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50. TXK 411 Get Organized 54. SHARE THE LOVE Milestones

10. cover/BUSINESS How to Rock 2025 with Your Money 16. COMMUNITY From Rock Bottom to Redemption

31. LIFE Healthy, Beautiful, You 40. STYLE Beautiful. Healthy. Home.

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22. CULTURE 2024 Debutantes 28. ENTERTAINMENT Good Evening TXK

56. THE MONTHLY MIX Local Skincare Essentials 58. TXK ROOTS Katy Beth Irwin McGahey

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Encouragement for the New Year...

CASSY MEISENHEIMER Focus on progress, not perfection. Set realistic goals, celebrate small wins, and allow yourself the grace to adapt and grow throughout the year.

TERRI SANDEFUR Live in the moment. Leave the past in the past. Do not be afraid of the future.

ALANA MOREL Trust in God’s timing and lean on His strength. Treasure the moments you have, no matter how small or fleeting, and remember that God’s love is constant—even when memories fade.

KARA HUMPHREY Don’t be so hard on yourself. Be excited about the new days and fresh opportunities ahead. Forgive your past mistakes and move forward. Forgive others too. It just makes everything better.

MATT CORNELIUS Face obstacles honestly.

LEAH ORR Don’t stress about big changes this year. Just take it one day at a time—and if you need to—pretend you have it all together.

BRITTANY ROBLES Whenever you catch yourself slipping into a negative mindset, pause and take a moment to reflect on three things around you that make you grateful. Thessalonians 5:18

BAILEY GRAVITT Remember that there is bad and good in every single person, no one is just one thing. Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.

Toxic positivity is the pressure to stay happy even when you are struggling by ignoring, or dismissing anything negative. True faith doesn’t mean denying the problem— it means denying the problem’s power over you.

TERRI GRAVITT Learn something new every day. The things we don’t change, we choose.

TIFFANY HORTON The only person you can control is yourself, so focus on being thoughtful and aware. What can you do for the people around you to make their day a little brighter?

JOEL SAUL-SEHY Automate! If you find a better cell phone plan that saves you $30 per month, add $30 to your automatic retirement savings at work every month. The $30 goes from a tiny, one-time high- five to a BIG, locked- down win for your future.

KATY BETH IRWIN McGAHEY Stop stressing over what might go wrong. Save your energy for the present and trust that you will handle challenges when they actually come.

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the cover with Joe. He embraced all our crazy ideas, making for some fantastic photos. Beyond the fun, his financial wisdom is worth checking out. I encourage you to listen to his podcast, Stacking Benjamins , and check out his book, Stacked . You will be glad you did. Another highlight of this issue is a story about Celebrate Recovery. Attending a meeting many years ago to hear a friend’s testimony remains one of the more impactful experiences of my life. Her story of redemption—overcoming unimaginable challenges, making difficult choices, and finding the courage to share her journey— was nothing short of inspiring. Reading about the many lives being transformed in our own community is just as moving, and witnessing the leaders of this ministry pour their hearts into helping others is a reminder of the incredible strength, compassion, and resilience we all possess. These stories are powerful, and I believe they will inspire you. This issue also includes Texarkana’s stunning debutantes, complete with an etiquette guide to remind us all that good manners never go out of style. Our “Healthy, Beautiful, You” section highlights the incredible LOCAL businesses dedicated to helping you become the best version of yourself. Add to all of that the details of creating a beautiful, healthy home, a skincare guide, and expert organizing tips, and you have an issue you will want to keep handy all year long. Here’s to a new year filled with joy, health, and inspiration. Let’s make it one to remember.

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I t’s a new year, and with it comes the exciting season of resetting intentions and embracing fresh beginnings. While many view this time as a blank slate, a chance to dream big and start anew, my approach will be a little different this year. Rather than chasing lofty resolutions, I am focused on staying the course of completing unfinished tasks and seeing through the plans I have already set in motion. However, as I prepared and proofed this issue, it sparked some meaningful reflections. We are kicking off 2025 with a New Year’s Guide. You will find practical advice

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Forget setting New Year’s resolutions that fizzle out by February. When it comes to your money, you need strategies that last and work in real life, not just on paper .

Here is the truth—nearly a quarter of resolutions don’t survive the first week, and only about a third make it past the first month. Add that to the fact nearly half of us admit to crying over our money woes, and it’s clear we need better tools for success. (Yes, even people earning $250,000+ cry about their finances. Who knew?) Let’s make 2025 the year we stop crying and start winning with our money. Here is how to build a better financial plan in three simple, action-packed steps.

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Build an emergency fund. Save $1,000 fast in a separate account for life’s curveballs. We need to break the habit of immediately turning to a credit card when life’s moments hit, like when your car breaks down, or your kid surprises you with an “urgent” science project that is due tomorrow. After you have built some savings, slowly build this toward at least three months’ expenses. You will need this if you lose a job or find that European travel deal you have been eyeing, and it goes on a once-in-a-lifetime sale. Pro Tip— Struggle with dipping into savings too often? So did I, and here is how I fixed it. I opened an account at a different bank across town and cut up the debit card. That small hurdle was enough for my brain to find more creative ways to solve a problem instead of attacking my stack of Benjamins. Pay small debts first. Start eliminating the smallest debts to build momentum. Seeing progress quickly boosts confidence and keeps you motivated to tackle bigger challenges. Pro Tip— Even if your only debt is a low-interest mortgage, consider paying it off early. Financial planner, Wes Moss, found in his book What The Happiest Retirees Know , the happiest retirees are debt-free. Save for retirement first, then tackle your mortgage, even if the interest rate is low.

STEP 1—DIG OUT OF DEBT Debt isn’t just a financial drain, it is a mental burden. But here is the deal—paying it down isn’t just about throwing more money at it. You need to get to the root of the problem. Start with a budget. The word “budget” gets a bad rap, but think of it as a tool to afford everything you love. Here is why people hate it: they begin by thinking of the fences around their budget and what they can’t do. Turn this around and start by funding your priorities (travel, hobbies, fun). Then, work your bills around those important goals. You will find a budget helps you achieve more of what you love, and maybe more importantly, it helps you automatically eliminate any spending that isn’t moving the needle. Pro Tip— Use apps like Monarch Money , YNAB , or TillerMoney to track spending. Prefer the envelope method? Try Qube Money for a modern twist. Hold weekly money meetings. My wife Cheryl and I used to argue about money constantly until we started short, weekly check-ins. These quick meetings reduced stress, improved communication, and kept us on track. Some of my money nerd friends LOVE longer meetings (think Camp David Summit), but I’ve found that the non-money nerd would rather do anything but attend that all-day session. Your first goal should be to make this fun for everyone. Pro Tip— Keep it simple. Review last week’s spending, plan for upcoming expenses, and give each other no-strings allowances. Make it fun! Cheryl and I often have our meetings over pancakes or wine, depending on the time of day, and that makes us look forward to our money dates.

STEP 2—INVEST LIKE A PRO Investing doesn’t have to be complicated. The key is to focus on diversification and consistent contributions, not chasing the next hot trend.

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Keep it simple. Everyone worries about what investments to use. I bring good news. The important part of investing is actually shoveling more money into your investments when you are first starting out. If you are new to this, stick with broad options like an S&P 500 or Total Stock Market fund. These give you exposure to companies like Microsoft, Coca-Cola, and Nike without the risk of betting on individual stocks. Pro Tip— Avoid individual stocks and real estate early on. Stocks lack diversification, and real estate is too illiquid when emergencies strike. You can’t sell a bathroom quickly enough to purchase new school clothes for the kids. Automate everything. I’ve spoken with the best and brightest in the financial world on our Stacking Benjamins podcast. David Bach (ten- time New York Times Bestselling author), Jill Schlesinger (CBS News), Jean Chatzky ( Today Show Money Editor), and Suze Orman all shared one tip—Don’t trust yourself to be disciplined. The best way to stay consistent is to automate your savings. Use payroll deductions for workplace retirement accounts or set up automatic transfers to a Roth IRA. Pro Tip— Start with your workplace plan to take advantage of payroll deduction (401k, 403b, etc.), then add a Roth IRA for tax-free growth. Make it automatic so you don’t rely on willpower. Diversify over time. When should you worry about diversifying more analytically? Once you have saved $100,000, start fine-tuning your portfolio based on your goals. Use tools like the efficient frontier to maximize returns while managing risk.

STEP 3—SAVE MORE FASTER Now that you are paying down debt and investing, it’s time to find extra cash. Use these tips to save without sacrificing joy. Cut subscriptions. Do you really need five streaming services? Rotate them. Watch Netflix for three months, then cancel and binge another. That seems like a small tip…maybe saving you $50 per month. But $50 per month is $600 per year. That is $6,000 per decade, which could add up to some really nice family vacations. Want to do more? Little moves like this add up. Spend on what matters. Review your bank statements. Identify what truly lights you up, and cut the rest. Cheryl and I realized we preferred cooking at home over dining out, so we now spend more on kitchen gadgets (hello, hot chocolate maker!) and less on restaurants.

Pro Tip— When I spoke with motivational speaker Jon Acuff about this topic, he suggested building three columns

to see what type of person you are. List experiences that make you happy (traveling, time with family, etc.). Then, in column two, list “things” that create joy (a vase, artwork, board games). In a third column, include people who you like to be around and spend time with. You will quickly find one list is longer than the other. Identifying ways to do more on that list is how to add more fun to your life and the best way to build your budget. Ask for a raise. Statistically, most bosses want to give you a raise—

you just need to ask. Frame it as a win-win by showing how your work benefits the company.

Pro Tip— Remember, your boss is often your ally, not the final decision-maker. Approach them confidently and collaboratively.

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Joe is the creator and co-host of the Stacking Benjamins podcast and co-author of STACKED: Your Super-Serious Guide To Modern Money Management . He is a board member at large of The Plutus Foundation and is the former board president and board member of Partnership for the Pathway. Joe was the “Money Man” at Detroit television WXYZ-TV for nine years, appearing twice weekly. His advice has appeared in Bride , Best Life , and Child magazines. Los Angeles Times , Chicago Sun-Times , Texarkana Gazette , Detroit News , and Baltimore Sun newspapers. He’s also appeared online in more than 200 different places, including CNBC.com and WSJ.com . Stacking Benjamins was called the “Best Personal Finance Podcast” by Kiplinger . Lifehacker listed the show as one of the top 10 of 2021. Joe and the SB team have won five Plutus Awards and the Academy of Podcasters “Best Business Podcast” award (beating well- known shows like The Tim Ferriss Show , How I Built This , and Gimlet’s StartUp ). Stacking Benjamins is created in Joe’s mom’s basement in Texarkana, Texas, where Joe lives with his spouse Cheryl and their cat Cooper.

WHAT SUCCESS LOOKS LIKE When you tackle debt, invest wisely, and save more, you are not just building wealth— you are creating a life that reflects your priorities. The best part? No more tears over money. Instead, you will have a system that works, leaving you free to focus on what really matters. The joy of stacking Benjamins is not more money—it’s that money allows me time and energy

to spend it how I want, working on projects I love.

2025 is your year to stop stressing and start stacking. Now, go make it happen!

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“What brought me to Celebrate Recovery was an almost 30-year addiction to methamphetamine and marijuana,” said Celeste King, a Celebrate Recovery participant. “I had hit rock bottom and ended up in jail. As part of my probation, I was required to attend meetings. I had heard about the program through a friend who had been attending. Honestly, jail and the possibility of prison time made me decide that a change needed to be made. Celebrate Recovery gave me the courage to trust and recognize that I deserved and wanted a life free from addiction.” Today, King is five years sober. She has reconnected with her family, found a relationship with the Lord, earned her GED, and now serves as the Public Library Director for the City of New

Boston. Her life has been radically transformed through Celebrate Recovery. Her story of redemption and healing is one of thousands that highlight the incredible impact of this ministry. Celebrate Recovery was founded in 1991 at Saddleback Church by Pastor John and Cheryl Baker. With support from Senior Pastor, Rick Warren, they launched a Christ-centered recovery program with 43 participants. Starting with four open-share groups focused on chemical dependency and codependency, Celebrate Recovery has grown into a global ministry that provides a safe place for people to find freedom from all kinds of bad habits, hang-ups, and hurts. As Ron Humphrey, Senior Pastor and leader of Celebrate Recovery at New Covenant Life Fellowship in New Boston, Texas,

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explains, “Celebrate Recovery is Christ- centered and rooted in scripture. It follows 12 steps and eight principles, with Jesus as the higher power. Meetings include worship and scripture-based lessons. Unlike some recovery groups where you always identify as an addict, in Celebrate Recovery, the identification is with Christ as a believer in Him.” King is just one of many who was forever changed. Humphrey spoke proudly about other success stories from the New Boston group. “The first person to regularly attend came as a condition of probation.

homeless, were ‘THOSE people.’ Today, I see people through God’s eyes. They are some of the most loving, caring, and gifted people on earth.” Addiction is often a response to a deeper pain. As Eldridge explained, “Trauma is often the gateway to addiction, and many are just numbing their pain.” Her passion for the ministry led her to establish Haven Homes, a safe haven for men and women to heal long-term. “Celebrate Recovery is just that—a safe place to recover. We are messy people, and that is exactly who Jesus calls us to be with—the messy.”

of the strongest and most faithful leaders in our Celebrate Recovery group now.” Celebrate Recovery provides not only healing, but also a sense of belonging to its members. “We really are a forever family,” said Eldridge. “We laugh together, cry together, and walk through life together. This is what keeps me coming back. Each week, 130-150 people walk through the doors of First Baptist Texarkana for our group and every single one of them inspires me to continue.” Despite its successes, Celebrate Recovery participants do face challenges.

At first, he was scared, but he blossomed, began calling Celebrate Recovery his church, gave his life to Christ, and completed probation. Another attendee, who had never been sober for any length of time in his adult life, found success in the program. He earned his GED, learned to drive, and now holds down a job with a tremendous amount of responsibility. Stories like these are what keep us coming back week in and week out.” Jeni Eldridge, leader of First Baptist Church Texarkana’s Celebrate Recovery group, emphasized the program’s wide reach. “Most people think Celebrate Recovery is only for alcoholics and people with addiction issues, but

Humphrey notes that the probation and parole system can be taxing. Seeing people struggle to find an employer willing to work with them is difficult. Attending recovery meetings and mandatory counseling sessions while scheduling appointments with different court groups is also challenging. In addition, there is the stigma within church settings that often prevents people from seeking help. Eldridge explains, “Many people want to keep their struggles a secret, so they suffer in silence. But as Pastor Jeff Schreve (Senior Pastor at First Baptist Church Texarkana), always says, ‘We are a hospital for the hurting.’ We live in a fallen world, and we all have

we have groups that cover almost any issue a person is dealing with,” she explained. “If you come in and haven’t identified your issue, we have mixed groups. If we don’t have a group for you, we will start one. God continually opens doors for us to expand.” New groups beginning soon will focus on trauma and gambling addictions. Eldridge’s own life has been profoundly affected by this ministry. “Addiction knocked on my own door several years before I walked through the doors of Celebrate Recovery. Through my healing, I was delivered from a religious, judgmental spirit. All of my life, the addicts, and the

Eldridge recalled the story of a young couple in Celebrate Recovery who lived a horrific life of addiction and trauma for many years before coming. “Their story of healing and wholeness today will blow anyone’s mind. Their lives exemplify the power of Jesus Christ to heal. As the wife always says, ‘It was drugs and alcohol that brought me here, but I keep coming back to heal from the pain, abandonment, abuse, and loss that I experienced for most of my life as a child and a teenager.’ The husband lived a life of drugs and addiction on the streets of Texarkana for 24 years before having an encounter with God in jail. They are some

issues—let’s heal together.”

Celebrate Recovery encourages participants to complete eight to ten months of step studies and then find sponsors and accountability partners. Participants are also urged to visit other Celebrate Recovery groups that meet on different nights than their home groups to expand their support network. The ministry’s impact is undeniable. As Humphrey puts it, “Knowing that any of the people attending now could become the next ‘great story’ motivates us to keep doing what we do. Celebrate Recovery changes lives. It’s as simple as that.”

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Celeste King walked into her first Celebrate Recovery meeting weighed down by years of pain and shame. But what she found was a community of unconditional love and support. “This faith-based program was extremely helpful to me on my journey. Being around others who were dealing with the same struggles helped me realize I wasn’t alone. The support of the group and my family, along with God’s grace, made my recovery possible.” The hardest part for King was forgiving herself and letting go of the family and friends who still live in their addictions.

The impact of Celebrate Recovery extends far beyond Saddleback Church. Thousands of people around the world have found healing through this Christ- centered approach to freedom. The program now operates in churches, prisons, recovery centers, and universities, offering a safe space for people to share their struggles. It has become a lifeline for so many struggling with addiction, grief, anger, and other life challenges. To those considering joining, King offers this advice, “Attend a meeting with an open mind and admit you need help. Then work

the steps, taking each day one at a time, trusting in God, yourself, and the program. It works. My hope is to remain clean and sober and, if I fall, to have the strength to pull myself back up and start over.” If you are interested in checking out one of the local groups, here are some times and places. First Baptist Church Texarkana meets Tuesdays at 6:00 p.m. Church on the Rock meets Fridays at 6:00 p.m.

New Covenant Life Fellowship New Boston meets Mondays at 7:00 p.m.

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PHOTOS BY CORNELIUS CINEMATICS

Madelyn Claire Bixler

Thirteen debutantes, dressed elegantly in traditional gowns and holding bouquets of red roses arranged by Jill Hoover of H&N Floral, were formally introduced to society on December 28, 2024, at Texarkana Country Club. John Crisp, master of ceremonies, introduced each young lady as she stepped from the dais. Andrea Finley and Leisa Arnett performed each debutante’s chosen song as she and her escort circled the room. The season’s events were skillfully coordinated by Miss Blaire Barlow.

Madelyn Claire Bixler

Miss Madelyn Claire Bixler is the daughter of Reverend and Mrs. Bryan Bixler of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Bixler of Texarkana, Texas, and Mrs. Ben Garner of Camden, Arkansas. Madelyn is currently a sophomore at Baylor University in Waco, Texas, where she is pursuing a degree in biology with a premedical concentration and a minor in medical ethics. She was named to the Dean’s List her freshman year. Madelyn is a member of the Epsilon Upsilon Chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity, where she actively supports, volunteers, and fundraises for their national philanthropy focusing on mental health and well-being. In addition to her sorority involvement, Madelyn is a proud member of the Medical Service Organization in Waco, the Foundation of Medical Research Team at Baylor, and the Alpha Lambda Delta Honor Society. She also dedicates her time to Highland Baptist Church, has served as a Welcome Week Leader for freshmen, and volunteers at Parkdale Elementary School.

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Marlee Brooke Bledsoe

Isabella Clair Fuqua

Camille Smith Harrelson

Marlee Brooke Bledsoe

Isabella Clair Fuqua

Camille Smith Harrelson

Miss Marlee Brooke Bledsoe is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Bledsoe of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. Karen Williams and the late Mr. Danny Williams of Texarkana, Texas, as well as the late Mr. and Mrs. William Bledsoe of Texarkana, Arkansas. Marlee is a junior at Ouachita Baptist University in Arkadelphia, Arkansas, where she is pursuing a degree in communication sciences and disorders. She is a second- year member of the Ouachita Women’s Tennis Team and the Women of EEE social club. Marlee also represents her team as a member of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes and the National Student Speech Language Hearing Association.

Miss Isabella Clair Fuqua is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Vickers Fuqua of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Ms. Marjorie Vickers of Smackover, Arkansas and the late Mr. Thomas Howard Fuqua Jr. of Texarkana, Texas, as well as Mrs. Clara Ayres and the late Ms. Harold Ayres of Texarkana, Texas. Isabella is a sophomore at Baylor University in Waco, Texas, where she is pursuing a degree in corporate communications. She is a member of the Epsilon Upsilon Chapter of the Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity, serving on the recruitment and membership committee. Isabella was selected to compete in the seventy-fourth annual Baylor Beauty charity event, which benefited Caritas Food Pantry. She is also involved in her sorority’s philanthropic focus on mental health and well-being.

Miss Camille Smith Harrelson is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Chad Stewart of Texarkana, Texas, and Mr. Steve Harrelson of Little Rock, Arkansas. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. Terri Harrelson and the late Mr. Gene Harrelson of Texarkana, Arkansas, as well as Mr. and Mrs. Ken Schnipper and the late Mr. W. Dee Smith of Texarkana, Arkansas. Camille attends Auburn University, where she is pursuing a degree in psychology. She has been named to the Dean’s List and President’s List, served on the Glomerata yearbook staff, and currently serves as the recruiting coordinator for the Biobehavioral Research on Addiction and Internalizing Syndromes (BRAINS) Lab. Among her many other activities, Camille is a member of the Alpha Beta Chapter of Chi Omega Fraternity, through which she raises funds and awareness for Chi Omega’s national philanthropy, the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

Etiquette Guide

TECH ETIQUETTE KEEP IT QUIET Silence your phone during meetings, meals, and events. RESPECT SHARED SPACES Keep phone calls private in public areas like restaurants or waiting rooms. Do not use speakerphone in public. BE PRESENT Avoid texting or scrolling while talking to someone in person unless it is urgent.

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Lydia Leigh Horton

Lydia Grace Lee

Lani Elizabeth Lindsey

Lydia Leigh Horton

Lydia Grace Lee

Lani Elizabeth Lindsey

Miss Lydia Leigh Horton is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jared Horton of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jackie Horton of Conway, Arkansas, and Mr. and Mrs. Pete Snow of Texarkana, Texas. Lydia is a sophomore at the University of Mississippi in Oxford, Mississippi, where she is pursuing dual degrees in journalism and psychology with a minor in accounting. A member of the Sally McDonnell Barksdale Honors College, she plans to attend law school upon graduation. Lydia is a member of the Mississippi Beta Chapter of Pi Beta Phi Fraternity, where she participated in fall recruitment and contributes to Pi Beta Phi’s philanthropic initiative, Read>Lead>Achieve. She serves the chapter as a member of the Angel Announcements and Sisterhood Committees and recently coached for the CASA Encore dance competition, which her sorority participates in annually to raise funds for advocacy efforts benefiting abused and neglected children. Lydia also serves as a Department of Justice Elections Commissioner for the University’s Associated Student Body. In addition, she is a member of The Ole Miss yearbook staff, the Love Does in Action service club, and Cru Campus Ministries.

Miss Lydia Grace Lee is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lance Lee of Texarkana, Arkansas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joe Lee of McCrory, Arkansas, and Mr. and Mrs. H.D. Grace of Texarkana, Arkansas, and the great-granddaughter of Ms. Babbie Lovett of Memphis, Tennessee. Miss Lee is a sophomore at the University of Arkansas in Fayetteville, where she is enrolled in the Dale Bumpers College of Agricultural, Food, and Life Sciences, pursuing a degree in hospitality management with a minor in marketing and event planning. She is a member of the National Society of Leadership and Success and the Psi Chapter of Chi Omega Fraternity.

Miss Lani Elizabeth Lindsey is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jeremy Lindsey of Texarkana, Arkansas. She is the granddaughter of Ms. Donna Lindsey of Little Rock, Arkansas, and the late Mr. Jerry Lindsey, as well as Ms. Mary Riggins of Benton, Arkansas, and the late Mr. Tommy Riggins. Lani Beth is a sophomore at Southern Arkansas University in Magnolia, Arkansas, where she is pursuing a degree in biology and plans to attend physician assistant school. She was named to the Dean’s List her freshman year. Lani Beth is a member of the Epsilon Omicron Chapter of Phi Mu. She is a President’s Ambassador, serves as a counselor for SAU’s Leadership Academy, and is an active member of the Pre-Health Club.

Etiquette Guide SOCIAL ETIQUETTE RSVP Respond promptly to invitations and follow through with attendance or regrets. INTRODUCTIONS Introduce yourself and others when necessary, using full names and titles.

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Elizabeth Blane Maneth

Bella Claire Murdock

Eden Elizabeth Neal

Elizabeth Blane Maneth

Bella Claire Murdock

Eden Elizabeth Neal

Miss Elizabeth Blane Maneth is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jeffry Maneth of Texarkana, Arkansas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Marion Maneth of Cabot, Arkansas, and Mr. and Mrs. Steve Buelow of Fulton, Arkansas. Ellie is a sophomore at the University of Arkansas in Fayetteville, where she is pursuing a degree in finance with a concentration in real estate at the Sam M. Walton College of Business. She is a member of the Psi Chapter of Chi Omega Fraternity, where she is actively involved in Chi Omega recruitment and its national philanthropy, the Make-A- Wish Foundation.

Miss Bella Claire Murdock is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Brad Murdock of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Steven Murdock of Texarkana, Texas, and Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Hearn of New Boston, Texas. Bella is a sophomore at Texas Christian University in Fort Worth, Texas, where she is pursuing a degree in communication studies at the Bob Schieffer College of Communication. She is a member of the Phi Lambda Chapter of Delta Delta Delta Fraternity. Bella enjoys being involved in Tri Delta’s philanthropic efforts, which support St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital nationally and Cook Children’s Hospital locally.

Miss Eden Elizabeth Neal is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Neal Kiser of Texarkana, Texas, and Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Neal of Texarkana, Arkansas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Neal and Mr. and Mrs. Alan Hargis, all of Texarkana, Texas. Eden is a junior at Arkansas State University in Jonesboro, Arkansas, where she is pursuing a degree in communication sciences and disorders. She was nominated for membership in the National Society of Collegiate Scholars and has been named to the Dean’s List each semester. Eden is an active member of the Omicron Zeta Chapter of Chi Omega Fraternity. During her first year, she was honored as both Model Initiate and Outstanding Freshman Member of her pledge class. She currently serves as committee chair for alumni relations and is actively involved in fundraising for Chi Omega’s philanthropy, the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

BE PUNCTUAL Show respect for other people’s time by being punctual for appointments and meetings. If you are running late, let the other person know as soon as possible. GIFTS Bring a small gift for the host when attending a gathering or dinner. DRESS APPROPRIATELY Follow the dress code for the occasion. FOLLOW TRADITIONS If the event has specific customs, observe them respectfully. THANK THE HOST Express gratitude in person or with a follow-up note.

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Reagan Kay Raney

Ava Grace Welch

Hensley Suzanne Whitten

Reagan Kay Raney

Ava Grace Welch

Hensley Suzanne Whitten

Miss Reagan Kay Raney is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Raney of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. David “Scooter” Raney, Mr. and Mrs. Gary Harrison, and Mr. and Mrs. Joe Doss Phillips, all of Texarkana, Texas. Reagan is a sophomore at Clemson University in Clemson, South Carolina, where she is pursuing a degree in packaging science. She is a member of the Beta Theta Chapter of Delta Delta Delta Fraternity, where she serves on the philanthropy committee in support of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Miss Ava Grace Welch is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George William Welch III of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Welch Jr. of Texarkana, Texas, and Mr. and Mrs. James Rowley of Hooks, Texas. Ava is a sophomore at Texas Tech University in Lubbock, Texas, where she is pursuing a degree in psychology with a minor in legal studies. She was named to the President’s List for maintaining a 4.0 grade point average throughout her freshman year. Ava is a member of the Texas Gamma Chapter of Pi Beta Phi Fraternity, where she was elected chairman of community service. She has participated in numerous philanthropic events benefiting children’s literacy, including Barbecue for Books, Lemonade for Literacy, and Wing Ching.

Miss Hensley Suzanne Whitten is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas J. Whitten III of Texarkana, Texas. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Don Leigh of Texarkana, Arkansas and Mr. and Mrs. Marvin Rogers of Pharr, Texas, as well as the late Mr. and Mrs. Thomas J. Whitten Jr. Hensley is a sophomore at the University of Oklahoma in Norman, Oklahoma, where she is pursuing a degree in public relations with a minor in communication at the prestigious Gaylord College of Journalism and Mass Communication. She was named to the Dean’s List her freshman year and is a member of the Public Relations Student Society of America. Hensley is a member of the Beta Theta Chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity, where she was chosen to represent Kappa in the 2023 University Sing production. She will serve on the Kappa Executive Chapter Council as Panhellenic Delegate in 2025. Hensley is actively involved in fundraising efforts supporting Kappa’s national philanthropy, mental health and well-being, and volunteers locally in Norman with Sunbeam Family Services.

DINING ETIQUETTE WAIT FOR THE HOST Begin eating only after the host starts or gives permission.

NAPKIN USE As soon as you take your seat, place the napkin on your lap and use it to dab your mouth.

UTENSIL RULES Start with the outermost utensils and work inward. CHEW QUIETLY Avoid talking with your mouth full or making loud noises. PASSING ITEMS Pass food to the right and avoid reaching over others. Etiquette Guide

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“Are people born wicked? Or do they have wickedness thrust upon them?”

This quote from Glinda, in the opening moments of Wicked , sets the tone for a story that is about so much more than just a flashy musical spectacle, as I first assumed it would be. It’s a question that resonates deeply, echoing in a cancel-culture world that is quick to label others and jump to conclusions. As someone who has always loathed musicals (yes, I know that is practically blasphemous), I didn’t expect Wicked to captivate me the way it did. But here I am, three viewings deep, utterly obsessed—and with a lot to say about its message. For the uninitiated, Wicked is the previously untold story of the Wicked Witch of the West and Glinda the Good, set long before Dorothy dropped into Oz. Elphaba (the “wicked” witch) is misunderstood and ostracized for her green skin and her strong moral compass, while Glinda is her fabulous, ambitious, and, at times, a bit frustratingly superficial counterpart. The two form an unlikely friendship that is tested by societal pressures, political corruption, and their own personal growth. By the end of the first film, Elphaba has embraced her label of “wicked,” not because she is inherently bad, but because the world has forced her into that role. It’s such a complex, deeply layered story told with beautiful costumes and moving songs, while simultaneously being so emotional that it leaves you both inspired and heartbroken all at once. I went into Wicked with low expectations. Truthfully, my dislike for musicals had me ready to be annoyed throughout the film. However, I am a sucker for Ariana Grande (Glinda), and I saw how much passion was put into this film through its promotional material, so I gave it a shot. From the opening scene, I was hooked. By the end of the movie, I wasn’t just a fan—I was a believer. And here is why... In today’s world, I feel like we are so quick to brand people as “wicked” or “good,” often based on limited information or knee-jerk reactions. We buy into the idea that our perception is everything, but what if our perception is wrong? I’ve always

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hated hearing people being labeled as “bad.” It felt so reductive—as if someone’s entire worth could be dwindled down to a single word. Life isn’t black and white, and people aren’t one-dimensional. Good and bad coexist in all of us, with good pulling on one shoulder and evil pulling on the other, like a back-and-forth tug of war. Wicked illustrates that beautifully. Take Glinda, for instance. A family friend who joined me for my second viewing (yes, second) asked, “Am I supposed to love her or hate her?” The genius of Ariana Grande’s performance lies in making you feel both. Glinda is kind and well-meaning,

but also vain and afraid to leave the comfort of her (metaphorical but also literal) pink bubble. She’s a complex individual, and that is the point. No one is purely good or evil— we’re all multitudes of contradictions. That is what makes us human. And then there is Elphaba, played by Cynthia Erivo. All she wants is to do what she feels is right, but she’s punished for it at every turn. Her green skin becomes a metaphor for being “othered,” for standing out in a world that values conformity over authenticity. Watching her embrace her “wicked” label is both empowering and tragic. On one hand, it is empowering seeing

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her come into her own, but seeing how she finally gets to this point feels tragic. How often do we see this in real life? People are ostracized, ridiculed, and boxed into roles they never chose, simply because it’s easier for people to label than it would be to understand. Seeing Elphaba lean into her wickedness while staying true to herself is a triumphant yet heart wrenching moment. It’s a warning about the dangers of labeling—how pushing people into corners can lead them to become what we fear most. And while this plays out in the fantastical world of Oz on the big screen, it’s a stark reality we face every single day. My own experiences with being labeled have shaped who I am. Growing up, I knew what it was like to feel boxed in by others’ perceptions, to have my intentions misunderstood and my actions judged harshly… to be “othered.” Like Glinda’s bubble, those labels can become a prison, trapping people in roles they never wanted to play. As we step into 2025, I want to challenge all of us (myself included) to be slower to judge and quicker to listen. Let’s take a page from James 1:9, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.” Instead of pointing fingers, let’s extend a hand. Instead of assuming, let’s ask questions. And instead of labeling, let’s strive to understand. I never thought a musical—a genre I’ve avoided my entire life—would teach me such profound lessons. But Wicked isn’t just a musical. It’s a mirror held up to society, challenging us to see beyond what we think we know and seek the actual truth. It’s a story about friendship, identity, and the gray areas of morality. And it’s a cinematic masterpiece that deserves to be seen in theaters, where its grandeur and depth can be fully appreciated. But if you find you have missed that opportunity, take my advice and find it on your streaming services. There is so much more I could say, but I’d only be scratching the surface. Wicked is a testament to the power of storytelling, and its message is one I’ll carry with me long after the credits roll. As you watch, remember, no one is just one thing. We’re all just works in progress, navigating our way through a colorful, complicated world. Let’s give each other the grace to grow, to change, and to defy the gravity of the labels that try to define us.

LIVE MUSIC January 4 Jeff Ruby La Fogata Bar & Grill 6 pm January 4 Birds of a Feather Fat Jacks Oyster and Sports Bar

January 11 Saving For Tuesday Fat Jacks Oyster and Sports Bar January 16 Phil Wickham “Singalong Tour” First Baptist Church 7 pm

January 18 Rock Bottom String Band The Arrow Bar 9-12 pm January 25 Clint & The Cosmic Wake Fat Jacks Oyster and Sports Bar January 31 Bobcat One- Man Band The Wild Hare

LOCAL EVENTS January 1, 8, 15, 22, 29 Free Wednesday Yoga Southwest Center 5:30-6:30 pm January 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 Children’s Story Time Salty Boutique & Books 10:30 am January 3 Music and Moves Texarkana Regional Arts Center 10:00-10:45 am

January 7- February 22 Art Club Winter Art Show Texarkana Regional Art Center January 8, 15, 22, & 29 Storytime with Mrs. Nancy Texarkana Public Library January 10 Downtown Live! Downtown Texarkana 6-9 pm January 13 Texarkana College Ribbon Cutting for the Aviation Mechanic

Technology Program TC Hangar at the Texarkana Regional Airport 10:30 am

January 16 Expressive Drawing with Kay Thomas Texarkana Regional Arts

Center 6-8 pm

January 23 Valentines Candlesticks with Chris Thomas 518 Pine St, Texarkana, TX 6-8 pm

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