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Getting a divorce is rarely a fun prospect. However, depending on the number of false narratives, frightening mistruths, and common misunderstandings you have been convinced of, it can seem like an even more daunting proposition. Luckily, several negative aspects of divorce are simply overblown — or patently untrue. Here are some common divorce myths you should be aware of. EVERY DIVORCE GOES TO TRIAL One myth is that all, or the majority of, divorces ultimately culminate in a jury trial. While Hollywood may make you believe that every divorce ends in a high-stakes court battle, in reality, that is rarely the case. Around 90% of divorces in California are concluded amicably, and that is factoring in the over 40% of marriages where children and child custody are involved. There are various alternatives we can use to get you the equitable settlement you deserve; these include mediation and arbitration, where many divorces are successfully negotiated. ALL ASSETS ARE SPLIT EQUALLY California is a community property state, which means that rather than dividing marital assets equally, they are instead distributed equitably. Likewise, assets that predate the marriage are usually exempt from being included in a divorce settlement. This can also be heavily affected by the existence of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, if any exist. ALL WOMEN RECEIVE CUSTODY AND SPOUSAL SUPPORT An outdated preconception is that women are always granted primary custody and spousal support. In California, both parents have the ability to obtain custody, regardless of gender. The court will make its decision based on a number of factors, including finances, housing, history of substance abuse and domestic violence, and, ultimately, what is in the best interests of the children. While spousal support was commonly awarded to women in decades past when fewer women worked, it is far from automatic and is, in fact, less prevalent than ever before.
Delicious Ice Cream Cake
Easy to make and sure to impress, this ice cream cake recipe is a crowd-pleaser that will satisfy everyone’s sweet tooth.
INGREDIENTS •
2 cups crushed graham crackers
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1/2 cup chopped nuts (optional)
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1/2 cup melted butter
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1/2 cup chocolate or caramel topping (optional)
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2 quarts ice cream (any flavor, divided)
DIRECTIONS 1. Grease a 9-inch springform pan.
2. Combine graham cracker crumbs and butter; press onto the bottom and up the sides of the pan.
3. Place pan in the freezer for 30 minutes to allow crust to set.
4. Meanwhile, let the ice cream melt just enough to become spreadable. Then spread half of the ice cream into the crust, sprinkle with nuts, then top with the remaining ice cream.
5. Drizzle with topping, if desired. Freeze for 3 hours or until firm.
6. Remove from freezer 15 minutes before serving.
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