Ronald McDonald Houses balance the need for families’ privacy and support, according to Adams. While families receive their own personal bedroom and bathroom, they can also access common living, dining, kitchen and laundry areas where they can meet with other families caring for their own sick children. After Najiyen began returning to duty in Altus during the week, he was grateful Kaleigh not only had a safe place to stay near Lillia but also other parents in the house around her, so she was not alone between the NICU and their accommodations. “We’ve been fortunate to have this as part of our experience and to give me peace of mind when I’m at work,” said Najiyen. “She’s able to go to lunch or talk with people that understand what’s going on, so she has that connection.” SERVING LOCAL FAMILIES The amenities offered at houses go beyond a place to rest and recharge, said Adams. The local Ronald McDonald House also enlists the help of guest chefs to provide at least one meal a day for families and they furnish some staples for families to prepare other meals in the kitchen facilities. Some volunteers also offer their services in providing haircuts and other personal care needs for those staying at the house, and musicians and artists have offered their talents at events hosted at the house for guests. Ronald McDonald House Charities also cares for those who live in the same general area as the hospital through the Ronald McDonald Family Room®, which offers services like showers, laundry, computer access and snacks without families having to make the round-trip journey home.
WRAPAROUND SUPPORT While all involved in this work hope for the best outcomes, Adams said the realities guest families face can come with loss and grief. But sometimes the families’ experiences in a Ronald McDonald House can help provide an added layer of support during their darkest time. “We help families that are not able to take their child home perhaps even more than the families that are able,” said Adams. “We do not provide clinical care, but our team walks by their side with each day no matter what it brings. They gain support from our team. They gain support from other families in the house. As I hear from families … we have given them the ability to be by their child’s side to continue to make memories until the day they are not able to take their child home.” Given the number of families the organization serves every year and its association with 90 percent of the world’s top children’s hospitals, Ronald McDonald House Charities has utilized family-centered care research that analyzes how critical hospitalizations of children impact families long after they return home. Stability from accommodations like Ronald McDonald Houses can help reduce some of the negative outcomes from those experiences. HOW TO HELP PROVIDE HOPE Ronald McDonald House Charities funds its services with help from individual and organizational donors who support its mission to keep families together. For instance, local McDonald’s restaurants provide a penny in donations for every pound of fries sold, and some feature boxes near the registers for patrons to make cash donations.
You have everything you need so you can focus on taking care of your child. Susan Adams, president & CEO of Ronald McDonald House Charities® of Oklahoma City
Dave and Stacy Lopez have not only donated personally to the organization for years, but they also have helped plan and coordinate events like Walk for Kids and the annual Red Shoe Rendezvous – which will take place at 6 p.m. on Sept. 23, 2022, at the Omni Hotel, 100 Oklahoma City Blvd. – because of the impact they have seen in the lives of guest families they have met. “To see all the work done through the charity and to see the space it provides for families to help give them hope, that to me is the most rewarding part of being involved,” said Dave Lopez, who has attended events at the local, national and international levels. “It’s a great place for hope.” Despite its global reach, the organization
“You have everything you need so you can focus on taking care of your child,” said Adams. Keeping families together became a greater challenge during the period of distancing and separation stemming from responses to the COVID-19 pandemic, which included not allowing siblings to stay with their families until recently. Ronald McDonald House Charities of Oklahoma City adapted to the changing guidelines to ensure they continued helping families. Despite suspending admission of new families into the local house on March 21, 2020, the organization continued providing accommodations to the families already staying there, said Adams. They
understands the importance of its role in local communities. As such, Adams said all money raised locally stays within the local Ronald McDonald House Charities programs. Donations can also take the form of toys provided for siblings to play with while staying at the house or food items for the pantries provided for families’ use, said Adams. For more information and ways to get involved with Ronald McDonald House Charities of Oklahoma City, visit rmhc-okc.org or call 405-424-6873.
supplemented their facilities with hotel rooms for new families for a time, and they still provided meals every day for parents with the help of hospital vouchers, packaged meals and community partnerships. As protocols started to ease, Ronald McDonald House began welcoming parents back, and the house and family room returned to normal operations in mid-April 2022. During this time, the local Ronald McDonald House completed its planned expansion to 40 bedrooms, and Adams said she is looking forward to using this new space to help even more families by providing a projected 8,067 accommodated nights in 2022 and about 12,400 nights in 2023.
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