Law Office of Matthew Konecky - July 2018

IS YOUR CHILD BEING BULLIED? Warning Signs You Can’t Ignore

“I had the pleasure of working with The Law Offices of Matthew Konecky, P.A., and they simplified my situation to where I am extremely satisfied. This is the first time that I had a situation taken care of where I did not have to ‘lift a finger,’ and it had extremely positive results. I cannot thank them enough!” –Tom A. “I can’t even begin to explain in detail how far Mr. Konecky is willing to go above and beyond for his CLIENT SUCCESS STORIES Somewhere along the line, our society accepted bullying as a social norm for children. “How can kids learn to cope with the real world if they can’t handle a bully?” is a common misguided justification. Kids who don’t meet the standards of what they are socially expected to be aren’t accepted among their peers. Rather, they are treated like emotional punching bags for anyone deemed more culturally acceptable. But the life of a child is truly a special force in this world, and just because someone differs from physical, social, or cultural normativity doesn’t give anyone the right to treat them poorly. Differences should be celebrated, and bullying needs to be eradicated. The best way we can start is by making an effort to notice bullying and put a stop to it. Here are three warning signs. Headaches and Stomach Aches Anxiety is an emotional complex that tends to manifest itself in physical ways. If you notice your child has stress-related symptoms like headaches, ask them about their emotional well-being. An open- ended question like, “I’ve noticed you haven’t been feeling well a lot lately, can you tell me more about that?” will help open lines of communication. Change in Friends There are bound to be changes in friend groups throughout your child’s life, but that doesn’t mean parents shouldn’t take notice

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