MomentsThat Matter: Celebrating Milestone Birthdays
BY: MADISON VOORHIES
B irthdays can be a huge deal for many people (i.e., those who celebrate their birthday all month long… I see you, and I feel you), but we all know some birthdays are bigger than others.This isn’t because of the size of the party or the number of attendees, but because of what they represent. Milestone birthdays mark big turning points in our lives, times when we pause to celebrate not just another year but a leap forward in growth, ma- turity, and identity. Whether it’s a baby’s very first candle or a young adult’s first adult beverage, these special birthdays offer families the chance to reflect, hon- or, and have a little fun along the way. 1st Birthday That first year flies by, and before you know it, your baby is face-first in a smash cake (unless they’re not, be- cause in my experience, not all babies love the attention nor the mess—and that’s okay!). Rather than focusing on over-the-top plans, lean into the joy of marking this once-in-a-lifetime moment. It’s a chance to celebrate how far you’ve all come—parents included.Think cozy
in honoring this new chapter.This isn’t to say you shouldn’t throw a party for your new teen; just know that the best celebrations at this age are the ones that make them feel seen, heard, and trusted as they step into this exciting new phase of life. Sweet 16 This milestone is often glamorized in pop culture as the first real taste of adulthood—a moment defined by new- found freedom, independence, and pos- sibility. And we know:They’re not adults quite yet, but I think we all remember how Ariel was acting inThe Little Mer- maid… just food for thought. Whether it’s getting a driver’s license, staying out later, or simply feeling more grown-up, turning 16 carries a unique excitement that sets it apart from other birthdays, and the “sweet 16” is often a rite of passage. From themed bashes and beach weekends with friends to low-key family dinners, how you celebrate isn’t as important as what you’re celebrating: Tthe shift toward independence and the first steps into emerging adulthood. Consider marking the moment with a
gatherings, heartfelt touches, and plen- ty of photos to capture the memories. A first birthday can be as simple as a pic- nic in the park or a sweet celebration at home, with keepsakes like a handprint painting or imprint, a special storybook, or notes from loved ones to treasure for years to come. 13th Birthday Sure, it may seem a little weird to skip all the way from one to 13 when discussing birthdays, but becoming a teenager is a big deal!Thirteen often marks the beginning of a new sense of independence, identity, and emotional growth. It’s also when birthday parties can start to evolve. It’s less about char- acters and cupcakes, and more about experiences (although we always rec- ommend cupcakes… whether they’re for you or your child, we won’t judge). Sleepovers, escape rooms, or movie nights with a select group of friends may strike the right balance of excite- ment and age-appropriateness. Gifts that support hobbies or self-expres- sion, like sketchbooks, headphones, or personalized décor, also go a long way
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