Colorado Parent - January 2026

THE SECOND TUITION:

Understanding the Hidden Costs of Private School Life BY JULIANNA STEEN

WHAT IS THE “SECOND TUITION”? Have you ever used a store-bought brownie mix? (I’ll confess, I have.) The thing is, the boxed brownie mix is the most important part… but it does require a few additional ingredients to mix in and make it “complete.” Similarly, you may think signing a check for your child’s tuition is knocking all their expenses out in one fatal swoop of a pen, but in actuality, there are many hidden costs that come with private school. Extracurriculars, uniforms, travel, and community traditions (hello, senior trip) are just a handful of examples. While some of these expenses may be optional, many are socially expected— leading your child to tell you they “need” xyz just like how I “need” extra chocolate chips in my brownie batter. Are they technically required? No. But do you enjoy the overall experience as much without them? Also, no. These expenses that go beyond the sticker price of tuition are often called the “second tuition.” UNPACKING HIDDEN COSTS Private school is an investment. And just like any good investment, you need to be aware of all of the factors so you can make the best decision—and budget

accordingly. So let’s break down a variety of costs you may face: ATHLETICS & TRAVEL TEAMS The benefits of playing sports are manifold: According to the National Library of Medicine, organized sports “assist in breaking the vicious cycle of inactivity and unhealthy lifestyle by improving caloric expenditure, increasing time spent away from entertainment media, and minimizing unnecessary snacking.” Basically, sports get your body moving and give you a sense of purpose— not to mention the soft skills, social skills, and team spirit that develop. So it should come as no surprise that the National Federation of State High School Associations (NFHS) reports high school sports have been drastically increasing each year since the pandemic, hitting a record high in 2024–2025. Many students attend private school specifically for the athletic advantages it provides them, including greater playing opportunities, recruiting and college exposure, and experienced coaching staff. Sometimes, athletic programs are included in tuition; nonetheless, competitive teams like “club” sports often carry extra fees, such as:

• Seasonal travel (hotels, airfare, meals) • Additional training, clinics, private coaching • Equipment and sport-specific gear • Uniform upgrades or “optional” spirit wear If you’re hoping to get the most out of the athletic programs offered at the private schools you’re interested in, be sure to consider these expenses before signing on the dotted line. Every parent wants their child to thrive, and one of the best ways for them to discover a sense of community and belonging is by getting involved in extracurriculars—especially in the arts. The NLM states that participating in extracurricular activities in high school is “associated with positive academic outcomes, such as higher grades and an increased likelihood of pursuing a postsecondary education.” The arts ARTS, ACTIVITIES, & ACADEMIC ADD-ONS teach students critical thinking, problem solving, and allow them the freedom to think creatively. Private schools are known for offering many unique, creative programs that

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