Should You Quit? WHEN TO WALK AWAY FROM A FRIENDSHIP OR COMMITMENT
It’s time to reframe quitting. Most of us think of leaving a commitment as a shameful, weak thing to do — but if you’re stressed and overwhelmed, it can actually be a mental health boost! That doesn’t just apply to walking out on a job. You should also consider quitting other things that weigh your life down. Maybe you’re in a book club that bores you or a friendship that feels like a chore. Quitting could reduce your stress and free up your personal time. THE RIGHT TIME TO QUIT Consider these questions if you’re staring down the barrel of a commitment and aren’t sure whether this is the moment to walk away. 1. Do you dread spending time on this thing/with this person? 2. Does the commitment cause you stress or leave you in a bad mood?
3. Could you spend your time more happily and productively on something else?
Could someone else easily take over your role if you leave?
Vanessa Zoltan meets with a different guest and talks through whether they should quit a specific thing in their life — whether it’s a yoga subscription, a city, a choir, or the habit of telling a white lie — and how to do it gracefully. You can also pick up a copy of “Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less” by Greg McKeown. The philosophy of essentialism is about “challenging the core assumptions of ‘we can have it all’ and ‘I have to do everything’ and replacing them with the pursuit of ‘the right thing, in the right way, at the right time.’” McKeown’s book is packed with valuable lessons for anyone who struggles to say no or walk away.
If you answered “yes” to any of our questions, it may be time to quit — as long as doing so doesn’t put you or anyone else in physical, mental, or financial danger. Not convinced? Consider the philosophy of organizer Marie Kondo. Does this friendship, volunteer opportunity, or club spark joy? If not, thank it for its service and move on. MORE GUIDANCE ON QUITTING To learn more about paring down your life, check out the podcast “The Real Question.” As we write this, it’s in the middle of a season called “Should I Quit?” In each episode, host
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Grilled Steak Salad With Peaches Inspired by Delish.com
This summer salad is both hearty and healthy!
Ingredients
• 1 lb skirt steak, fat trimmed • 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar • 1 clove garlic, minced • 1 tbsp light brown sugar • 1 tbsp vegetable oil • Kosher salt • Black pepper
• 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil • 1 large lemon, juiced • 6 cups baby arugula • 2 ripe peaches, thinly sliced • 1/3 cup crumbled blue cheese or feta
1. In a large resealable plastic bag or baking dish, combine steak, vinegar, garlic, and brown sugar. Marinate 20 minutes at room temperature. 2. Remove steak from marinade, coat with vegetable oil, and season generously with salt and pepper. 3. On a grill or pan set to high heat, cook steak until desired doneness. Rest 5–10 minutes, then thinly slice against the grain. 4. In a small bowl, whisk olive oil and lemon juice to make dressing. Season with salt and pepper. 5. In a large serving bowl, add arugula, peaches, blue cheese or feta, and steak. Drizzle with dressing and gently toss. Directions
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