Pass the Torch: How to Keep Your Family Stories Going for Generations
BY PAM MOLNAR
S ome of the best memories of my childhood were when we were gathered around the table after dinner with my parents and grandparents. While most of the time their conversations revolved around politics or current events, occasionally they would share stories about their childhood. Those thoughts brought out another side of my parents and grandparents. It was strange to imagine them as younger people who did the same sort of things we were doing as kids. On some occasions, my grandmother would bring out her old fam- ily photos for us to look through, and that made their stories come to life. If you are looking for a way to keep the family stories alive, but not lose the younger generation to the glow of their electronic devices, check out some of these ideas. Get out the old family photos and movies. It’s time to introduce all the characters. Show them Grandma’s prom pictures and Grandpa in his army uniform. Open the wedding photos and watch the grainy movies that don’t have any sound. Talk about the people who have passed on, the changes in fashion, and the family resemblances.
Tell a story from when you were their age. Go around the room, starting with the youngest person, and tell a story from that age. For example, if the youngest is five, share your own stories of something that happened when you were five. Play “What’s Your Talent?” Find out who you get your talents and traits from. Ask who can wiggle their ears, curl their tongue, and who has a second toe longer than the others. Take time for show and tell. Search the attics and closets to find old report cards, military awards, high school jackets, and wedding or baptismal gowns. The kids will be intrigued by the special items that have been saved all those years. Search your family tree online. You can open the doors to the past with just a few details about your ancestors. Log into Ancestry.com or FamilySearch.org and enter facts such as names, important dates, and where those events took place. Consid- er taking a DNA test to find out your real ancestral background, reconnect with long- lost cousins, or perhaps find an unexpected family member.
Share the stories on paper. After the death of his brother, my father started writing down the stories of their childhood to share with my uncle’s chil- dren. The stories can be sent via email as they are remembered or collected and made into a book. Pass down to the next generation. Every family has their own traditions or special skills that would be lost if not shared with the next generation. What are some of yours? Scrapbook together. If your extended family just spent the holidays together or went on a vacation, why not collaborate on a scrapbook? If you prefer a digital scrapbook, look at Shutter- fly, Mixbook, or ask everyone to add to a file you set up on Google Photos. Create a new family story. Try something for the first time as a family. Share experiences that are so much fun that you want to do them again next year. That’s how new traditions are started. By sharing, you ensure that your family’s memories live on for generations.
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