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August 2023
NEVER GIVE UP:
My Perseverance and Triumph While Pursuing My Dream
Fall seven times and stand up eight. August celebrates Never Give Up Day, which reminds us of the importance of always keeping our eyes on the prize and continuing to press forward — especially when things get tough. Thinking back to my dream to become an attorney, I’m reminded of my difficult journey — I didn’t follow a traditional path to law school. In my last year of college, I applied to law school, but sadly, I wasn’t accepted into any accredited law schools. The only letters I got back were from unaccredited law schools, and if I attended an unaccredited law school, I would only be able to practice in the same state where I attended law school. So, instead of giving up, I took a job as a teacher’s assistant, gave it some time, and reapplied. During that time, I can’t tell you how many people told me to let my dream go and move on, but I never accepted that. I never took my eyes off my goal and was finally accepted to Georgia State University. I attended a summer program there and fought hard. Then, I struggled through my first year. Like in medical school, most students accepted in the program are cut out for the rigorous coursework. But for me, it was tough. I had a lot of passion and knew I was as smart as everyone else. I read all the books and understood the terms and concepts, but it was a struggle. I remember staying up until one or two in the morning studying because it took me longer to digest the material. I was determined and convinced that this was what I was meant to do, and there’s a difference between the two. When you’re convinced, you don’t see any other options, which changes your entire mindset. Everything rides on the power of inevitability.
After the first semester, I took a mandatory writing course to continue law school at Georgia State. The fate of the whole class was determined by one grade: a writing assignment. I worked the entire semester on one lengthy writing brief. The day before it was due, I went to the computer lab to check my floppy disk to make sure everything was in place, and just my luck — both the floppy disk and my computer were corrupted. Everything was gone. I just about had a heart attack. That happened at about 5:30 in the evening, and it took me a half hour for my determination to kick into high gear. I went to the law school library and worked until they closed at midnight. Then, I went to the undergrad library that was open 24 hours and worked until right before class the next morning. I didn’t blink. I didn’t flinch. I prayed and understood what I needed to do. And I did it. It wasn’t the best grade in the world, but it was good enough to pass, and I was invited back to continue my journey the following year! When you’re in a position like that, you can fold and feel sorry for the hand you’ve been dealt, or you can fight and believe you are supposed to win. That’s what I did, and that’s what I continue to do every day. It’s this mindset that allowed me to keep going. So much rides on our ability and willingness to pick ourselves up in the face of adversity. When life knocks you down, dust yourself off, and get back up and fight!
“I was determined and convinced that this was what I was meant to do, and there’s a difference between the two.”
–Robert D. James
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A Textbook Won’t Do You Justice! Why Traveling Is the Best Form of Education
You gain a deeper appreciation for history. When you walk through important historical locations, you understand the past better because you’re living it! You’re walking the same
As you mark your calendars with upcoming holidays, get-togethers, events, and school activities, there may be one you’re missing: American Adventures Month. This monthlong event encourages you to be adventurous and travel so you can better understand the world around you. While you can research online or open a book to learn more about any part of the world, nothing beats visiting these places yourself. Here are three reasons why traveling is the best form of education.
roads or staring at the same landmarks that civilizations from centuries ago did. When you immerse yourself in the history of a place, you can better understand why its origins are meaningful. You leave your comfort zone. Traveling somewhere new can be nerve-wracking! You won’t know the best mode of transportation or know anyone there — you may not even speak any native languages! By leaving what makes you comfortable, you’ll learn to depend on yourself and embrace change and uncertainty. These skills can and will help you in all aspects of life.
You learn more about people. When you travel to other states or
There isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach to parenting, so when you become a parent, you’ll likely employ techniques you learned from family or friends and what you learned on your own. Naturally, these techniques and your preferences may differ from what your loved ones did for their children, and sometimes, it can be difficult for them to adjust. Because of this, how do you set boundaries with family members regarding your children? Be direct when communicating boundaries. Don’t assume your loved ones know or understand your parenting style. Instead, clearly state your rules, values, practices, and expectations when others are around your children. When creating physical boundaries, you can say, “Please don’t give my child soda when they visit. That’s something I don’t want them to have.” For emotional boundaries, you can say, “Please don’t force my child to hug you. If they refuse, give them their space without compromising their feelings and comfortability.” Develop a strategy for handling pushback. “I did this with my kids, and they turned out fine!” You may have heard this quote when vocalizing your wishes to loved ones about how to treat your children. If they question your tactics, practice what you will say so you’re not caught off guard. But most importantly, remember why you’re establishing these boundaries ‘But I Did This With My Kids!’ How to Set Boundaries With Your Family internationally, you can learn a lot about the culture of these places by speaking to residents. They can suggest historical places for you to visit that teach you about their heritage, lifestyle, and what life was like for their ancestors. You will think about things you’ve never considered before and have a deeper appreciation for the views of others.
So, travel this month and learn something new! We understand you can’t drop everything just to hop on a plane to another country, so try venturing to a nearby city you’ve never visited and learning about its history.
and upholding those values. If your loved ones fail to respect your wishes, don’t be afraid to reinforce those boundaries — it’s okay to say no! Give your family time to adjust. Changing and creating new habits is challenging, so give your loved ones time to adjust to your boundaries. However, if you’re continuing to reinforce your wishes and still meeting pushback and disrespect, it’s okay to distance yourself or cut ties. You have to put what’s best for you and your family first. If you have any questions or concerns about establishing boundaries with your loved ones, contact a marriage and family therapist to assist you. They can provide more insight and resources to help you during this time.
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If you wanted to pinpoint a civilization that has impacted our society and government in more ways than one, ancient Greece should be one of the first civilizations you think of. The ancient Greeks made significant contributions to philosophy, mathematics, No Food, Beverages, Gum, or High Heels Allowed! How Greece Is Preserving Its Ancient Sites
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astronomy, medicine, literature, and so much
more. Today, you can still visit their magnificent monuments and tour ancient sites — it will surely make you feel like you’ve returned to ancient times!
HOISIN-GLAZED PORK CHOPS
However, if you plan on traveling to
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Greece, there are a few things you need to know. For example, in 2009, Greek authorities implemented a law stating that you cannot wear high heels while walking around these historic sites. Because these monuments are centuries old, they have experienced a lot of wear and tear. And visitors (or locals) wearing stiletto heels can damage these sites even more with their spiked heels. But that’s not the only law Greek authorities instituted in 2009. You also can’t bring food, drinks, or gum to most of these historical sites. The Odeon of Herodes Atticus in Athens, Greece, was built in 161 A.D. To this day, it continues to be a stadium for live performances, festivals, and other activities. But in 2009, Greek authorities and the venue’s maintenance crew knew something needed to change. As the crew cleaned up the stadium, they discovered nearly 60 pounds of chewing gum beneath the marble seats. Because of this incident of littering — and many others — Greek officials came up with a solution, and new laws were created. If we want to preserve the history of these places and the culture of the ancient Greeks, continue learning more about them, and use their buildings and stadiums, then we must follow the preventive measures the modern Greeks put in place. So, if you plan on traveling to Greece to see the iconic Parthenon temple, the Odeon of Herodes Atticus, the Temple of Apollo, the Temple of Zeus, or other locations, be sure to wear your comfiest shoes, and eat and drink before visiting!
These savory and sweet pork chops are covered in a flavorful hoisin glaze and take only 30 minutes! Ingredients
• 2 garlic cloves, minced • 2 tsp minced ginger • 1/3 cup hoisin sauce • 2 tbsp rice vinegar • 2 tbsp water
• 4 boneless pork chops (about 2 lbs) • 3/4 tsp salt • 2 tbsp sesame oil • Cilantro (optional)
Directions 1. In a small saucepan over medium heat, simmer garlic, ginger, hoisin sauce, rice vinegar, and water. Whisk occasionally until mixture is fully incorporated (about 4 minutes). Set aside. 2. Lightly salt pork chops. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, add sesame oil and wait until smoking. Place pork in skillet and cook until browned (3-4 minutes on each side, depending on thickness of pork chops). 3. Remove pork chops from skillet and transfer to a cutting board. Let rest for 5 minutes. 4. Drizzle hoisin mixture over pork chops and top with cilantro if desired.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE
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An Unyielding Spirit
Ditch the Textbook — Go Travel Instead
Boundaries Can Be Met With Pushback — Are You Ready?
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Hoisin-Glazed Pork Chops
You’re Forbidden From Wearing Heels in Greece?
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Beyoncé Owes the IRS How Much Money?!
Even Beyoncé Owes Them Money! YOU’RE NOT ALONE WHEN DEALING WITH THE IRS
After filing your taxes, a thought that may race through your mind is, “I hope the IRS doesn’t come after me.” Thousands, if not millions, of people are in the same boat — including celebrities. Many celebrities have been in trouble with the IRS, such as Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino, Shakira, Ozzy and Sharon Osbourne, Nicolas Cage, and more.
However, we can add another A-List celebrity to this list who filed a petition against the IRS: Beyoncé Knowles-Carter. On Jan. 18, 2023, Beyoncé received a Notice of Deficiency, which outlined the amount of money she owed to the IRS. The organization estimated the singer owes $805,850 in taxes and $161,170 in penalties for 2018 plus $1,442,747 in taxes and $288,549 in penalties for 2019. That’s almost $2.7 million that the “Crazy in Love” artist must pay! Beyoncé filed a petition against the IRS’ claims on April 17, 2023, and asked them to reassess the penalties and amount of taxes she owes. According to Beyoncé’s lawyer, Michael C. Cohen, the singer should get an itemized deduction of $868,766 since she donated to charity in 2018. Beyoncé founded the BeyGood Foundation, an organization created in 2013 that assists
others with education, disaster relief, mental health, and other issues. However, at the time of writing, it’s unclear which charities she donated to. Additionally, Beyoncé’s petition states that the IRS allegedly disallowed portions of Beyoncé’s business income deductions, utilities, insurance, management fees, and legal and professional services in 2018 and 2019. Furthermore, Cohen argues that even if she owes any tax deficiency payments, the penalty shouldn’t apply because Beyoncé has “acted reasonably and in good faith.” A court hearing has yet to be scheduled at the time of writing. But the former Destiny’s Child member’s lawyer told PEOPLE magazine that they “are working with the IRS and anticipate that the matter will be resolved shortly.”
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