October PCSBV Newsletter 2023

Death is an inevitable part of life, yet it remains one of the most challenging topics to discuss openly. Avoiding conversations about death and a life-changing diagnosis not only impacts the patient, but also takes a significant toll on their loved ones. For the patient, keeping silent about their diagnosis can lead to emotional isolation and denial. It deprives them of the opportunity to express their fears, hopes, and wishes. Suppressing these emotions can intensify anxiety and distress, making their final days more difficult. Conversely, for family and friends, not talking about a loved one's diagnosis can create a sense of helplessness. They may want to provide support but feel uncertain about how to do so. The absence of open dialogue can also prevent them from understanding the patient's wishes regarding medical care and end-of-life decisions, leading to potential conflicts and regrets. Furthermore, failing to address the reality of death can hinder the process of closure and grieving for both the patient and their loved ones. It leaves unresolved emotions and can make the grieving process more complicated and prolonged. THE TOLL OF AVOIDING DISCUSSIONS ABOUT DEATH AND TERMINAL ILLNESS THE WEIGHT OF SILENCE

Encouraging open, compassionate conversations about these difficult topics can provide comfort, clarity, and an opportunity to cherish the time remaining together. It's an essential step towards a more peaceful and supportive end-of-life journey for both the patient and their loved ones. Beginning these conversations can be difficult. Here are three tips on how to have open and compassionate conversations when you someone you know has been diagnosed with a life-changing diagnosis. Choose the Right Time and Place : Selecting an appropriate time and setting for the conversation is crucial. Ensure a comfortable and private space, free from distractions. Timing matters; initiate the discussion when you both feel emotionally ready. Practice Active Listening : Listen more than you speak. Let the person share their thoughts and feelings without interruption. Show empathy and understanding by nodding, maintaining eye contact, and offering non-verbal cues. Avoid judgment and provide a safe space for them to express their fears and concerns. Be Empathetic and Honest : Approach the conversation with empathy and honesty. Acknowledge the gravity of the situation and express your support. Use "I" statements to communicate your feelings and avoid making assumptions. Encourage them to share their wishes, fears, and preferences regarding their care and future plans. Remember that this is a time for emotional support and not for giving unsolicited advice.

AN OPEN MIND AND A CUP OF TEA CAN HELP WITH CONNECTING. - DR. KATHRYN MANNIX, PALLIATIVE CARE PHYSICIAN

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