January February 2023

Too often, had we proceeded with more caution into our friendships, relationships, or partnerships, it would not have been necessary to guard against bitterness and unforgiveness. Neither to heal from unnecessary narcissistic trauma or recover lost pieces of ourselves. The bible clearly states that, "A wise person is cautious in relationships." So, when someone demands that you should trust them, that's an indication of a person you should definitely proceed with great caution into a relationship with, if even at all. For trust is earned and never an entitlement. The amount of caution that we drive our relationships with, will ultimately end up determining the quality of life that will spring forth and that we experience on this side of heaven. The happy ending to this emotional saga is that I have found purpose in the pain I have experienced. I figure I experienced it, so you don’t have to! And if you have, through my experience, expertise and certifications I can help individuals accelerate their healing as an Empowerment and Image Coach. I wish I would have had someone that did what I do in empowering empaths and healing the fragmented parts of the soul. There just wasn’t back then. Though talk therapy has its place. But with trauma, and especially with Narcissistic Trauma, talk therapy can actually retrigger trauma and continue to keep a person stuck in the trauma! I love the different techniques I have learned about brain science; I mix them with biblical spiritual insights thus creating a radiant transformation for a life full of hope and fulfillment. On your healing journey, remember it is a life-time journey and not a one time event! And show yourself the same compassion and patience you would with a dear friend. Become your own beautiful bestie along the way! And if something in my story resonated with your story, I would love for you to share!

Robin Starr Robin Starr is an advocate for women who empowers Christian women to shine inside and out after Toxic Traumatic relationships.

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