While each is a familiar phrase, I’m busy trying to work out what each means for me. This makes it sound like a choice, which it isn’t. The reality is that life does go on, and you still have all the same responsibilities, with the extra appendage of cancer attempting to weigh you down. The question is: will I let it? And how much of this can I control? Select here to watch Navigating the Uncertainty of Neuroendocrine Cancer: Insights and Coping Mechanisms video. Realism and Optimism: My Coping Mindset I’m fortunate, my natural propensity sits somewhere near realism, with an occasional dose of optimism. So, I get on with it, because Mr. Realism recognises that I’m too young to retire, too stubborn to give up – and I don’t have a choice. Mr Optimism looks for ways to make it all a little easier. Managing Fatigue and the Stigma of Asking for Help When my cancer is stable, my biggest issues are fatigue, and a complete inability to ask for help. Being a man, my logical reaction is to plough on and push through the fatigue, while stubbornly refusing any form of help beyond free prescriptions. You won’t be shocked to hear that I sometimes fall flat on my face, simultaneously infuriating my family. Travel Tips for Work and Leisure I catch a train from Cheshire to London once a month, getting up at 5am, and sometimes not getting home before 9pm, so it’s a long day. Using the Passenger Assistance App I discovered the Rail Passenger Assistance app, and the Disability Lounge at Euston Station. Both are fantastic. After booking my tickets, I go on the app, pop in my details, and the help I need. I’m now safe in the knowledge that after a long meeting and a short tube ride, I can check into the lounge with my Hidden Disability Sunflower lanyard , and collapse on a chair. I’ve been known to nod off...
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