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Features 10 SAVE MONEY ON COLLEGE TUITION
ON THE COVER Thomas is the winner of our 2024 Cover Kids contest in the 10-12 age category. Going in to the eighth grade in Edmond, he is an avid fisherman, plays soccer, likes to read, enjoys participating in his church’s youth
What families need to know about concurrent enrollment at Rose State College 12 TRANSFORMING TRAUMA INTO TRIUMPH Single mom Joni Owen’s foster care journey INSPIRATIONAL FIRST AMERICANS Meet film icon Yancey Red Corn 16 FIT FAMILY FUN YMCA membership perks inspire active family bonding 42 2024 FAMILY FAVORITES MetroFamily’s annual list of the top parent-vetted resources in the metro OKC’s best venues and entertainment for birthday bashes 54 EXPLORE EXTRACURRICULARS 52 PARTY PEOPLE Find a match for your child’s interests in MetroFamily’s Kids Programs Guide Departments 6 CONNECT WITH METROFAMILY Take advantage of our top seasonal resources 8 NEW & NOW 3 local happenings for families LOCAL FAMILY FUN Experience Olympic events around the metro and at home 22 MOM TALK OKC Renaissance: A decade of growth and adventure 24 CALENDAR OF EVENTS Family festivals, frivolity & frugal fun EXPLORING OKLAHOMA WITH CHILDREN
group and is a whiz at solving Rubik’s Cubes. His favorite place to visit in the metro is Arcadia Lake. PHOTO BY FOTO ARTS PHOTOGRAPHY
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Beat the summer sizzle at Insta-worthy Lake Tenkiller
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The benefits of splash pad fun and water play
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Letter from the Editor
T he publication of this issue marks my fifth year as managing editor of MetroFamily and my eleventh writing for the magazine. During that time, this issue has always been a milestone of celebration and reflection. We celebrate all the businesses and organizations named “MetroFamily Family Favorites” (you’ll want to hang on to this issue year-round for quick access to the parent-voted list of the best resources in OKC!). And we reflect back on how MetroFamily has been able to support local families for the past 26 years — while also looking toward how we can continue to serve you well in the future. One recent exercise really sums up this commitment by our MetroFamily team. We considered what values we hold dear as a company that also best serve our readers and the local businesses and organizations that seek to connect with families. As MetroFamily strives to help build strong families through community connection, these core values drive all our decisions as a company: 1. Inclusivity. We wholeheartedly support — and seek to reflect — every beautiful iteration of family in our community. 2. Social consciousness. We pay attention to what’s happening in our community, state and the larger world of parenting — and we inform local families of what they need to know, even when the news is hard to hear. 3. Integrity. We hold ourselves to a strong ethical standard not only in the journalism we provide but in all we do as a company. 4. Trustworthiness. Families can rely on us for vetted, honest information and recommendations. 5. Adaptability. We’re proactive in adapting to the changing world around us — as it relates to media, parenting and how families want to receive information. In today’s world of division and comparison culture, I’m so grateful for these strongholds. I’m proud to work for a company that reflects such powerful values, proud to work with other businesses in our community who cherish similar values — and especially proud to work on behalf of families like yours to help make Oklahoma City a better place for all of us.
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Your Parenting Playbook for OKC in July & August
Get back-to-school ready School will be back in session before we know it, and we’ve got all the resources you need to make the transition from summer to school a breeze in our Back to School Guide. Before your kids head back to the classroom, check out ideas to enjoy every last drop of summer, including Oklahoma trips on a tankful, 50 things to do for $5 or less and a countdown of family fun ideas leading up to the first day of school. Get classroom ready with a round up of district calendars, school supplies events, cost-saving tips and kids programs and extracurricular activities. Plus, get ahead on planning kid-friendly lunches and snacks and easy family dinners. Find all of this and more at metrofamilymagazine.com/ back-to-school-resources . Find 3 opportunities to learn, have fun and take advantage of local resources from MetroFamily in July and August. 1
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New & Now
Summertime Scoop 3 newsworthy happenings for families BY EMILEY BAINBRIDGE . PHOTOS PROVIDED.
A landmark of hope on Route 66 Bethany Children’s Health Center recently broke ground on a $178 million outpatient tower with a unique design sure to become a Route 66 landmark. The center provides expert medical care for children with special health needs, those who have experienced traumatic injuries and those seeking traditional pediatric care. The expansion will reduce the growing waitlist for children who need services and grant access to both critical and everyday care for more families here in Oklahoma and around the country.
COSTUME WORN BY GRACE KELLY AS LISA FREMONT IN THE PARAMOUNT PICTURES PRODUCTION OF REAR WINDOW , 1954. DESIGNED BY EDITH HEAD. COLLECTION OF MOTION PICTURE COSTUME DESIGN: LARRY MCQUEEN
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Classic Hollywood at OKCMOA
Oklahoma City Museum of Art’s newest exhibition Edith Head: Hollywood’s Costumer Designer displays 70 of the award- winning costume designer’s designs, worn by stars such as Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly, Ginger Rogers, Shirley MacLaine, Veronica
Lake, Barbara Stanwyck and Kim Novak, as well as many of Head’s sketches. With more than 400 films to her credit, Head ruled the costume design departments at Paramount and Universal Studios from the early 1920s to the early 1980s. She helped
define the style of classic Hollywood with her striking designs, which earned her 35 Oscar nominations and eight Oscar wins — more than any other woman to date. Edith Head: Hollywood’s Costumer Designer will be on display through Sept. 29.
Sunday Fun Days at First Americans Museum Visit the First Americans Museum on the third Sunday of the month and enjoy free admission for ages 12 and under. Families will have the opportunity to enjoy additional family fun including cultural presentations in the Xchange Theater, self-led gallery activities for kids and a guided museum tour. Families of all backgrounds will learn about the diverse 39 Tribal Nations in Oklahoma in a unique environment. Upcoming dates include July 21 and Aug. 18.
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W orried about the cost of college? Here’s some great news! Rose State College offers a tuition-free concurrent enrollment program for high school juniors and seniors. Whether they attend an accredited or unaccredited high school or are home schooled, juniors can earn up to nine hours of college credit and seniors can earn 18 hours, all of which is tuition free. The cost of books and fees is paid by the student. Courses available include English Comp 1 and 2, History, U.S. Government, College Algebra and more. These courses help students complete their high school graduation requirements as well as earn college credits to get a jump start on their post-secondary educations. Another benefit? Being successful in a concurrent college course proves the student is ready for and can do well in post-secondary education, helping them as they apply for college and scholarships in their future endeavors. How does it work? Any high school student at an accredited or unaccredited high school who is on track to complete all 15 curricular requirements for graduation no later than the spring semester of their senior year and meets one of the following requirements is eligible for the program: • SAT score is 990+ • PSAT score is 990+ • GPA is 3.0 • National ACT is 19+ The GPA requirement is waived for homeschool students. Students with an IEP or 504 are invited to complete a “Request for Accommodation” form as their current plan will not automatically transfer to Rose State courses. Similarly, students with physical disabilities, health issues (mental or physical) or learning differences are encouraged to contact the Student Access Services office for help and guidance. Courses can be taken on the Rose State campus; through hybrid coursework that combines online work with on-campus meetings; through FLEX options, which combine in-person, online and Zoom classes; online with testing at Rose State; and/or Interactive TV or Zoom Interactive Television. Local families can save money on college tuition What parents and students need to know about concurrent enrollment at Rose State College BY SARAH TAYLOR . PHOTOS PROVIDED.
Ready to apply? The application process includes completing an online form; getting agreements signed by parents, students and, if appropriate, high school counselors; proof of GPA and/or other testing scores; and the signing of a student contract. Students who successfully complete coursework with at least a 2.0 GPA will receive college credit, not only giving them a head start on their college careers but also helping them gain the experience and confidence to tackle their future schooling — all with the benefit of free tuition.
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It was such a great experience getting to work with MetroFamily from start to finish. They were so kind and patient in the interview and the photo shoot was so much fun, not only for Nora, but the whole family. We would love the opportunity to work with these people again. What a gift to the metro area . Jessica, Cover Kid parent
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TRIUMPH Joni Owen’s foster care story BY ERIN PAGE
JONI OWEN (CENTER) WAS NAMED FOSTER PARENT OF THE YEAR IN 2023 BY THE FOSTER CARE AND ADOPTIVE ASSOCIATION OF OKLAHOMA.
J oni Owen grew up in and out of foster care, but she never imagined becoming a foster parent herself. At age 19, she and her husband lived in Tennessee and were compelled by the overwhelming need for foster families in their town. Owen received her first foster care placement 25 years ago, and she quickly realized fostering is a calling she was made for. But she has since endured more than her fair share of hardships. Owen and her husband divorced, and she got sick and became blind. Owen moved to Oklahoma and assumed she could no longer foster because of her disability. Then, five years after Owen’s last placement, her niece entered the foster care system. “I applied not thinking I’d be approved because of blindness,” said Owen. “But she came to me and she’s now under guardianship to be adopted. Then, I applied for mainstream foster care once I realized I could. I had really missed it.”
Caring for children with complex needs At the time of this interview, Owen had just welcomed her 52nd placement and was expecting her 53rd the following day. She’s provided a safe space for newborns through teenagers, and many of the children who’ve been in her care come to her with more than 40 previous placements. The majority of the children Owen has fostered are eligible for Enhanced Foster Care (EFC), which addresses the intricate needs of children who have experienced profound trauma, abuse or neglect and who often face behavioral, medical, developmental and mental health challenges. EFC offers support for the child and the foster parent beyond what traditional foster care provides. Weekly therapy sessions are prioritized in EFC, both for the children and the foster parent. Therapists, psychiatrists and care coordinators all work together for the best interest of each individual. Wraparound care includes regular visits from Owen’s family care coordinator, who comes to her home once a week to reinforce everyone’s work in therapy. “We [as a family] talk about how to argue, how to identify and work through feelings and how the words we say come across [to others],” said Owen. “I also have therapy through EFC so I can talk about what’s going on at home, if I’m stressed about something and talk through my decisions. It’s nice to have that feedback.” In addition to all the training Owen has received around trauma- informed care, her own experiences in foster care guide how she parents. She even uses the guide dog training she’s been privy to for inspiration. “You use five praises for every correction,” explains Owen. “And the more upset you are, the lower your voice and slower you should speak. I’m a better parent than before, when I could see.”
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The highs and the lows Owen homeschools the children in her care because many of them have gaps in their educations or have been deemed academically behind. By customizing their lessons, she’s helped children make tremendous strides. Her niece, who had undiagnosed Celiac disease that presented much like ADHD symptoms, was her inspiration. “We practiced speaking while she jumped on the trampoline and would do math [worksheets against] the garage door in between running up and down the street,” said Owen. “She just scored a 1490 on her PSAT.” Another child experienced 43 previous placements, couldn’t read, was unwilling to look anyone in the eye and wore noise-canceling headphones all the time. The discovery of an auditory processing disorder, the customization of her learning processes and Owen taking time to ask and really listen to how she was doing made all the difference. “Now she’s in Scouts and has turned into a leader,” reports Owen. “She’s in 7th grade, all caught up and doing exceptionally well.” Owen has also cherished the opportunity to help a new mom learn how to parent. She recently accepted placement of a newborn baby and his 15-year-old mom. When the pair came to Owen, the baby was underweight; but with Owen supporting the mom, the baby gained 84 grams in one week, thrilling everyone. “The look on her face when I told her I’m proud of her boosted her self-esteem more than anything else I could do,” said Owen. The hardest part of Owen’s experience as a foster parent has been recognizing when a child is unreachable. “I’ve had a couple of placements recently where [the child] did not have any trust and it got dangerous,” said Owen. “It gets hard when you have to say ‘this isn’t working.’ But you have to think of the good of the entire family and maybe a different placement could be healthier.” Nevertheless, it’s hard for Owen to let go, not knowing what the future holds for that child. Living in uncertainty is a part of foster care Owen has had to accept. “There are lots of unknowns,” said Owen. “That uncertainty is hard. But that also teaches [the kids and me both] patience and resilience.” While learning those life skills is challenging, Owen says she gets to see remarkable rewards, too. “When kids are secure and happy, their whole posture changes,” said Owen. “They start to just act like kids.” Building bridges Throughout her journey, Owen has had opportunities to build relationships with the biological families of the children in her care. She ensures the father of the newborn baby in her care can attend pediatrician visits and family outings so he can be actively involved in his son’s life. Her niece talks with and enjoys activities over video chat with her biological mom,
dad and grandma every week. While many of the children in Owen’s care have not been able to reunify with biological parents, those bonds are still important to keep intact when safe to do so. “One mom I taught how to make a birthday cake,” said Owen. “She would come over and her 7-year-old would read her a school book. She would learn it’s OK to get frustrated as a parent and how to handle that. We worked on how to calm yourself down first.” Owen also keeps in touch with some of the children who’ve previously been in her care. “This was an amazing adoption story,” recalls Owen. “This 6-year-old had been in 21 homes and kicked out of day cares and schools. Now she’s with her adoptive family who’s part of her tribe in Washington. I’m going to visit later this summer. And every Sunday, I video chat with them.” Seeking support Owen appreciates that Oklahoma Human Services and her case workers provide her as much information as possible about potential placements so she and the other children in her care can ask questions and make decisions as a family. She also takes advantage of ongoing training opportunities provided by Oklahoma Human Services. In 2023, Owen was named foster parent of the year by the Foster Care and Adoptive Association of Oklahoma. She got connected with the organization because they offer a mentorship program for foster parents. Owen’s mentor attended meetings with her for nine months and even drove Owen and a placement to court more than three hours away. The mentor also answered questions if Owen couldn’t quickly connect with her case worker. “They help you get through the first nine months, when it’s most challenging,” said Owen of FCAO mentors. “They spoil the foster families, sending gifts and meals, and that takes the stress level down a bit.” Oklahoma Human Services offers monthly support group meetings, which have been a lifeline for Owen. She’s intentional about connecting with other foster parents in trainings, and those relationships have helped provide an outlet for questions or conversations. Owen also appreciates Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA), who provide children in care continuity and advocate to the court for the best interest of each child. As a single foster parent and caretaker to her 83-year-old father, Owen assures other families interested in fostering that if she can do it, anyone can. “I’ve built this village of people I can rely on,” said Owen. “You don’t have to be perfect. If I had known I could be a foster parent even though I’m blind, I would have done it sooner.” Editor’s note: This article is part of a series in partnership with Oklahoma Human Services about foster care in our state. Find the full series, plus information about becoming a foster family and supporting foster families, at metrofamilymagazine.com/foster-care.
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Inspirational First Americans Meet film icon Yancey Red Corn BY ERIN PAGE . PHOTOS PROVIDED. A member of the Osage Nation, Yancey Red Corn’s family history came full circle when he was cast to play Chief Bonnicastle in the 2023 blockbuster film Killers of the Flower Moon . Based on the book by David Grann and set in Oklahoma, the movie details the murders of Osage members after oil was discovered on Tribal land in the 1920s. Red Corn’s great-grandfather was among those murdered. Killers was Red Corn’s first film, and he’s since been in an episode of the TV show Reservation Dogs , also filmed in Oklahoma. A native of Norman, Red Corn’s pride in his Osage heritage and his creativity have developed over generations. He began participating in Osage dances at the age of 3. As an Osage name giver, presiding over the ceremony bestowing an individual their Osage name, Red Corn has been speaking in front of crowds since he was young, which prepared him for delivering both his written lines and powerful ad libs. Red Corn’s mother is an internationally-renowned artist. Her larger-than-life Caddo pottery design stands at the entrance of the Okla Homma gallery at First Americans Museum. Among other famous patrons, President and First Lady Obama selected a piece of her work to grace the Oval Office. Red Corn’s sister is a physician and a Caddo artist; she added intricate beading to his suits and blazers for various red carpet events. Before Killers , Red Corn’s father wrote a historical fiction novel about the Osage murders. A Pipe for February focuses on the experiences of fictitious Osage characters during the 1920s. Red Corn’s father inspired both Grann and film director Martin Scorsese in their tellings of Killers . Jovial, generous of spirit and much more apt to applaud his family members’ accomplishments than his own, Red Corn shared with MetroFamily how the power of storytelling can help local families understand our collective history and pave the way for a more inclusive future.
RED CORN PORTRAYS CHIEF BONNICASTLE IN THE 2023 BLOCKBUSTER FILM KILLERS OF THE FLOWER MOON .
What was the most memorable experience during filming of Killers of the Flower Moon ? The first was a scene with Jesse Plemons, and it was the first time I was on set to do lines with Martin Scorsese behind the camera. We did the lines over and over again, with the camera in different angles. I ad libbed some lines, and one of those lines they kept in the movie, which was basically: ‘In the old days, we would fight these people and we would kill them … [Then], I could see my enemy, but this enemy we cannot see. It’s an invisible enemy all around us.’ I am proud they kept lines that show a defiant chief. When I was done and walking back to my trailer, I saw all the background Osages who were there — including some of my uncles and cousins. It was really emotional. They said they were proud of me and that I sounded like a true chief. The other was the Round House scene with Robert De Niro, Leonardo DiCaprio and Lily Gladstone. I could see some of my aunts and cousins in the scene, too, and just like me, some of them had relatives who were murdered during the 20s. I could see them tearing up. It was a very emotional scene. I ad libbed there, too, and when I went out for the next scene, De Niro said ‘that was really great’ and Leo gave me a fist bump and said ‘great speech.’ Was there any sense of vindication for you in being part of this movie that shares the truth of what happened to Osage people? It doesn’t solve the PTSD and intergenerational trauma. But I was glad to be part of it. I think a lot of the Osages had a sense that people are finally hearing this story. [Growing up], it wasn’t something we talked about. Our grandparents and great-grandparents tried to talk about it, but no one listened. So they insulated themselves and got through with our culture and traditions.
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His book was republished last summer; Martin Scorsese wrote a foreword for it and David wrote a blurb on the cover. Now my son, who’s a screenwriter, has written a script for it to be a TV miniseries, with Scorsese editing it. My son was the only grandchild, and the majority of the time my dad would pick him up from school. My dad was gentle and a good listener and they got along so well — they played the piano together and my son learned how to write from my dad. And my son learned how to be a doer and not wait around on others. How do you hope the film — and this history — will continue to impact local parents and families? I wish they would teach this book [ Killers of the Flower Moon ] in high schools. Everything about the book and movie is about how we don’t want to treat our fellow humans. Even though we come from different cultures and religions, we can all be respectful of each other. The evil humans who were killing the Osage did not see us as human beings. There was a saying that you could get arrested for kicking a dog but not for killing an Osage. There are so many divisions right now. I hope people will see this movie and see how far people will go if you don’t respect that we are all equal and all human. We have a lot of history we need to learn not to repeat in Oklahoma.
My great-grandfather’s sons tried to get the authorities to investigate but they said it was a natural death. It was a conspiracy with everyone in on it — doctors, morticians, sheriffs, pastors, neighbors — they felt powerless. What does your Osage heritage mean to you? It defines me. I was put on an Osage cradleboard when I was born. When I was 3, I started dancing Osage dances, and I’ve danced every year since. My son also started dancing when he was 3, and he’s 24 now. I go to ceremonies, functions and traditional Osage funerals. I am part of this community and we all try to support each other. My dad was a name giver in our clan, the Peacemaker Clan. We’re the mediators and decision makers. That’s been passed down for hundreds of years. The name giving ceremony is one of the oldest ceremonies we have. My dad passed it to me and I passed it to my son and nephew. If you want to dance and participate in ceremonies, you have to have an Osage clan name. We take it very seriously; we get to know the person and the family. You tell a speech or story about the family and where the name comes from — all through our oral traditions. What is it like to see your family’s story come full circle? My dad wrote A Pipe for February , based on the Osages in the 1920s, which concentrates on the Osages going through it with the murders more in the background. My dad and David [Grann] became good friends, and my dad helped him have more of an understanding for his book. Scorsese read [ A Pipe for February ] when writing the script and ended up paying for nonexclusive rights — the opening prologue [in the movie], where they’re speaking in Osage, is verbatim from my dad’s book. My sister participated in that scene as one of the mourners and it was really emotional for her — my dad passed away in 2017. RED CORN WITH ACTOR LEONARDO DICAPRIO, WITH WHOM HE STARRED IN KILLERS OF THE FLOWER MOON , AT THE PALM SPRINGS INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL.
Editor’s note: This article is part of a series produced in conjunction with First Americans Museum to share the stories of inspirational modern-day First Americans. Find the full series at metrofamilymagazine.com/inspirational-first-americans . RED CORN’S SISTER IS A CADDO ARTIST. HER INTRICATE BEADWORK IS SHOWN HERE ON HIS SHOES.
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C hristy Huff and her family have been members of the YMCA of Greater Oklahoma City for 14 years and counting. As a busy mom and nurse, she enjoys all the services, programs and activities the Y has to offer. With so many options, there’s something for everyone. “We’ve had some really good experiences with the Y,” said Huff. “When we lived in Oklahoma City, we went to the Edward L. Gaylord Downtown and North Side locations, but now that we live in Edmond, we most often use the Mitch Park Y and sometimes the Rankin Y.” The membership perk of having access to 14 locations is a great benefit to Huff. “I have a few friends who are part of the Y and it doesn’t matter if a location is closer to me or closer to them, we can meet up, workout together and catch up,” said Huff. Over the years, her husband, Marcellus, has helped coach their older sons in YMCA youth sports. Now their youngest son, 6-year-old Carter, loves playing in the YMCA Thunder Basketball League, attending summer camp and going to Child Watch, a program offering free childcare for up to two hours while an adult member exercises. “Whenever I’m going to the gym, Carter asks to go,” said Huff. “He likes playing with the other kids and the staff seem to really enjoy him and he enjoys them.” In addition, her 18-year-old son, Cori, goes to the Y almost every day to play basketball recreationally with his friends, and her stepson, DJ, who’s also 18 but lives in San Antonio, is a member of his local Y. As a parent, Huff especially appreciates the organized structure and security measures the Y has in place, with parents required to show their ID when picking up their child, as well as the fun and positive opportunities available for children of all ages. “I like the summer day camp because the kids get exposure to healthy activities and have healthy interactions with other kids,” said Huff. “It’s nice to know they’re not just sitting around on electronics all day. They’re active, getting exercise and they get to go on field trips once a week. If they go to the zoo, for example, all the kids wear their YMCA camp t-shirts so they can easily see and stay with their group.” She also likes the flexibility in scheduling. Building Bonds and Staying Active The Huff family shares their favorite YMCA membership perks BY REBECCA FAST . PHOTOS BY FOTO ARTS PHOTOGRAPHY.
THE ENTIRE HUFF FAMILY HAS ENJOYED ENGAGING WITH THE Y’S YOUTH SPORTS PROGRAMS.
“You can sign up for the entire summer or pick specific weeks,” said Huff. “The weeks have different themes so you can choose the themes that most interest your child. Also, I go to work early so, if needed, I can drop off my son as early as 7 a.m. and pick him up anytime between 3:30 p.m. and 6 p.m. It’s nice knowing that for those of us who need to drop off early in the morning, we can then pick up a little earlier in the afternoon.” Along with enjoying day camp, Carter has had a wonderful experience playing in the YMCA Thunder Basketball League. He’s even had the opportunity to be a part of the Y’s promotional materials for the league, with his photo in the welcome packet and on a local billboard, an exciting role for any kid. “Carter really likes his coach, so we’ve requested him every year,” said Huff. “Season after season, he’s been playing with the same kids and now he’s built these friendships that he may have for a lifetime.” Huff says the coaches and staff are intentional when working with the kids to build confidence and encourage good sportsmanship. Once, during a game, a player from an opposing team fell, and instead of continuing to play, Carter stopped and helped him up, a moment showing that within competition, players can always choose to be helpful and respectful of each other.
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YMCA group fitness classes available with membership: Cycling HIIT Boot camp Water aerobics Yoga Zumba Pilates Senior aerobics Tai Chi Membership options The YMCA of Greater Oklahoma City offers several membership options for families and individuals with discounted rates available for young adults, teens and those ages 12 and under. In addition, discounted rates are available for senior adults 65 and over and members of the military. There’s also a YMCA360 Digital Membership offering on-demand content, livestream classes and monthly challenges. A Household Membership — the best value for a family — includes membership
It’s this type of safe and supportive environment that has kept
the Huff family plugged in to the Y for so many years. Their kids have had swimming lessons there, enjoyed the family swim time and even had birthday parties at the pool in January, marking these special milestones at the Y. The YMCA of Greater Oklahoma City has become part of the family’s life. Having recently celebrated its 135th anniversary, the Y isn’t going anywhere — and neither is the Huff family.
for two adults and all children in the household, access to 14 YMCA locations, participation in Child Watch and discounts for school-age programs and developmental sports. For more information, visit ymcaokc.org .
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Local Family Fun Ignite your family’s Olympic spirit in OKC Fun and affordable activities for all ages BY LINDSAY CUOMO . PHOTOS PROVIDED.
The 2024 summer Olympic games are being held in Paris, France, but those of us in Oklahoma can find fun and creative ways to try out some of the sports we’ll be streaming, right here in the metro. Whether you’re looking to try something new or want to create your
own backyard games, we’ve got the insider scoop on local activities and ideas that will get your family moving and having fun. Try the novice versions of these Olympic sports at locales around the metro.
Archery According to Olympics.com , archery is one of the oldest sports and made its Olympic debut in 1900. It was reintroduced in 1972 after a 52-year hiatus. The first recorded tournament took place in China over 3,000 years ago. OKC Parks and Recreation offers an archery for beginners class for ages 10 & up. The one-hour course held at Martin Park Nature Center focuses on safety and skill development. Equipment is provided, including bows and arrows. They also host archery games for adults. Learn more at okc. gov/departments/parks-recreation .
Cycling Cycling has been an Olympic sport since the first games in 1896. Today, cycling covers five disciplines with 11 different events, including road cycling, track cycling, BMX racing, BMX freestyle and mountain biking.
Get your family in on the action by visiting one of the many biking trails in the metro. Oklahoma City has nearly 100 miles of multi- use trails! SCIP Recreational Trail at Soldier Creek Industrial Park in Midwest City and The Kelly Farm & Bike Trails in Yukon are great for beginners. Arcadia Lake and Lake Hefner are popular cycling destinations offering paved trails with picturesque views. RIVERSPORT’s bike park has a mountain bike skills course plus three world-class mountain bike/ BMX courses. The park, which serves as a hub for the Greenway River Trails, is open to the public except for select times. Learn more at riversportokc.org . Creekside Bike Park in southeast Norman features various bike amenities for a variety of skill levels, including off-road trails, a technical skills area and a children’s biking playground.
FUN FACT: France holds the most gold medals in
cycling, while Great Britain has earned the most total cycling medals at 100. The United States has 60.
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PHOTO BY SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK
Trampolining Did you know that trampolining is an Olympic sport? It’s true! This childhood pastime turned Olympic sport joined the International Gymnastics Federation in 1998 and the Olympic line-up in 2000. Trampolinists bounce more than 26 feet in the air to perform a series of highly technical and precise twists and somersaults as they are scored according to difficulty, execution and time spent in the air. While Olympic trampolining does require a do-not- try-this-at-home warning, your family can get into the Olympic spirit on a smaller scale at a local trampoline park to get an idea of just how challenging the sport is. There are several in the metro, including Urban Air in Moore, Get Air in Norman and Oklahoma City and Sky Zone and Surge Adventure Park in Edmond.
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Swimming With greats such as Michael Phelps, Mark Spitz, Jenny Thompson and Katie Ledecky leading the way, the United States leads the gold medal count in swimming by nearly 200! Almost one quarter of all U.S. gold medals have been earned in the pool. Olympic swimming consists of 20 events, including open water
races. Future Olympic hopefuls (and the rest of us novice swimmers) will surely be showcasing our skills at our favorite public and backyard pools all summer long. Olympic athletes make what they do look easy, but swimming more than 160 feet in a matter of seconds is no joke. Visit one of the metro’s lap pools to see how you stack up. Some of our favorites include the Mitch Park YMCA in Edmond, The Station Aquatic Center in Moore, Westwood Family Aquatic Center in Norman and the Family Aquatic Center at the Willa D. Johnson Recreation Center. Amp up the fun by trying out different swimming techniques – front crawl, backstroke, breaststroke and butterfly – to see which your family finds most challenging. Then, create your own aquatic contest such as who
FUN FACT: The People’s Republic of China has won 14 of the 36 trampolining Olympic medals. The highest Team USA has placed is sixth.
can make the smallest splash, float the longest or swim the fastest.
FUN FACT: Michael Phelps has earned the most Olympic medals at 28. The next Team USA athlete on the list is Jenny Thompson, tied at 13th place with 12.
PHOTOS BY SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK
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Local Family Fun
Paddlesports Oklahoma City has close ties to some of Team USA’s paddlesport athletes since the path to Paris for three paddlesport events flowed through RIVERSPORT Rapids via the 2024 Olympic Team Trials this past April. Oklahomans had a front row seat to see one of the newest Olympic events, Kayak Cross, a head-to-head race that pits athletes against each other as well as the clock. Recreate a mini-version of the Kayak Cross at RIVERSPORT’s downtown or Lake Overholser locations. Olympic athletes traverse a challenging whitewater course, but flatwater kayaking is a great option for novice paddlesport participants. RIVERSPORT also offers rowing, whitewater rafting, tubing and stand-up paddle boarding.
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Create your own Olympic adventure with a visit to Scissortail Park Challenge your family to an afternoon of competition! Scissortail’s Lower Park includes a soccer pitch and practice field, plus futsal, pickleball and basketball courts. Craft some fun medals to award the winners and pack a picnic or snacks to keep everyone fueled. You will need to bring your own sports equipment, too. Looking for even more creative Olympic family fun? Check out 3 options to get into the spirit of the 2024 games. 1
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Craft your own Olympic games at home
Destination Paris Dive into French culture with books, food, games and movies. Sample French cuisine locally at Ganache Patisserie, Café Cuvee or La Baguette Bistro. Learn how to make macarons at Belle’s Kitchen or croissants at Sur la Table. Sweet and savory crepes use simple ingredients and are easy to customize for breakfast, lunch or dinner. Try out some French games such as Pétanque, which is similar to Bocce ball, or Escargot, a French variation of hopscotch with a snail-shaped path of squares. Find game instructions and recommendations for family friendly movies and books focused on French culture at metrofamilymagazine.com/olympics-in-okc . However your family plans to celebrate the 2024 Olympic games, we hope these ideas will fuel active fun exploring OKC and enhancing family bonds.
Get into the Olympic spirit with an active game night. Think balloon volleyball, relay races, water balloon shot put, a stick-horse equestrian jumping course or pool noodle javelin toss. You can even recreate a balance beam with sidewalk chalk or tape. The best part is you can customize your competitions to fit your family’s ages and interests. Invite the neighbors for added fun! Transform your backyard into an Olympic arena. Have each participant make their own flag and host a mini- opening ceremony. An empty paper towel roll stuffed with red, orange and yellow tissue paper or cellophane makes a kid-friendly torch. Use stairs or crates for a winners’ podium to award your store-bought or DIY medals.
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Mom Talk
Reflecting on 10 Years in OKC A community worth celebrating BY CHRISTINA MUSHI-BRUNT
T en years ago, a job relocation from Indianapolis, Ind. to Oklahoma City meant leaving the only place our kids had ever called “home.” They were born there. We were part of an incredible church and school community that had walked through so many significant joys and sorrows of life with us. My mom community celebrated with me in completing my doctorate, the births of our three children and career successes. This same community also held me together after a pregnancy loss, my husband’s job loss and my cancer diagnosis and treatment.
THE BRUNT FAMILY KICKS UP THEIR HEELS AT DANCING IN THE GARDENS.
When we learned of our impending relocation to OKC, I was devastated. I did not want to leave that loving and supportive community. I didn’t want to leave the comfort of knowing no matter where we were — at school, at church or in the community — there were people who knew and loved us deeply. Our friends were our family. I was certain we would not find the same sense of community in a city in which we knew no one and that was located over 700 miles away from my family and our dearest friends. It took a while — likely due to the hostility I felt toward the relocation. Ten years later, I can attest I am grateful for the life we’ve built here in Oklahoma. Once I opened myself up to what the OKC metro has to offer, my perspective about the move changed. Below are my favorite reflections on our family’s 10 years in the Oklahoma City community. MOORE STRONG We were still living in Indianapolis when we watched the news coverage of the devastating May 20, 2013 tornado. Knowing we would be moving to a state famously (or infamously?) known for its severe weather worried me. We ended up choosing to move to a neighborhood that fed into Briarwood Elementary. We chose it because the newly rebuilt school had safety measures that gave us some peace about our kids’ safety should bad weather arise during the school day. What we quickly learned was this community is an incredibly connected and resilient one. We heard first-hand stories from new friends who feared for their children’s lives and from teachers who sheltered children in their classrooms on that fateful day. Throughout these 10 years, there have been many times in which the phrase “Moore Strong” has been exemplified. It has been a privilege to be a part of a community that rallies together in the face of adversity.
THE BRUNT FAMILY MOVED FROM INDIANAPOLIS TO OKLAHOMA CITY 10 YEARS AGO.
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WELCOME TO THE BIG LEAGUE Moving from a very large metropolitan community to a smaller one was initially a challenge for someone who enjoys the amenities a large city has to offer. In Indianapolis, on any given weekend, I could pick from a wide variety of activities and attractions for our young kids. Our favorite was (and still is) the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis, the world’s largest children’s museum. We would spend hours there and it never got old. Before moving here, my perception of OKC was that it was slow and boring. I am glad to report my perception has changed! Just as our kids have grown up, so has the city. The addition of amenities such as Scissortail Park and the OKC Streetcar has made OKC feel like a vibrant big city. Activities like the Myriad Botanical Gardens’ Dancing in the Gardens summer event series gives our family opportunities to connect with one another and with our community. There is so much to see and do in the OKC metro, and we are truly a “big league city!” COMMUNITY AND CIVIC ENGAGEMENT Being an engaged and active part of the community is one of our family’s core values. We believe there are always opportunities to engage with and serve others in small and big ways. In our first couple of years in OKC, I witnessed people willing to engage with one another to address issues and improve their community. Some examples that come to mind include the 2018 Oklahoma teachers’ walkout, the Covid-19 pandemic and the 2020
CHRISTINA AND HER KIDS ENJOY THE MEMORIAL MARATHON EVENTS.
social justice movement. Regardless of which end of the spectrum one’s personal viewpoints lie, OKC is a community that gets engaged. Whether it’s education, health, equity, inclusion or any other topic near and dear to your heart, there are opportunities to be involved in conversations and actions that lead to making OKC a welcoming city worth living in.
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Calendar of Events
OKC Family Fun in July & August Contents 25 Things to do in July 28 Things to do in August
32 Date night ideas 36 Weekly activities 37 Museum exhibitions
CATCH BLUEY’S BIG PLAY ON AUG. 15 AT CIVIC CENTER MUSIC HALL. PHOTO BY DARREN THOMAS.
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Things to do in July
JULY 2-4 O klahoma City Spark vs Chattanooga Steam at Devon Park (2801 NE 50th St). $15-$40. Tuesday & Wednesday, 7pm; Thursday, 3pm. Also held: 7/5-7 vs New York Rise, 7/12-13 vs Athletes Unlimited, 7/20-21 vs Florida Vibe, 8/2-3 vs All Army Softball. okcspark.com JULY 5 FREE First Friday Gallery Walk in the Paseo Arts District (3024 Paseo) features special themed exhibits, guest artists and a variety of live entertainment. 6-9pm. thepaseo.org JULY 6 FREE Family Nature Hike at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial Rd) features a gentle morning wildlife hike. Park staff will answer questions about wildlife and nature. Preregister. 9:30- 10:30am. Also held: Aug. 3. okc.gov/parks FREE Red Brick Nights Street Festival in downtown Guthrie (2nd & Harrison Ave, Guthrie) features pop-up shops, food trucks, live music and kids activities. 5-11pm. Also held: Aug. 3. facebook.com/RedBrickNights JULY 7-12 International Finals Youth Rodeo at Heart of Oklahoma Expo Center (1700 W Independence, Shawnee) features a youth rodeo that includes barrel racing, pole bending, breakaway roping, goat tying, team roping, calf roping, steer wrestling, bull riding, saddle bronc riding and bareback riding. Adults, $12; kids (3-11), $6. See website for schedule. ifyr.com JULY 12 Mom & Son Party at the Pool at The Station Aquatic Center (700 S Broadway Ave, Moore) features a fun night for boys and their moms or any influential adult figure with swimming, dancing, snacks and door prizes. $10 in advance; $15 day of. 6-8pm. cityofmoore.com FREE Art Walk in downtown Norman (Main Street, Norman) features a monthly celebration of the arts with live entertainment, galleries and more. 6-9pm. Also held: Aug. 9. 2ndfridaynorman.com
FREE LIVE on the Plaza in the Plaza District (1700 block of NW 16th) features local artists, live music, special events, local shopping and more. July’s theme is Summer Block Party. 6-10pm. Also held: Aug. 9. plazadistrict.org JULY 12-13 Blackberry Festival at McLoud Veterans Memorial Park (600 E Park St, McLoud) features live music, a parade, food, carnival, games and fireworks, plus all kinds of blackberry-themed items. Free to attend; participation prices vary. Friday, 5-10pm; Saturday, 9am-11pm. mcloudchamber.com JULY 13 FREE Second OHOF Saturdays at Oklahoma Hall of Fame (1400 Classen Dr) features free admission, crafts, activities, exhibits and more. During the first hour, guests can take part in a sensory-friendly experience from 9-10am. All ages welcome. 9am-2pm. Also held: Aug. 10. oklahomahof.com Vinyl Record Show at Edmond Hilton Garden Inn and Conference Center (2833 Conference Dr, Edmond) features vinyl LP records, 45s, CDs, T-shirts, posters, cassettes and vendors from surrounding states. $8; early bird, $15; kids (under 13), free. 10am-4pm. vinylrecordshow.com FREE Second Saturday at Oklahoma Contemporary (11 NW 11th St) features a family-focused day of art- making, performances and gallery adventures for visitors of all ages. July’s theme is Giant Flower Power. 1-4pm. oklahomacontemporary.org
FREE World Snake Day Celebration at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial Rd) features live snakes, snake experts, themed crafts and more. All ages welcome. 2-4pm. okc.gov/parks JULY 13-21 USRowing RowFest at RIVERSPORT OKC (800 Riversport Dr) features rowing competitions, demonstrations, live music and more. Free to attend; participation prices vary. See website for schedule. riversportokc.org JULY 14 FREE Admission at Oklahoma City Museum of Art (415 Couch Dr). Visitors of all ages receive access to the museum at no cost, thanks to the generous support provided by Art Bridges Foundation’s Access for All program. Noon-5pm. Also held: Aug. 11. okcmoa.com FREE Sunday Twilight Concert Series at Myriad Gardens (301 W Reno Ave) features an outdoor concert by Branjae. 7-9pm. artscouncilokc.com
JULY 17-AUG. 31 MetroFamily’s Cover Kids Search (online). OKC metro parents are invited to submit photos of their kids ages 4-12. The most captivating kids from each age group and the sibling category will be chosen to appear on our covers during the 2025 calendar year. $10. metrofamilymagazine. com/coverkidssearch
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