MEET THE TEAM
Bianka K. Dodov
1. Words to Live By
My favorite movie quote was said by Patrick Swayze in the movie “Roadhouse.” He plays a character named John Dalton who is the head of security in a rough bar called Roadhouse. “All you have to do is follow three simple rules: One, never underestimate your opponent — expect the unexpected. Two, never start anything inside the bar unless it’s absolutely necessary. And three, be nice ... it’s the job, it’s nothing personal. Be nice … until it’s time to not be nice.”
the argument they are making. I also make sure to let people finish their sentences — interruptions are a big pet peeve of mine, and I paraphrase back to them what they are saying. This serves a dual purpose: It makes the other person feel heard, and it allows you to respond to what they are actually saying rather than what you think they are saying. When it’s time to make my argument, I use “I” statements and I avoid absolutes. Rather than saying “always” or “never,” I say “often” or “rarely.” Finally, and this is the hardest part, learning to recognize when it’s time to stop the conversation is one of the most useful skills you can learn.
2. Best Career Advice I’ve Received
Never compromise your integrity — who you are is more important than what you do, what position you hold, and where you work.
3. What My Family Taught Me
I am a first-generation American; both of my parents are immigrants and they both came to this country escaping communist regimes that exacted harsh authoritarian control on their citizens. They taught me that there is no substitute for hard work and education (whether formal or self-driven), and they taught me to always think for myself. They instilled in me a love for this country and the importance of being a part of and supporting your community.
5. Do Dreams Have Hidden Meanings?
I believe that dreams, like intuition, represent data processed too fast by the brain for the conscious mind to comprehend. I think dreams help us process experiences, whether enjoyable, stressful, or traumatic — they tell us something about our emotions and the more we try to fight or suppress those emotions, the more we suffer.
4. Values
The way I move through a disagreement is first and foremost to always assume good or neutral intent. Assuming bad intent instantly puts you in an antagonistic mindset and prevents you from understanding what is motivating the other person. Next, I ask a lot of questions to help me understand the disconnect. Asking questions gives the other person room to speak, and you can drill down to the real issue or the real motivation that is causing them to make
6. What Celebrities Do I Stan?
Dolly Parton. I absolutely love her and think she is a national treasure. She is my answer to the question “which famous person would you have dinner with,” although sometimes I say Kris Jenner, if I could give her truth serum first. I am also a big fan of Taylor Swift and am a proud supporter of the #FreeBritney movement.
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