can eat after the game! It was challenging, but the experience gave me even more respect for coaches. NBA coach Phil Jackson led powerhouse teams like the Chicago Bulls and Los Angeles Lakers, winning several championships and raking in countless awards. What made Jackson different from others was his determination to understand people and how to lead them best. He studied psychology, philosophy, and even Buddhism to do this. Talk about dedication! With his skill set, he knew what makes people tick. Jackson can coach any player and communicate with them exactly how they need.
“Our job is to convince guys that our way is the best way to cross the road. The tactics and training and facilities are important, but I still have to convince you.” These words perfectly describe the importance of a coach. Nothing matters if he can’t convince others his plan is right! I can confirm this also applies to my work as an attorney. Whether convincing a jury or communicating with a client, I must understand them and show that my point of view is just. Renowned coaches all over the world have taught me a few things when it comes to being a successful attorney. I need to understand people, learn where they come from, and know them on a personal level to effectively inspire them. The key to doing all this is always to be truthful and completely transparent. With these elements, I can be the attorney my clients need to lead their cases and guide them through this process. I‘ll keep honing these skills every day I walk into the office and the courtroom!
Oct. 6 is National Coaches Day, a time to celebrate everyone who guided us and made us into who we are today. I’ve been coached, dabbled in coaching, and led others in my career, so I’ve always admired famous coaches. But what makes a “great” coach? From years of observation and practice, I’ve recognized that empathy and a strong mentality are vital to coaching. When I played sports, I had great coaches and others who were not so great. Some know exactly how to motivate you, while others teach you new skills and techniques. Doing both simultaneously is rare. Those elements combined are what make a coach stand out from the rest.
–Patrick R. Kelly
Another coach I admire is Pep Guardiola, the Manchester City soccer team coach.
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FROM APPLICANT TO ARRESTED: The Fugitive Who Applied for a Police Job
Even most criminals need traditional employment to pay the bills, but Zyeama Johnson looked for work in all the wrong places. Perhaps Johnson imagined her previous experience with law enforcement would give her a leg up in her application to the Hudson County Sheriff’s Office in New Jersey in 2022. But unfortunately for her, all of Johnson’s past and future involvement with the police would be on the wrong side of the law. Johnson was looking for a legal way to earn a living when she applied for a job as a security guard at the sheriff’s office. But her past money-making ventures
check before hiring — or that this office specializes in resolving outstanding warrants. When processing her application, the Hudson County Sheriff’s Office discovered the active bench warrant in Pennsylvania. The routine investigation also found 10 additional active bench warrants in Jersey City, New Jersey; Johnson had allegedly failed to appear on traffic charges. Most employers in this situation would probably move on to the next applicant, but the sheriff’s department decided to call Johnson in for an “interview” instead. Unsurprisingly, they had no
question, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” a new meaning. After taking Johnson into custody, the police proceeded to search her property. Incredibly, they found two credit cards in her possession they believed were stolen. Police added credit card theft charges to Johnson’s already considerable rap sheet. To make matters worse for her, the sheriff’s office also contacted Johnson’s former employer, the United States Postal Service, which launched its own investigation into her conduct. As of October 2022, Johnson was being held in a Hudson County jail awaiting extradition to Pennsylvania for the most serious charge against her. It’s unclear why she thought applying for a law enforcement position with outstanding warrants was a wise career move, but at least she made her would-be coworkers’ jobs easy that day.
allegedly involved fraud, and she had failed to appear in a Pennsylvania court on the charges. Presumably, Johnson did not realize
intention of hiring her and arrested the fugitive on the spot. It gave the standard interview
a police station would perform a background
Unlock the Secrets of a Calming Bedtime Routine
Does it always seem like your kids get a burst of energy right before bedtime? After a jam-packed day, your child’s pent-up stress and energy will likely spike when it’s time to head to bed. The key is implementing a consistent bedtime routine to help them transition into sleep mode. Try therapeutic techniques to soothe your child for a full night of shuteye. Squeeze ’em tight (add pressure). Just like you would swaddle a baby, you should wrap your kids up like tiny burritos! When you add pressure that squeezes them tight, your child’s tactile and proprioceptive senses are activated, which creates a sense of calm and relaxation. You can also do this with weighted blankets, tight cuddles, or by tucking them in nice and snug with pillows placed around them to add more pressure. Get them warm and cozy. Warmth is another element that can increase calm and signal bedtime! Put their
blankets in the dryer so they’ll have them nice and warm when it’s time to lie down. Additionally, you can give them a warm drink with a straw, as the warmth not only relaxes them but the straw also encourages sucking motions, which are incredibly soothing for children. Create gentle movements. Repetitive and rhythmic movements like rocking back and forth generate vestibular input for the nervous system. This will help your children feel comfortable and ready to sleep! You can try these motions by rocking them on a yoga ball for a few minutes, reading a bedtime story in a rocking chair, or sitting with them in a porch swing or hammock right before bed. Turn the screens off. We already know that looking at screens harms our sleep, so why would that be any different for children? Decrease screen time as the day advances and completely turn off any screens at least two hours
before bedtime. Not only do you want to cut these harsh lights, but you should also add comforting ones! Unwind in dim lighting as the day ends, and place lava lamps or a night light in your children’s rooms to help soothe them. Also, adding a white noise machine or playing calm music can do wonders! Combine these therapeutic methods to create the perfect bedtime routine that will have your energetic kiddos in bed without a hitch.
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TAKE A BREAK
THE REVENGE OF THE RONIN Unveiling the Historic Massacre of Kira Yoshinaka
Never has there been a tale of revenge so blood-filled and epic as the 47 Ronin. Honorable and loyal to the end, these samurai warriors proved their dedication to their master in an incident that would become immortalized in Japanese literature, theater, and film. So, what led these samurai on a vengeful rampage? It started in April 1701, when nobleman Asano Naganori, also known as the lord of Ako, was treated with complete disrespect and arrogance by Kira Yoshinaka, a court official. After holding back his anger, Asano finally snapped. Asano revealed his sword and attacked Kira in the middle of the palace’s main hall. Although Kira lived to tell the tale, Asano broke court rules and was ordered to kill himself. Following the court’s ruling, Asano ended his life on April 21, 1701. After his demise, Asano left behind his faithful 47 samurai, whose status was lowered to ronin (samurai with no leader). Crushed by his death, the ruthless men created a plan. The 47 Ronin laid low for two years by dispersing and living in “retirement.” The years passed, and the men were able to lower Kira’s guard. At this point, one of the ronin had reached his 80s and could not participate in the vengeful plan. However, the remaining 46 men raided Kira’s estate on an early January morning in 1703. They fearlessly battled Kira’s samurai and decapitated Kira. The ronin then carried his head in a basket for miles to their deceased lord’s grave.
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Authorities were intensely conflicted on how to treat the vengeful massacre. While it broke the shogun’s rules,
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disembowelment, hara-kiri . The ronin ranged in age from 15 to 77 years old.
After their deaths, the ronin became legends and were buried alongside their master, Asano Naganori. You can visit this famous site at Sengakuji Temple in Tokyo.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE
What Makes an Influential Coach and Leader? Criminal’s Job Hunt Backfires: Arrested During Interview! Tips to Soothe Your Energetic Kids Before Bedtime
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Homemade Pumpkin Spice Latte
The Legendary Tale of the 47 Ronin
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The Troubling Saga of Sherri Papini’s Disappearance
THE SHOCKING TRUTH BEHIND SHERRI’S KIDNAPPING REVEALED
Sherri Papini vanished out of thin air in November 2016. The day she went missing, her husband, Keith Papini, came home expecting to see his wife and kids but found the residence eerily empty. Keith called the children’s day care to ask when his wife picked them up, but they informed him she never did. While the kids were safe, Sherri was missing. Three weeks passed before Sherri was finally found alone on a freeway nearly 146 miles from her home on Thanksgiving Day. She was cut and bruised, her long hair chopped short, and her back branded with a Bible verse. When the police questioned Sherri, she was hesitant and frightened. She claimed two Hispanic women abducted her, took her to an unknown location, chained her up, and tortured her before planning to traffic her. The story horrified
the community and made many Hispanic women fear wrongful persecution. At the time, male DNA was found on Sherri’s clothing, despite her insistence no men were involved in her kidnapping. Years later, in 2020, the authorities used genetic DNA technology to track down the man, Sherri’s ex-boyfriend, James Reyes. This was when Sherri’s tale began to fall apart. Reyes was questioned by police, who exposed the truth about Sherri’s vanishing act. He revealed that Sherri told him her husband, Keith, was abusing her, and she needed his help to escape. She convinced him to brand her, but all her other injuries were self-inflicted. Reyes had no idea about Sherri’s fabricated story involving two Hispanic kidnappers. At first, Sherri stuck with her story when questioned again but eventually admitted it was all a hoax.
In 2023, Sherri Papini was charged with false statements and mail fraud and sentenced to 18 months in prison for her long-winded lies that wasted police resources and federal financial assistance. Her story resulted in numerous innocent Hispanic women being wrongly questioned by authorities. But now, these women can rest easy knowing the case is finally closed.
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