“I don’t have to play out different lives in different circles. I live one full life. No lies. No half-truths. No hiding.” I feel very lucky that my loved ones accept me for who I am and the life choices I’ve made. My Mum even joined me for the Dublin Pride celebrations in 2018. It was her first time and she got right into the spirit of it all. How fantastic does she look?! I was so proud of her. bringing their children to the Pride events and parades. Being part of something so inclusive where families, friends and lovers can share important moments is really moving. thing. Not having to play out different lives in different circles. I live one full life. No lies. No half-truths. No hiding. That’s not always possible in our community. Fear, anxiety and even the law mean that some of us have chosen to stay in the closet. That’s where Pride can make a real difference, particularly online events and forums, because they reach people who might not otherwise be able to find the support network they need and deserve. Wherever possible, we need to be a source of hope and inspiration to others. Beacons that show them there isn’t just light at the end of the tunnel. There are rainbows. Pridemeans more…family It brings me so much joy to see parents It’s upsetting to think that not everyone is embraced and accepted like I am. The isolation, rejection and discrimination some of
Than ever. So, we’re looking at what it means to our community during Pride season, and maybe more importantly, what it means every day of the year. Pride means more…
…to Bob Sy. Bob Sy | Associate Director, Cross Cultural Network Co-Lead and LGBTQ+ Operations Lead, Accenture in Ireland
our community experience can make a person feel forgotten or that they don’t matter. So, being a friend, listening more or simply making a person feel seen, can make a huge difference to their day. Smiles, hugs and chats are free, so why not give them out when you’re with someone who needs them. Pridemeans more… solidarity Living in a country where it’s safe to be open and out is a freedom I don’t take for granted. It’s one of the things I love most about living in Ireland, knowing I can be myself and that’s okay. I was born in the Philippines and we’re making strides there, but we have some way to go yet. Being part of the LGBTQ+ community is still considered a crime in 71 jurisdictions where violence, hate and phobia keep our community from living full, happy and inclusive lives. As individuals living in countries where freedom of choice is not just tolerated but encouraged, it’s important to stand up for the rights of people who are denied the same liberties. I remind myself all the time that small acts, when compounded can make a big difference.
There’s something very special about taking part in a Pride parade with friends, family and colleagues, so celebrating it virtually is certainly different. But it’s shown me just how committed and resilient the LGBTQ+ community and allies are. I’m constantly amazed at how inventive online parties and events have become and it’s great that we still have an inclusive and inviting place to talk about what and who we love. As an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights there are so many reasons why Pride means more to me, but here are my top three. Pridemeans more…authenticity I truly believe that when we’re confident enough to live our truths, it unlocks a power and allows us to reach our full potential. You can break free from the things that limit us and take the time and space you need to explore new opportunities and territories. I’m fortunate to have a great career and personal life and I put that down to one
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