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A LEGACY OF LOVE REMEMBERING ON MOTHER’S DAY
Mother’s Day is special to our family. Jill and I both lost our moms to cancer. My mom, Nora, died when I was 12. Jill’s mom, Donna, passed away before Jill and I were married. We named our first company, NorDon, after them. We also named our son, Bram, after my mom’s maiden name, Bramlet. Here at LIST Birmingham, our roots run deep. With Mother’s Day fresh on everyone’s minds, we’ve recently spent some time reflecting on the special people who made sure we were taken care of before we could even take care of ourselves. For me, that was always my mom. A lot of us may have a similar story that revolves around how our mothers cultivated our talents and gave us the support we needed to get us through the perils of our youth. But my mom was anything but an average story. Through her lifelong lessons and unique worldview, I was able to get a glimpse of just how much I truly mattered, not just to her, but to whatever field I chose to pursue. I’ve carried these lessons with me to this day, and I like to think that I’ve passed them on to my family as a result. Looking back, the whole setup was kind of a miracle to begin with. I was born on my mother’s 41st birthday, making me the last child she’d ever have. As a result, I also earned the unfortunate distinction of having the oldest parent of any kid I knew, which made for more than a couple playground scuffles when somebody made the situation the butt of some joke. You hardly notice stuff like that as a kid; your parents are just your parents. As you grow older, though, you start to think about the remarkable circumstances of your journey. You only realize the sacrifices your parents made after you get old enough to make a few of your own. Her constant care for me, her “baby,” drove my other siblings crazy, which caused me quite a bit of strife behind closed doors, but she wasn’t going to have it any other way. I’m not sure if it was her older age that chipped away at her tough exterior by the time I was born, but whatever it was, my mother never allowed a day to go by without letting me know how much she loved me. She never missed my Little League games, and she let everyone know when her “baby”was at bat. It embarrassed me a little at the time, but now, it is one of my fondest memories. That reliable, constant love that only a mom can give you is the type of thing that never leaves you.
herself to become the bookkeeper for the family. For her whole adult life, she handled our shoestring budgets and always
managed to put money away for Christmas time and birthdays, no matter how
tight things were. I gradually became a man of numbers, too, which led to my career as a CPA and my eventual founding of LIST Birmingham. I took what she taught me and ran with it. Fromwatching her keep us afloat all those years, I was able to truly understand the idea
of unconditional love and just what that means in the real world. From crunching numbers to buying me a new baseball glove for Christmas, it took on a lot of forms.
This Mother’s Day, take a moment to remember how you got where you are today. Take a moment to remember that love and what it still means to you. Take a moment to appreciate your wife, or even your daughter —who may grow up to be a mother herself someday. Most importantly, take a moment to enjoy your family and think about the life you want for them. For those of us who want to provide our families with the best possible place to live, turn to your friends at LIST Birmingham. Our flat fee listing program will help you keep more of your hard- earned equity. This month, we sold our 1000th home!
For more information, give me a call at 205-223-6192 or visit our website anytime at www.Melvin.ListBirmingham.com.
-Melvin Upchurch
As I got a little older, I started to realize just howmuch my mom did for the family. My father, a blue-collar guy, worked in a factory, and my mom took it upon
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PROM SAFETY 4 Tips to Keep Your Child Safe
Seeing gorgeous dresses, fancy suits, corsages, and boutonnieres pop up in advertisements can only mean one thing: Prom season is here! This time of year, teens are busy choosing the perfect dress or suit to wear, finding a date, making dinner reservations, and preparing for an evening of fun and dance. During this exciting time, give your teens a little encouragement and guidance to ensure they have a safe and memorable evening.
Long before the invention of radios and cellphones, homing pigeons were used to send messages as early as the sixth century. During World War I, war pigeons carried lifesaving messages past enemy lines for the American and French armies, often being wounded in the process. In 1918, Cher Ami, a black check hen used by the U.S. Signal Corps, became the most famous of them all. On Oct. 2, the United States 77th Division was trapped behind enemy lines in the Argonne Forest during the Meuse-Argonne Offensive, a three- month push by the Allies during the final throes of WorldWar I to force the Germans to surrender. It became the bloodiest battle in U.S. history. For six days, the encircled division endured relentless attacks and suffered heavy casualties, but their orders were clear: don’t retreat and don’t surrender. The division dispatched two homing pigeons with requests for help, but both birds were shot down. When friendly fire began raining down on the 77th, Major Charles White Whittlesey felt he had no choice but to send the last pigeon, Cher Ami. The pigeon’s desperate note read: BRAVE LITTLE CHER AMI The War Pigeon Who Saved the ‘Lost Battalion’ As Cher Ami rose from the brush, she was shot down, to the despair of the watching soldiers. However, after a few seconds, she fought her way back into the air, flew through a torrent of gunfire, and made it to division headquarters 25 miles away. She had been shot in the breast, the eye, and the leg. Because of Cher Ami’s brave flight, 194 of the original 554 men of the 77th Division survived the battle. One month later, WorldWar I came to an end. Cher Ami survived the war as well, thanks to the surgeons who performed emergency surgery on her. One soldier even carved her a little wooden leg. She became a well-known hero to both soldiers and children in the States. For her service in Verdun, the French Army awarded her the Croix de Guerre, and she was inducted into the Racing Pigeon Hall of Fame. Cher Ami finally succumbed to her wounds in June of 1919 and is now on display in the Smithsonian alongside Sergeant Stubby, a terrier who served 18 months on the Western Front. “We are along the road parallel to 276.4. Our own artillery is dropping a barrage directly on us. For heaven’s sake, stop it.”
CREATE A PLAN
Create a plan for prom night, and make sure everyone knows what it is. Your teen should know and communicate with you what time the dance starts, what time it ends, if they’re going anywhere after, and when they’ll be coming home.
PHONES
Make sure your teen’s phone is completely charged in case they need to reach out to you sometime during the night. Encourage your teen to check in once every few hours, and establish an emergency code to use if they find themselves in trouble.
DRIVING
You and your teen should also have a plan about the modes of transportation, who’s driving, and how many people your teen is going with. Trusting the driver is important. If you’re hesitant about letting your child be driven to prom, find another way. If your teen is driving the family car, confirm that they will be the only person driving the vehicle.
DRESS SAFETY
Make sure your teen is dressed comfortably and appropriately to ensure they have a fun night
without any accidents. Encourage them to wear comfortable shoes that they can walk and dance in without pain. High heels are fashionable, but they shouldn’t wear heels so high that they may fall and hurt themselves. Whatever your teen decides to wear should be comfortable and hemmed to the appropriate length based on their height.
By keeping these safety measures in mind, your teen will have a wonderful and safe evening!
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LEARNING TO BE GRATEFUL Some Ways to Help Children Appreciate Their Teachers
DONATING SCHOOL SUPPLIES
Teacher Appreciation Week runs from May 6–10 this year, and there are plenty of ways students of all ages can thank their educators for everything they do. Being a teacher isn’t an easy job, and the people who make it their profession are passionate about helping kids learn. Depending on how old your child is, they may need a parent’s help in showing their appreciation. Here are a few ways parents and children can appreciate teachers together.
Many teachers use their own money to buy school supplies for their classroom. This is just one of the ways teachers go above and beyond on a daily basis, and buying some extra school supplies can help ease that cost. Take your child shopping with you and help them pick out supplies that you know their teacher will appreciate.
THANK-YOU NOTES
This gesture is simple and sweet and can be very thoughtful. Telling a teacher what makes them outstanding can often be just as valuable as a gift. Help your child write an appreciative note and then write one yourself. Teachers often have to maintain the happiness of students, administrators, and parents. Your card could relieve some of the stress of that balancing act and let them know that you acknowledge their efforts.
A HOMEMADE MEAL
Making a homemade meal (or dessert) shows teachers that you went the extra mile to appreciate their hard work. You could make a favorite dish of yours or try to find a new recipe online. Either way, encourage your child to help you with the process so that the meal is truly a gift from both of you.
Your children spend several hours a day with their teachers, so fostering relationships with them is vital. Use this day to help your children understand the importance of teachers, to teach them the power of gratitude, and to encourage them to show respect for everyone who helps them in life.
CLASSIC FRENCH OMELET
TAKE A BREAK
Inspired by SeriousEats.com
Ingredients
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3 large eggs
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Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper
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1 tablespoon unsalted butter
Directions
1. In medium bowl, beat eggs with plastic fork until last traces of white are just mixed in. Season with salt and pepper. 2. In an 8-inch nonstick skillet, melt butter, swirling over medium heat until foamy but not browned. Add eggs, stirring rapidly with fork, while moving skillet to agitate eggs. Break up all curds by scraping bottom of skillet as they form. Stop stirring when eggs are softly scrambled and creamy (but loose enough to come together into a single mass), 1–2 minutes. 3. Using fork, gently spread egg in an even layer around skillet and scrape down any wispy bits around the edges. The top surface should be loose and creamy, but if still liquid, swirl skillet to bring raw egg to the edge where it will set faster. 4. Remove from heat. Tilt skillet up by handle. Using fork, gently roll omelet down over itself until nearly folded in half. Using fork, push omelet to edge of skillet so that the lower edge of egg just begins to overhang. Use fork to fold overhanging edge of egg back over, closing omelet. 5. Turn omelet out onto plate. It should have the seam on bottom.
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What My Mom Gave to Me
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The War Pigeon Who Saved the ‘Lost Battalion’
Prom Safety Tips
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Teacher Appreciation Week Is Here!
Classic French Omelet
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Black Gold
BLACK GOLD FOR YOUR GARDEN SOIL
National Learn About Composting Day!
Most people have heard of composting one way or another. Your mom might have kept a bin in the backyard for overripe Halloween pumpkins, yard clippings, and egg shells. You might even have a coworker who boasts about the giant compost pile they use to fertilize their garden and lawn.
vegetable scraps; paper products, including receipts, paper towels, and tissues; wood chips, leaves, and other types of waste that are not categorized as processed food, meats, or fish products in their compost bin. Compost can stabilize gardening soil, keep the soil from contracting diseases, and help the ground retain moisture. WHY DOWE COMPOST? Besides giving gardens and lawns significant nutrients, composting also reduces landfills. According to the United States EPA, “Food scraps and yard waste together currently make up about 30 percent of what we throw away.”Organic material often takes longer to decompose in a landfill due to being wrapped in plastic. The more organic material that is composted, the quicker it can deteriorate. LEARN ABOUT COMPOSTING DAY The best way to recognize this holiday is to learn as much as you can about composting. When you dive in, you’ll discover you can compost materials you never knew you could, including latex balloons and cardboard egg cartons. Once you do your research, you can start your very own compost by dedicating a part of your backyard to disposing of organic matter or by purchasing a compost bin. This article covers the basics of composting, but there’s still plenty more to learn! Head to your local farmers market or botanical garden and talk to the experts about any questions you have — they’ll be sure to give you some great tips.
Whatever your level of composting knowledge may be, there is always more to learn about this popular and extremely beneficial method for handling organic food waste. Luckily, May 29 is National Learn About Composting Day! This day provides a great opportunity to introduce yourself to and begin the conversation about composting if you haven’t already. Below are a few answers to your basic composting questions to get you started. WHAT IS COMPOST? Compost is decomposed organic matter, which is especially good for people who have gardens or aspire to live a sustainable lifestyle. People put coffee grounds;
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