CAM: Many victims of DV report a certain level of grooming by the perpetrator, which may start off as spates of rage, isolation, control, etc. Did you see that play out in your relationship and to what extent was the abuse? Hungani : I don't necessarily believe she intentionally groomed me. She had her own traumas that surfaced, which may explain some of her actions. It doesn't justify her behaviour, but it helps me understand why she made certain decisions based on her own unresolved traumas, just like I had my own unresolved traumas.
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Playful moments
June 2023 | Collective Action Magazine
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