Holland & Usry April 2019

5 Common Divorce Proceeding Mistakes

AND HOW TO AVOID THEM

2. NOT HAVING REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS It would be great if your divorce settlement met all the terms that most benefited you, but that’s just not plausible in most cases. It’s important to remember that there are two people in the divorce. No matter who “caused” the divorce, you have to set goals that are actually attainable rather than hoping for a miracle outcome. 3. HIDING YOUR MONEY OR ASSETS We can’t state emphatically enough just how misguided this tactic is. If you’re found out — and odds are you will be found out — the consequences are very serious. Telling the truth is the best thing you can do to help your case. 4. NOT UNDERSTANDING THE LEGAL PROCESS Like it or not, you have to reckon with how divorce works in the legal system. Without understanding the way a settlement will be constructed and agreed upon, you run the risk of making bad decisions. 5. CHOOSING THE WRONG DIVORCE ATTORNEY The person you hire to help you through your divorce will be your advocate and your voice. You need the right person on your side to ensure you get the best outcome possible. To find out if we’re the right choice for you, give us a call today.

Going through a divorce is a trying experience, and there’s no point in pretending otherwise. In addition to the emotional strain a divorce puts on the involved parties, it’s also a complicated, often protracted, legal matter. All too often, people let emotions compromise their decision making during legal proceedings. The stress of divorce affects everyone differently, but we’ve seen five mistakes over the years that happen far more than they should. 1. TAKING TOO MUCH ADVICE FROM FAMILY OR FRIENDS Their heart may be in the right place, but your best friend probably isn’t the best person to give you level-headed advice about your divorce. Even if they’ve been through a divorce themselves, they don’t always know the specifics of your situation. And they aren’t experienced divorce lawyers! Driving a car doesn’t make you a mechanic. You need a professional.

Good News

1 Peter 5:7

Cooking asparagus over high heat is a great way to add charred flavors while still keeping the spears crisp. This recipe pairs them with a tangy, crunchy peanut and coconut glaze. BLISTERED ASPARAGUS WITH PEANUT-COCONUT SPRINKLE

Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. Ephesians 3:16 I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His spirit in your inner being. Revelation 3:8 I have placed before you an open door that no one can shut. I know that you have little strength, yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name.

Ingredients

1 teaspoon agave nectar

12 ounces asparagus, stalks trimmed

1 teaspoon fresh ginger, peeled and finely grated

2 tablespoons vegetable oil

2 tablespoons peanuts, crushed

1 Fresno chile, deseeded and finely chopped

2 tablespoons shredded coconut, toasted

2 tablespoons soy sauce

Salt, to taste

1 tablespoon fresh lime juice

Directions

1. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, heat oil until shimmering. 2. Season asparagus with salt and sauté, tossing frequently until blistered, about 5 minutes. Transfer to a platter. 3. In a mixing bowl, combine chile, soy sauce, lime juice, agave, and ginger. Mix in peanuts and coconut. 4. Spoon over asparagus and serve.

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