REPORT OF ABUSE When reporting a case of abuse, it is very important to have as many facts as possible. Try to find a quiet place to talk where you won’t be interrupted, then attempt to gather as much information as possible at the initial conversation so you don’t have to repeatedly bring it back up. Ask questions that don’t imply answers (If the case is eventually prosecuted, it is critical that the child was not asked leading questions). Questions to Ask • Have you told this to anyone before? If yes, find out: Who, When, What was done about it? If the abuse has been dealt with properly, simply let the Camper share and demonstrate love to them. If no, continue with questions for our report. • When does this happen (how recent, how often, under what circumstances)? • What happened (you don’t need extensive details; a professional will question the child later)? • Does this happen to anyone else (are there other children in need of care)? • Who does it? (This info is not needed to file, so don’t press the issue as often the abuser is a family member, which makes the situation even more difficult for the child.) Respond Calmly Children often love the person who is abusing them and simply want the abusive behavior to stop. Because they love and care about the person, they may be reluctant to get the person in trouble. If children start to tell someone about the abuse and that person reacts with disgust or doesn’t believe them, they may stop disclosing the events. If a child begins to tell you about possible abuse, please listen carefully.
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