Accepting my “new normal” was hard, but gradually, I started accepting the fact that I was different from neurotypical people and that reasonable adjustments are crucial for me to survive. My lecturer thought that I was requesting an extension for my essay submission and lecture slides ahead of classes because I was lazy. When she said I should not rely on support, I got the impression that I should have pushed myself harder to be like other students who did not require any support. However, I learned that the lack of these adjustments unfairly disadvantaged me. I had needed these adjustments to prevent deterioration of my conditions and to maintain my quality of life. I also gradually found that my friends and other lecturers were more supportive and understanding than I had thought. I developed great friendships with my classmates who kindly offered me support while I was struggling with my new challenges. It was a bit frustrating at first, but I gradually got used to explaining about my challenges and support needs in my words. .. the lack of these adjustments unfairly disadvantaged me.
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