We Can Do Anything, But Not Everything
ASKING FOR HELP WHEN WE NEED IT
We are only human, and that means sometimes we make mistakes, can’t get to everything all at once, are forgetful, and aren’t skilled at everything. Being human also means that we have others who we can lean on and rely on to lend a helping hand — if we let them. For many of us, asking for help when we need it can feel like we are a burden, chips away at our pride, and goes against all that we stand for. However, there is value and respect in recognizing when we need help and knowing how to ask for it! In fact, even extremely confident and independent individuals ask for help at one point or another — it’s an opportunity to learn from others, socialize, and build relationships. Doing everything all the time for yourself isn’t healthy. It increases stress, often shuts you out from the world, and is not the best use of your time and energy. Instead, here are some great benefits of seeking out help when you need it: Seeking help builds resilience. Asking for help from others often pushes us out of our comfort zones and teaches us to be stronger than putting ourselves at risk by setting our pride aside, letting our guard down, and allowing someone to provide a helping hand — or two.
Asking for help protects us. In life, when we take on too many projects, are overwhelmed and unsure of how to do something, or just ridiculously busy, stress is right around the corner if it isn’t already creeping up. By seeking out help, we are protecting our mind and body from overkill. When too much stress amounts, our bodies are at an increased risk of getting sick, and we may even become anxious and nervous. The more hands, the better! Not only does having someone else assisting provide extra manpower, but it also opens up the opportunity for fresh ideas and different perspectives to tackle a project or problem. Asking for help boosts productivity. When we come together to lend a helping hand, our happiness is increased on both ends. It feels good to be needed, and receiving assistance helps to assure us that we are loved and cared for. The next time you need help, don’t think twice about asking! Getting assistance is healthy and natural — it’s part of being human. We can’t always do it all! Seeking help increases happiness all around.
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