HEALTH IS WEALTH MAGAZINE
Relationship Psychology
Why Do You Attract the Same Type of Relationship Over and Over Again?
Have you ever wondered why, despite changing partners, the same stories keep repeating? Toxic relationships, lack of commitment, emotional dependency, or always ending up with emotionally unavailable people —it’s no coincidence. This article explores how our unconscious emotional patterns lead us to attract the same types of relationships and, most importantly, how to break that cycle to experience healthier, more authentic love. Break the Cycle and Transform Your Emotional Patterns The Root of the Problem: What Are You Repeating Unconsciously?
Childhood Wounds:
Our first experiences of love (with parents or caregivers) create an emotional blueprint. If we grew up in an environment lacking affection, experiencing abandonment, or overprotection, we are likely to seek relationships that unconsciously mirror those dynamics. Example: If you had an emotionally absent parent, you might be drawn to distant or cold partners, trying to “fix” what you couldn’t in the past.
Attachment Patterns:
Anxious Attachment: Constantly seeking validation and fearing abandonment. Avoidant Attachment: Fear of emotional intimacy, leading to superficial relationships or withdrawing when someone gets too close. Secure Attachment : Confidence in yourself and others, creating healthy and balanced relationships.
Limiting Beliefs:
Ideas like "I’m not enough," "Love always hurts," or "Relationships are hard" act as self- fulfilling prophecies. These beliefs shape how you choose partners and how you behave in relationships.
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