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WisconsinChristianNews.com
Volume 25, Issue 5
Ready For Learning?
Wisconsin Family Connection
C OMMENTARY BY J ULAINE A PPLING President, Wisconsin Family Council
Strengthening, Preserving & Promoting Marriage, Family, Life and Liberty in Wisconsin
September 2024 In short order, all school-aged children in The Badger State will be once again engaged in their formal education after enjoying a beautiful Wisconsin summer. About 86% of those children will be in public schools, while the remaining 14% are in either in a private school or are home-schooling. I know I am repeating myself with this next statement, but it needs to be driven home here on the brink of this new school year. God holds parents responsible for the educa- tion of their children, not the educational partner parents may choose to help them. If you are not homeschooling and the educational partner you choose to assist you in the formal education of your children fails in some way, God does not shift the responsibility from you to that partner. He still holds you responsible. Now, that said, it is also the parents’ responsibility, espe- cially if they choose a traditional school, be it public or pri- vate, as their educational partner, to be sure their children are ready for school — and that doesn’t mean just making sure they have a well-stocked backpack filled with all the items on the supply list from the school. Of course, they need those things — and they probably need some new clothes and shoes as well. But they need more, much more, if they are going to be truly ready to learn this year. A few years ago I came upon an interesting article from an interesting writer. Victoria Prooday is, of all things, an occupa- tional therapist. In that capacity she works with all types of people and situations, including children who would benefit from her services. Prooday’s online article “Why Our Children Are So Bored at School, Cannot Wait, Get Easily Frustrated and Have No Real Friends,” is jam-packed with excellent in- sights and helpful tips for parents who want their children to have a really good school year. Prooday says in her ten years of practice she has seen and
sation and to practice waiting quietly and patiently. Third problem area, don’t let your children rule your world. The advice? Be the adult; set a schedule and stick to it. Set limits and boundaries. Think of what is good for them long- term, not just what will make them happy right now. Give them good food to eat — and resist the temptation for quick but not nutritious meals. Have a bed time schedule — and stick to it for their sake. Fourth problem area, everything can’t always be fun. Ad- vice? Teach your children to do mundane, monotonous work — and even show them how it can be fun. Chores such as folding laundry, picking up toys, cleaning their room and cleaning the garage are great training opportunities. Fifth problem area, children have limited social interaction today. The antidote: put children in situations where they must interact with others — like Sunday School or junior church or sports teams or family reunions, in addition to other opportunities. Teach them to say “please” and “thank you,” to share, to take their turn, to sincerely compliment, to win and lose graciously, to ask questions about others and be truly interested in them. As she concludes, Prooday says in her experience, children change as soon as their parents change. Wow. The power of parents. Good parenting is intentional, purposeful. Yes, it takes time and effort, but aren’t your children worth it? The bottom line, mom and dad? You are responsible not only for the education of your children, you are the ones who set them up for success or failure. What’s it going to be this school year for your children? Online: WiFamilyCouncil.org Tel: 888-378-7395
continues to see a decline in kids’ social, emotional and aca- demic functioning — and this was before COVID. Her con- tention is children go to school today “emotionally unavailable for learning.” She says “parental emotional availability is the main nutrient for a child’s brain.” She identifies five areas that contribute to this situation and gives some advice for parents. First problem area, too much technology and too often used wrongly. Her advice — be the parent and limit technology. Con- nect with your kids emotionally without technology. Play to- gether, write notes for their backpacks, have family dinners, play board games together. And she doesn’t include this, but I will — have family devotions and pray together! Second problem area, kids get everything they want the mo- ment they want it. The advice — train your children to wait. Make them wait to get something they want; gradually extend the time between “I want” and “I get.” Avoid using technology in the car and in restaurants. Teach kids to engage in conver-
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