Nine Little Words by Saidat Vandenberg It is mind-boggling how words have such an impact on our outlook on life. Hearing words of kindness can lift us to the highest heights. But one sudden expression of hate might send us reeling in despair for many years. I’m sure most of us reading this today have been around long enough to experience both. So, I hope what I write next will improve your mood, elevate your confidence and begin a journey of healing from the toxic words of the past: You are needed! You are valued! You are loved! As a children’s entertainer and a full-time encourager, I have made it my daily goal to lift spirits and surround my space with good energy. Therefore, I have decided that for as long as I have the privilege of living on this beautiful earth, I will fulfill my mission and make it count. Knowing my worth is essential to my mental well-being. As a black queer woman, I realize that there will be times when racism and homophobia will try to cast a shadow on my glow, but I refuse to allow someone else’s fears and insecurities to define me. Because I whole-heartedly believe that these statements are powerful. Someone gifted me these truths, and now I pass these truths onto you as a shield of protection when discouragement tries to set in. You are needed! Being needed is not an excuse for someone to use you, but rather an opportunity for you to shine in your light and authenticity. You are valued! Take time to appreciate what makes you incredibly unique. Never underestimate your worth because you deserve the best life has to offer. You are loved! Whitney Houston worded it best when she sang, “Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.”
We all need encouragement in these challenging times, especially when we least expect it, because not only does it motivate us to keep pushing forward, but it also ignites empathy and compassion for others. A final reminder fromme: Check in with your circle, the group that loves you, lifts you and gives you life. As well, be that person for someone. You are needed! You are valued! You are loved!
“Happiness Infuser” is an award- winning community leader, child- ren’s entertainer, artistic director, and motivational speaker. Her program, The Saidat Show, was born from a desire to make people smile and build confidence in the younger generation. Saidat has now reached over 800,000 students across Canada. Saidat’s message of encouragement, self- worth, and community-minded- ness is also a motivation for a global audience. She presents a powerful message that comes from the heart that one person can make a difference. TOGETHER WE CAN CHANGE THE WORLD!
Front Cover art by Jacqueline Demendeev. We are family under the Progress Pride Flag. The flag includes black and brown stripes to represent marginalized LGBTQ+ communities of colour, along with the colours pink, light blue and white, which are used on the Transgender Pride Flag.
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