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Many moms are pining for a tranquil overnight stay to relax and rest for Mother’s Day. Browse these dreamy Cincy and NKY spots where momma can kick up her feet because well, she deserves it!
02 Get Cooking for Cinco de Mayo Whether you are celebrating on the fifth of May or just looking to have a tastyTaco Tuesday, local influencer and momma Marci Renee is back with some tasty recipes for families to try out together. 03 Neigh, It’s Derby Day! May 3rd marks the 151st annual Kentucky Derby.This fun roundup of books by Emily Widolff of Never-Ending Stories celebrates the most exciting two minutes in sports with exciting equestrian tales.
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Features Navigating Standardized Testing Plan for success! Gain an understanding about common standardized tests, why they are important and how students can best prepare for them. Swim Lessons for All Ages Summer is upon us, which means it is almost time for pools, lakes and beaches. From infants to elders, everyone can get more comfortable in the water. Go from sinking to swimming safely with the help of this awesome article. be a little messier.This article reminds readers to embrace the experience, for both its beauty and its chaos. Sometimes expectations and reality are two very different things. While trendy social media influencers paint pretty pictures of success at college, real life may College: Real Life vs.TikTok
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20 Types of Mothers-in-Law You know the stereotype of the monster- in-law, but there are actually other types of mothers-in-law. From know-it-alls to the coveted one-in-a-million MIL, we have covered not only the types of mothers- in-law, but also how to navigate their personality types.
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“Let’s Have Kids—It’ll Be Fun” (Famous Last Words) M y husband loves to tease me with a line I allegedly said nearly two decades ago: “Let’s have kids—it’ll be fun!” For the record, I have zero recollection of ever saying that. I’m guessing I was temporarily sleep- deprived, caffeine-deprived, or just plain delusional. Fast forward 18 years, and here we are—knee-deep in the world of teen emotions, middle school meltdowns, and things I truly never saw coming. Nobody tells you when you’re holding that fresh- smelling, burrito-wrapped baby that one day you’ll be Googling things like “how to help your kid with social anxiety” or “how to explain ADHD to a 10-year-old without crying.” Spoiler alert:You’re going to cry. Probably in the car. Probably while pretending you’re just enjoying your coffee quietly in the driveway. What really hits you—somewhere around third grade—is that your child’s mental health isn’t just about school stress or screen time. It’s about the entire emotional ecosystem they live in… and yes, my fellow parents, we are the ecosystem. Turns out, those little eyeballs and ears are always on. Always.They see how we react to spiders (sorry for the screaming), to stressful phone calls, to that 43rd request for a snack.They hear our muttering when we stub a toe, and yep, they know exactly how often we say “I’m fine” when we’re very obviously not fine. And I’ll be honest—my kids inherited more than just my hair color and knack for sarcasm.They got a dash (okay, a dollop) of my anxiety. I wish I could go back and rewrite some of those early years—maybe pause before overreacting, maybe breathe more and yell less. Maybe actually listen to my husband once in a while when he suggests I “chill.” (We’re working on that.)
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Now, as I enter the final stretch of parenting “children” before they legally become adults (cue nervous laughter), I’m trying harder than ever to show up differently. I’m managing my own anxiety with a little more grace and a lot more self-awareness—because if they’re going to learn how to handle big feelings, they’ve got to see it modeled. Do we still have meltdowns? Absolutely. Do we have fewer of them than before? Praise be, yes. We’ve learned to break up homework into chunks. We take breaks when needed. And sometimes we just admit, “Hey, this is hard, and that’s okay.” It doesn’t always go smoothly, but there’s definitely less crying—and not just from me. So, in honor of National Mental Health Awareness Month, here’s my little love letter to every young parent out there: Your mental health matters too. Not just for your own sake, but because your kids are soaking up your energy like little emotional sponges. If I could go back and whisper in my younger self’s ear, I’d say, “They don’t just watch what you do, they feel what you feel.” And also, “Maybe don’t scream about that spider—it’s just a spider.” But mostly, I’d remind myself (and you): It’s never too late to model calm, to apologize, to try again, and to live the motto I now say to my kids all the time: “Just go with the flow.” (And maybe have a backup plan for when the flow turns into a flood.)
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M other’s Day is around the corner and it is time to honor moms! It can feel difficult to find the perfect gift for the woman who does so much for everyone, but Mom is deserving of a full day of celebration including a gift that is truly as amazing as she is. We went straight to the source for some worthy gift ideas—we asked local moms… What do you REALLY want for Mother’s Day?
“I would love a simple and pleasant day. Sleeping in, good coffee in the morning and some time spent outside with the kids. No arguing or complaining allowed for the entirety of the day!” -Amanda C., Associate Editor of Cincinnati Family Magazine
“I really want to check out Omega in OTR. I keep seeing these videos about their scalp massages on my timeline, and I literally can’t think of anything more relaxing as a busy mom than someone playing with my hair. My only concern is that I might fall asleep!” -Jessica R.
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“To sleep in!” -Laura H.
“Sushi.” -Amanda S.
“I would really love a night away. My own hotel room with a big bath tub in the room.” -Sally Z. “I want to go to a Japanese head spa!” -Stephanie H. “I just want to spend time with my family.Time is the best gift.” -Brittany Q.
“A spa day.” -Sarah L.
“Half of my bunch (we have eight kids and one grand) has grown up and moved out, so getting a family picture with all of them is at the top of my list for Mother’s Day.” -Angie T.
“Spa day or relaxing by a pool.” -Erin N.
“A professional massage!” -Kelset W.
“Not to have to cook, clean, do dishes or make plans for the day.” -Barbie D.
“A peaceful day with all of my kids together.” -Michelle M.
“For the house to be cleaned.” -Brittany R.
“A night out with a hotel stay.” -Ashley W.
“Night out and a hotel downtown.” -Kristine F.
“I am a single mom, so I don’t expect much. I am hoping pre- school sends home some cute artwork and that my daughter is extra cuddly on Mother’s Day!” -Kate F. “I want a yes day for myself. I pick the meals and all of the activities and no one gets to complain!” -Darcy J.
“A massage and an uninterrupted nap.” -Melanie R.
“I want to have a day planned for me. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, I just don’t want to make any of the decisions for myself or the kids for a day. I just want to sort of, show up and go. If someone needs something, don’t ask mom. Haha!” -Stacy J. “My house to be fixed up–it needs some care.” -Rhonda S.
“Flowers.” -Alice S.
“A delicious brunch, spa treatments and my family not to argue for a few hours.” -Kelly M. “A day with nothing to do but read my book.” -Jennifer A.
“Family quality time, hike, checking out a new restaurant and a really good dessert!” -Ann P.
“A day for myself.” -Kimberly B.
“Broadway or concert tickets” -Tara I.
“A full day of rest” -Dayna W.
“To be waited on all day!” -Jennifer W.
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Cincinnati Buzz
To commemorate the 50th anniversary ofThe Big Red Machine , a new exhibit is now open at the Reds Hall of Fame Museum. The Big Red Machine: A 50th Anniversary Celebration of the Back-to-Back World Champions , presented by Dinsmore, features captivating video footage and over 100 artifacts that put a spotlight on the Great Eight and their team journey building the machine. A walk through this exhibition will have fans truly reliving the 1975 and 1976 world championship Reds era. And courtesy of the H.C.S. Foundation, kids 12 and under receive FREE admission! Visit mlb.com/reds/hall-of-fame to learn more. NEW REDS HOF MUSEUM EXHIBIT
NEW GORMAN HERITAGE FARM EVENT
Spring time means baby animals down on the farm! Gorman Heritage Farm’s new May Farm Fest invites families to not only meet all of the adorable farm babies but so much more. This exclusive one-day only celebration will take place on May 10 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Beyond meeting friendly farm animals, families can explore craft vendors, try family-friendly food options, touch-a-tractor/truck (9 a.m.–noon) and encounter some of Dino Buddies’ reptiles (noon–3p.m.). Buy tickets in advance online for savings; day of pricing is $10 for children 2–17 and seniors 65+, $15 for adults and free for little ones under the age of two. Check out gormanfarm.org for tickets and details.
Keen eyes may have seen some massive mammoths at the Reds Opening Day Parade!This exciting happening kicked off a mammoth move, literally.The Cincinnati Museum Center’s (CMC) collection of four wooly mammoths are moving from their most recent home, outside of the Geier Collections and Research Center, to right next to the museum center at 1518 Dalton Avenue.The mammoths will mark the new home of CMC’s collections, theTreasure Facility, which includes over six million artifacts!The new, state-of-the-art 200,000-square-foot facility will undergo renovations through 2027 and once complete will span 11 acres and house education, research and collections initiatives. Stay in-the-know by visiting cincymuseum.org. CINCINNATI MUSEUM CENTER COLLECTION MAKING MOVES
MERMAIDS RETURNTO NEWPORT AQUARIUM
The waters of Newport Aquarium are about to get a lot more whimsical this month. Mermaids are making their return for one month only starting on May 24. Families can see mermaids gracefully swimming underwater in the Coral ReefTunnel and say hello to a mermaid who is spending time with stingray friends at the enchanting Mermaid Cove. And be sure to check the schedule to visit the Shark Ray Bay Theatre during a Mermaid Meet & Greet. Newport Aquarium presents Mermaids is included in general admission. Visit newportaquarium.com for all of the deets.
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SAT & ACT 101 NAVIGATING STANDARDIZED TESTING:
BY SANONNA ALTAWEEL
F or students, the idea of taking standardized tests can often feel daunting. However, understanding the types of tests, their benefits, how to prepare for them, and available testing resources can make the entire process much less intimidating and set students up for educational success.
that these exams provide to students and schools.
• Essay (Optional) The essay portion is optional, but some colleges require it. In this section, students are asked to analyze a passage and construct an essay that explains how the author builds their argument. The SAT is scored on a scale from 400 to 1600, with separate scores given for the reading and writing section (up to 800) and the math section (up to 800).The essay score is separate and is graded based on a rubric that assesses writing skills and argumentation. The ACT is structured similarly to the SAT but with a few differences.The ACT assesses students in four areas: • English This section tests grammar, punctuation, sentence structure, and rhetorical skills. • Math The math section covers topics such as algebra, geometry, and trigonometry. It is more focused on mathematical problem-solving than the SAT. • Reading This section tests reading comprehension, similar to the SAT, where students must analyze passages and answer questions about them. • Science The ACT includes a unique science section that evaluates a student’s ability to interpret, analyze, and reason through scientific data and experiments.This is the ACT’s most distinctive feature from the SAT. The ACT is scored on a scale, with each section scoring between 1 and 36.The average of these four sections gives the overall composite score, which ranges from 1 to 36.The ACT also offers an optional writing section (the essay), which is scored separately.
• Measuring Student Knowledge and Skills
One of the biggest advantages of standardized testing is its ability to objectively measure a student’s academic knowledge and skills.These tests provide clear data about where a student stands academically in comparison to national or regional standards.This allows educators to identify strengths and areas for improvement in their students. • College and Career Readiness Standardized tests like the SAT and ACT are crucial tools in assessing whether a student is ready for the challenges of higher education. College admissions officers rely on these tests to get an objective measure of academic ability and preparedness. Similarly, many employers use standardized tests as part of their hiring process to assess job- related skills. • Identifying Learning Gaps For students, standardized tests can help pinpoint gaps in knowledge. Recognizing these gaps allows for targeted interventions, helping students stay on track academically. HOW TO PREP FORTHE SAT AND ACT Preparation is key to performing well on these tests. Here are some proven strategies that can help students get ready: 1. Know theTest Format Take time to research the specific test you will be taking. Understand the format, timing, and types of questions you will encounter.This will allow you to feel more confident and less anxious on the test day. 2. Make a Study Plan A well-organized study plan can make a huge difference in preparing for standardized tests. Set aside regular
WHAT ARE STANDARDIZED TESTS?
Standardized tests are assessments that are administered and scored in a consistent, uniform manner across all test-takers.The goal of these tests is to evaluate a student’s academic abilities, knowledge, or potential in specific subjects under controlled conditions.They are designed to ensure that every student takes the same test, under the same conditions, and is scored according to the same criteria. THE SAT & ACT The two nationally recognized standardized tests for college admissions are the SAT (Scholastic AssessmentTest) and the ACT (American CollegeTest). Both exams are used by colleges and universities across the United States to assess a student’s readiness for higher education, helping admissions officers make objective decisions about applicants. The SAT is broken down into three main sections. • Evidence-Based Reading and Writing This section tests reading comprehension and writing skills, focusing on the student’s ability to analyze written passages and answer questions about them. • Math The math section covers a range of topics, including algebra, problem- solving, and data analysis. Some questions require a calculator, while others are “no-calculator” questions.
BENEFITS OF STANDARDIZED TESTING
While standardized testing often gets a bad rap, there are significant benefits
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study time in your schedule, and divide your study sessions into manageable chunks. 3. Practice with Sample Questions One of the best ways to prepare is by practicing with sample questions and past test papers.You can find official practice tests and questions through the test administrators’ websites. Take these practice tests under timed conditions to simulate the actual test experience and to help build familiarity with the content. TEST PREP RESOURCES Luckily for students, here’s a wealth of resources available to help prepare for the SAT and ACT. Here are some of the best options: 1. Official Test Prep Materials Start with the official prep materials provided by test creators.The College Board (for SAT) and ACT offer free and paid resources, including practice tests, study guides, and prep courses on their websites. 2. Online Study Platforms Platforms like Khan Academy offer free video lessons and practice exercises tailored to the SAT. Magoosh and Quizlet also provide comprehensive study resources, including practice questions, flashcards, and video explanations. 3.Test Prep Books Books from trusted publishers like Kaplan,The Princeton Review, and Barron’s are widely used for standardized test preparation. Copies of these books are often available to check out for free at your local library! 4.Tutors and Prep Courses If you prefer one-on-one attention, consider hiring a tutor or enrolling in a prep course.Tutors can provide personalized help, focusing on your specific weaknesses. 5. Study Groups and Peer Support Don’t underestimate the power of studying with others. Joining a study group or participating in online forums can provide motivation, helpful tips, and different perspectives on problem-solving. Standardized testing is a challenging yet essential part of the educational journey. Whether preparing for college admissions, state assessments, or subject-specific tests, understanding the types of exams, the benefits they offer, and how to best prepare for them can set students up for success.
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The College Experience: TikTok vs. Reality BY MADISON VOORHIES
I f you’ve ever scrolled through TikTok’s #collegelife or #dormlife tags, you’ve probably seen the highlight reel of college life: picture- perfect dorm rooms, effortlessly stylish students walking to class with iced coffees in hand, and friend groups straight out of a sitcom. From aesthetic study sessions to wild weekend parties, TikTok paints college as an exciting, glamorous, and carefully curated experience. But does it really look like that in real life? Not exactly. WhileTikTok captures some aspects of college, it often exaggerates or omits the messy, unfiltered reality. Let’s break down the biggest differences betweenTikTok’s version of college and what it’s actually like. EXPECTATION: Aesthetic Dorms Straight Off Your Pinterest Board TikTok dorm tours showcase string
lights, plush bedding, color-coordinated décor, and spotless organization. Every inch of space seems optimized for coziness and productivity, making it look like a dream home away from home.
students taking meticulous notes in perfect handwriting, using pastel highlighters, and sipping matcha lattes while classical music plays softly in the background.The vibe? Calm, productive, and stress-free. REALITY: Late-Night Cram Sessions and Academic Panic In reality, college academics are a whirlwind of last-minute cramming, panicking over forgotten deadlines, and bargaining with yourself about how little sleep you can survive on before an 8 a.m. lecture. Study sessions often involve messy notes, half-drunk energy drinks, and the crushing realization that you should’ve started studying weeks ago. Pro tip:Try to establish a solid study routine early on. If done correctly, you’ll have a full four years to experience everything college has to offer. Why not do it with a pretty GPA?
REALITY: Cramped Chaos with Questionable Air Quality Most freshmen move into tiny,
outdated dorms with cinder block walls, questionable carpets, and communal bathrooms that make you rethink ever going barefoot. Sure, some students go all out with their setups, but keeping a dorm this pristine is nearly impossible—especially when you’re sharing it with a roommate whose idea of “clean” is secluding their dirty laundry and dishes to their side of the room. EXPECTATION: Effortless Academic Success TikTok’s “studytok” scene is full of
EXPECTATION: Parties Every Weekend,
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third time in a week. College isn’t a perfectly curated routine—it’s messy, spontaneous, and full of ups and downs. The Verdict? College is WhatYou Make It TikTok’s version of college isn’t completely false—it just leaves out the harder, more unglamorous parts. The reality is: college is a mix of stress and excitement, independence and uncertainty, unforgettable moments and everyday struggles. It’s not a movie, but that’s what makes it real. And that’s the best part. College isn’t about fitting into a perfect aesthetic—it’s about discovering who you are, finding your people, and embracing the highs and lows that come with it. Some days will be tough, but others will be incredible—the kind of moments you’ll look back on and smile.The reality of college isn’t always picture-perfect, but it’s yours to shape. So go in with an open mind, take the pressure off trying to make it look likeTikTok, and focus on making it an experience that’s meaningful, exciting, and uniquely yours.
REALITY: It Takes Time to Find Your People—AndThat’s Okay! Making friends in college isn’t always instant.The first few weeks can feel lonely, and it takes effort to find your group. With time, shared experiences, and some trial and error, you will eventually find your people. Editor’s note: I met my first college best friend in our dorm’s elevator! She noticed we both walked to the same science class every morning and asked if I wanted to sit together.The rest is history! Moral of the story? Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. EXPECTATION: Balanced, Productive, Instagram-Worthy Life According toTikTok, college students somehow manage to maintain perfect routines: waking up early, working out, making healthy meals, staying on top of assignments, and still having time for a vibrant social life. REALITY: Chaos, Procrastination, and Cereal for Dinner In reality, most students are just trying to survive. Sleep schedules are unpredictable, motivation comes in waves, and “meal prep” sometimes means eating instant ramen for the
Social Life on Fire From Greek life ragers to themed dorm parties,TikTok makes it seem like every weekend is an endless cycle of fun, complete with neon lights, great music, and an effortlessly cool friend group. REALITY: Some Great Nights, Some Netflix Nights Yes, parties exist, but they aren’t always the cinematic experienceTikTok makes them out to be. Sometimes they’re overcrowded and sweaty, sometimes they get shut down by campus police, and sometimes you’d rather stay in and binge-watch a show in your pajamas.The reality? College social life is a mix of great nights out, awkward encounters, and plenty of quiet nights in. Not every college student loves a rager, and universities offer plenty of other extracurriculars to keep you occupied. EXPECTATION: Instant Best Friends and a Built-In Support System TikTok often shows college students forming deep friendships right away— laughing in dining halls, going on spontaneous road trips, and having heart-to-hearts at 3 a.m.
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Swim Lessons for All Ages BY JULIANNA STEEN
to interact with water, especially during the summer months. Sadly, the CDC reports that “drowning is the second leading cause of unin- tentional injury death for children ages 5–14.” Equipping your children with safety skills will give you both peace of mind while they’re playing in the pool. If you know they can swim well, you’ll also feel more comfortable to send them on pool playdates when you’re not available to watch over them. Teenagers Even if your teen has a basic grasp on how to stay afloat, becoming trained in lifeguarding, CPR, or water rescues can open doors to potential summer jobs or hobbies they may really enjoy.They can also use their swim skills to participate in competitive swimming opportu- nities.The water can be a place of immense insecurity, so working to improve skills can boost your teen’s
“Sink or swim,” the old adage goes. My family recently had dear friends who discovered their toddler after he had fallen in the pool when unsupervised.Thankfully, he was re- suscitated and survived, but it was a scary and uncertain few hours. Swim lessons can sometimes seem like something meant for “little kids,” but the truth is that you’re never too old to learn. Knowing how to swim is an essential skill that can save your life. According to CDC Drowning Prevention, “Every year in the United States there are over 4,000 unintentional drowning deaths.” People of all ages are dying every year—and many of these deaths are preventable if people would learn how to swim. Once you learn how to swim, you can then protect yourself and others. Here are just a few of the reasons why swim lessons are important for
every age group.
Infants & Toddlers (6 months–3 years )
The CDC statistics prove that “more children ages 1–4 die from drown- ing than any other cause of death.” Putting your baby in swim lessons is crucial because it teaches them basic survival skills like floating, turning over, and holding onto the wall in the pool. Plus, it reduces the fear of water early on, enabling them (and you) to feel a sense of comfort and familiarity when they are in the water. Young Children (4–12 years) Not only is swimming a good way to be active, it can also train your kids swimming techniques and coordination, building up their confidence and water indepen- dence. Swimming is not just a “fun” problem, it can be lethal, as almost all children are expected
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self-confidence, particularly in so- cial settings.
Adults Water is not without risk, even for adults. Learn to enjoy the water safely so you can play freely with your kids in the water.There are also physical benefits to using swimming as a form of exercise, including joint health and stress relief from water therapy. (Not to mention swimming laps is an excel- lent workout!) If you haven’t spent much time in the water before, think of the swim lessons as a form of safety, both for yourself and your family. If something happens to your kid in the water, you want to be prepared to jump in and save the day. Seniors It can be scary to get into your older years and not know how to swim. This fear can really inhibit your free- dom, leading you to avoid pools, lakes, and other bodies of water. But there are more benefits than just your ease of mind and mental wellbeing; swim lessons can also be a low-impact, full-body workout that relaxes your muscles and is gentle on your joints. Additionally, swimming can improve blood circu- lation and balance, reducing the risk of falling. Regardless of your age, swim lessons can be extremely helpful, making them a wise and practical choice for people in all stages of life. In addition to swimming in the “classroom,” you can also learn water safety skills on RedCross’ free Swim app. Check your local YMCAs and community centers for swimming class availability. Swim schools are also popular and an excellent place to take your babies through elementary school-aged kids. Give yourself and your kids the opportunities to enjoy water recreation by cultivating the lifelong skill of learning how to swim now, no matter how old (or young!) you are.
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Types of Mothers- in-Law
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er-in-law simply cannot say no to her precious grandbabies’ angelic faces. Basically, this mother-in-law breathes for her grandbabies to the point that when she walks through the door, she shoves people out of the way to get to her grands. Having aYes Grandma means an abundance of toys, clothes, treats, trips and more for your little ones, all thanks to Grandma. She may even spoil you from time to time with little treats—you did play a small role in creating her favorite people, after all. She may not have had the means or the time to spoil her own kids this much, so now this Grandma shows love by doing whatever she can to make her grand- kids happy. Just remember, boundaries are okay!Tell this Grandma that “yes” she can buy your kids a drum set, but they must live at her house. One-in-a-Million MIL She accepts you with open arms and genuinely cares about your well-being. This is the jackpot of all mothers-in- law, so go ahead and thank your lucky stars if this is your MIL. She may call you up to go shopping and take you to lunch just to gab, she offers to drive the kids to practice or watches the kids so you and your partner can go on a much-needed date night. She was a great mom, and that makes her an intuitive mother-in-Law who knows just how to help. If she lets the kids stay up a little too late, you know you have to let it slide because she is so much better than those monster-in-laws you have heard so much about. Be sure to let her know how much she is appre- ciated and communicate how grateful you are for her. Truant Mother-in-Law
Out of all the fish in the sea, you caught a good one! And while you had a choice in who you married, you don’t have a choice in who their parents are. Navigating mothers-in-law tends to be tricky business. Knowing what type of mother-in-law you are dealing with can help you understand how to keep things pleasant. What type of in-law do you have, and which one will you be in the future? Know-It-All-In-Law She is the mother of your favorite person on the planet! She is also the creator of that person’s favorite meal. She is even happy to share the recipe with you, but when she samples the dish you made from her recipe, she will let you know that something isn’t just right in your version. From the moment of an announced pregnancy, this gem will willfully share her abundance of expertise in baby names, sleep, feeding, changing diapers, sibling relationships, pediatrics, discipline and then move onto marriage, cleaning, cooking and… you get the point. At the heart of it, the know-it-all mother-in-law just wants someone to acknowledge how great of a mom she was and still is. It was her identity, and with her birdies out of the nest, who is she now?Throw her a bone every once in a while and rave on how amazing her child turned out and what an excellent spouse she raised for you. It is okay to gently remind her that while you may never live up to her perfect example, it is your turn to give this whole marriage and parenthood thing a try. “YES” Grandma You have heard of aYes Day, well how about theYes Grandma?This moth-
Tardy. Absent. Mother-in-Law, who? Don’t dwell on this dud and remember: it’s her loss. She may be “too busy” or honestly, who even cares about her ex- cuses.The little family you have created is amazing, so focus on who does show up for you and your crew. If you catch her posting your beautiful babies on social media flaunting how great of a grandmother she is, take a deep breath and exhale out the anger.You can’t change her. Learn from her mistakes and make sure you don’t follow in her footsteps in the future. Be the best in- law ever when you become one, even if it is just to spite her.
Heavenly Mother-in-Law Take some time this month to re-
member the woman who raised your spouse. Share memories that make you laugh, smile and yes, maybe even cry when thinking about her. Consider who she was and celebrate her accordingly. Was she outdoorsy?Take a hike. Did she love to bake? Get in the kitchen. Was travel more her thing? Maybe take a small trip in her honor. While she may be gone, don’t let this mother-in-law be forgotten this month and beyond. While walking on eggshells should not be required to navigate a mother- in-law relationship, simply handling with care may keep things positive for everyone involved. Look to your partner for support and advice— they have known your MIL longer, after all. And remember that relationships are a two- way street, the burden of maintaining a good relationship shouldn’t fall all on your shoulders. Focus on what you can control, which is your outlook, your energy and your own happiness. Best of luck!
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MOMS MATTER TOO
Happy May! Celebrate the mom’s in your life all month long with fun floral events, spring markets and some deli- cious Mother’s Day Brunches, too. Be sure to also check out the empowering Mom’s MatterToo Event, hosted by Vessel Collective.
MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH
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Highlights include strawberry Nutella French toast, lemon spring pea cam- panile, made-to-order cacio e pepe, sugar cane waffles and more. Subi- to, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. $45-79. subitoat- lytlepark.com MOTHER’S DAY BUFFET @THE LEMPICKA Celebrate Mother’s Day with an unforgettable gourmet buffet atThe Lempicka by Jeff Ruby in Cincinnati. The Lempicka by Jeff Ruby, 10:30 a.m.-4 p.m. eventbrite.com/e/moth- ers-day-buffet-tickets-1287112009669 MOTHER’S DAYTEA PARTY This three-course tea will be served with delicious local foods from the Cincy area!The Carnegie Center of ColumbiaTusculum, 1:30-3 p.m. $40 a person. thecarnegiecenter.org
MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH @THE CAM Celebrate Mother’s Day with a deli- cious brunch at theTerrace Café be- fore enjoying the CAM’s exhibitions. Cincinnati Art Museum, 11 a.m.-3 p.m. $47.95+. cincinnatiartmuseum.org
MOTHER’S DAY BREAKFAST WITH BARBIE Mom’s are icons, just like Barbie! Cincinnati Museum Center is pairing a delicious, perfectly pink breakfast experience with a visit to the Barbie: A Cultural Icon exhibit. Cincinnati Museum Center, 8-9:30am $60. cincymuseum.org SUNDAY, MAY 11
MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH BUFFET @ FORNO
Get a stack of Forno’s famous pan- cakes and other brunch favorites like biscuits and gravy and check out the carving stations, too. Forno Hyde Park and Forno Montgomery, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. $25-50. fornoosteriabar.com
MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH @THE BELL EVENT CENTER
This relaxing afternoon, filled with de- licious food, live music and a touch of creativity, is a perfect treat for moms! Swing by the flower bar to create a beautiful bouquet for just $15!The Bell Event Centre, noon-2 p.m. $40-
MOTHER’S DAY BRUNCH BUFFET @ SUBITO
Spring-inspired dishes and Italian flare will be a real treat for Mom!
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Broadway in Wicked and Hamilton and for her portray- al of Nina Rosario in theTony Award-winning musical In the Heights, Broadway icon Mandy Gonzalez joins JMR and the Pops in a celebra- tion of the Latine voices of Broadway, such as Lin-Manu- el Miranda, Rita Moreno and Linda Ronstadt. Expect hits from In the Heights, Hamil- ton, Moana and many more! Music Hall, May 2-3: 7:30
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While supplies last, get to the game for a Bobblehead featuring a Reds CloneTroop- er in honor of Star Wars night at the ballpark. Great American Ballpark, 6:40 p.m. $23. mlb.com/reds FAIRY HOUSE BUILDING WORKSHOP Add a bit of whimsy to the yard by creating a fun fairy house to take home. Cald- well Nature Preserve, 10 a.m.-noon. $6 per person for ages five and older. explore- nature.regfox/fairy-house- building-workshop GROWFEST Discover hard-to-find veg- etables, herbs, perennials, shrubs, trees and more.This celebration will also feature live music, kids’ activities, food trucks, a raffle and more.The Civic Garden Cen- ter, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Free. civic- gardencenter.org/growfest MOTHER-SON DANCE Celebrate the cherished bond between mothers (or mother figures) and sons of all ages! Enjoy a night filled with delicious food, lively dancing and unforgettable memories. Dan Beard Council, 6-9 p.m. $15-25. eventbrite.com/e/ mother-son-dance- tickets-1266698191389 OUTDOOR ARCHERY: MAY THE FOURTH EDITION “A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away...” May the Fourth is coming up, why not celebrate with archery and a variety of Star Wars themed games! For ages 10+. Winton Woods Adventure Outpost, Compound Bow: 10 a.m., Recurve Bow: 1 p.m. $26. greatparks.org
CCAC’s PLAY +TALES May 1
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by Vivian Brown and craft a uniquely inspired artwork. Contemporary Arts Center, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free-$5. contemporaryartscenter.org
p.m. May 4: 2 p.m. cincinnatiarts.org
BIRTHDAY CANDLES Birthday Candles tender- ly explores motherhood, family, love, loss and finding one’s place in the universe. Cincinnati Playhouse in the Park, 7:30 p.m., show runs through May 18. $35+. cincyplay.com CINCINNATI REDS VS. ST. LOUIS CARDINALS Great American Ballpark,
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TITANIC-AN IMMERSIVE VOYAGE
Stick around for a post-game firework show! Great Ameri- can Ballpark, 6:10 p.m. $23+. mlb.com/reds CRITTERS AND CRUMBS: SNAIL SHENANIGANS Investigate the world of tiny creatures through this hand-on program. Cincinnati Nature Center, 10:30-11 a.m. $8-12. cincynature.org DISNEY’S FROZEN JR. With a cast of beloved characters and loaded with adventure and plenty of hu- mor, this production brings Arendelle to life, onstage.Taft Theatre, May 2: 7 p.m., May 3: 11 a.m. or 2 p.m., May 4: 2 or 5 p.m. $12.96+. thechildrenstheatre.com MUSIC WITH MADCAP: JACK AND THE BEANSTALK The Madcap puppet friends join the violin, cello and pia- no to bring the story of Jack and the Beanstalk to life! Fee-Fi-Fo-Fum, come find out how Jack outwits the tricky giant! Main Branch Library, Cincinnati, 10:30 a.m. Free. peanutbutterandjam.org
Immerse the family in the legendary tale of theTitan- ic by exploring over 300 artifacts, wandering through life-sized reconstructed rooms, seeing 3D views, video animations and state- of-the-art technology.Titanic Immersive Experience, 9:30 a.m.-7 p.m., open Wed-Mon in May. $25-34. expo-titanic. com/cincinnati ZOO BABIES Celebrate family and visit the zoo to see baby animals both big and small! Cincinnati Zoo and Botanical Garden, 10 a.m.-5 p.m., through May 31. $11-27, free with member- ship. cincinnatizoo.org FRI 2 CINCINNATI PLAYHOUSE INTHE PARK: ALICE INTHE HUNDRED ACRE WOOD This mixed-up, mashed-up misadventure showcases Alice going through the looking glass, landing with Winnie the Pooh and pals. Dave Finkelman Auditorium, 10-11 a.m. Free, registration requested. events.miamioh. edu/event/cincinnati-play- house-in-the-park-alice-in- the-hundred-acre-wood MANDY GONZALEZ: LA VIDA BROADWAY Best known for starring on
12:40 p.m. $8+. mlb.com/reds
DIRECTOR’S VISION: NO BOUNDARIES Innovation times three, don’t miss this complex triple bill ballet featuring Cacti, Our Story and Delmira. Aronoff Center, 7:30 p.m., show runs through May 4. $29+. cballet.org PLAY +TALES The power of pretend reigns supreme in this program for pre-school aged kiddos! Lit- tle ones will hear a story and act it out, too. Clifton Cultural Arts Center, 9:30 a.m. Free, suggested donation of $5. cliftonculturalarts.org
THE TEMPEST Shakespeare’s romantic
tale, replete with magic and monsters is a voyage not to be missed.The Otto M. Budig Theater, 7:30 p.m., show runs through May 4. $14-76. cincyshakes.com THURSDAY ART PLAY Young artists can explore powerful paintings created
SUPER SPROUTS GARDEN CLUB
Little sprouts can help in the garden, read stories, make crafts, meet animal friends and more. Glenwood Gardens, Highfield Discovery Garden, 10:30 a.m. $7.
RUN FORTHE ROSES Celebrate race day with
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A BEAUTIFUL NOISE Created in collaboration with Neil Diamond himself, A Beautiful Noise is the uplifting true story of how a kid from Brooklyn became a chart-busting, show-stopping American rock icon. Aronoff Center, Procter & Gamble Hall, 7:30 p.m., show runs
family-focused festivities like a petting zoo and live music. Be sure to catch the race on the jumbo LED screen and place bets for a chance to win prizes from levee restaurants and retailers. Newport on the Levee, 5-8 p.m. Free. newportonthelevee.com SCI-FI NIGHT Starfighters can boldly go on an out-of-the-world jour- ney to explore sci-fi books, shows and movies.There will be presentations, games and an interactive project from local artist Michael Thompson. Cincinnati Observatory, 7-10 p.m. $10- 15. cincinnatiobservatory.org SPRING POTTERY FAIR Featuring over 30 of the area’s top clay artists, Cincin- nati Clay Alliance is hosting their 24th annual pottery fair event. 1523 Madison Road, East Walnut Hills, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Free. clayalliance.org
Free. greatparks.org
Fans can purchase a special ticket package that includes an exclusive Minecraft jersey! Great American Ball Park, general admission: $8+, Minecraft package: $37+. Great American Ballpark, 4:10 p.m. mlb/com/reds DIY MOTHER’S DAY CARDS Tell mom “thanks for helping me grow” with a special seed-bomb card! Using recycled handmade paper and organic floral paint, craft a card that will transform into a “bee-utiful” pollinator garden. Miami Whitewater Forest Visitor Center, 1 p.m. facebook.com/ events/1004442001621367 LET NATURE SING Celebrate spring with a concert from the Viva Voices Children’s Choir &Youth Chorus. Drees Home Auditorium, 7-8:30 p.m. $15. vivavoices.net MAYTHE 4TH BEWITH YOU: STAR WARS DAY Enjoy a movie in the park, cosplaying, a light show, food trucks, art and more. Rivers Edge in Hamilton, 4 p.m. Free. riversedgelive. com/maythe4thbewithyou SUNDAY HISTORYTOURS Get an in-depth guided tour of the Observatory and learn its role in weather forecast- ing and timekeeping. Perfect for history, astronomy and science buffs ages 12 and up. Cincinnati Observatory, noon or 1:30 p.m. $5-10. cincinnatiobservatory.org MON 5 DISCOVERY KIDS Use oil pastels to create flower art in the style of renowned artist Georgia O’Keeffe. Deer Park Branch Library, 3-4 p.m. Free. chpl.org TUE 6
FAMILY ASTRONOMY NIGHT
Get a view through the tele- scope (weather permitting) and enjoy additional themed activities and crafts, too. Cincinnati Observatory, May 8 and 15, 7-8:30 p.m. $7-15. cincinnatiobservatory.org THURSDAY ART PLAY Crafty kids can create a special homemade gift for the special mother or grandmother in their life. Contemporary Arts Center, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Free-$5. contemporaryartscenter.org FRI 9 ART PROM:THROUGH THE LOOKING GLASS Teens! Follow Alice down the rabbit hole and party it up with the Mad Hatter. Drop in, hang out, make art and dance with familiar and new friends alike. Contemporary Arts Center, 8-10 p.m. Free. contemporaryartscenter.org AQUARIUM AFTER DARK Calling all scouts troops! Head to the Aquarium for a pizza party, special scheduled activities and a self-guided twilight tour with scavenger hunt. Plus, all scouts will re- ceive a souvenir patch upon completion of the scavenger hunt. Newport Aquarium, 7:15-11:15 p.m. $49.99 per person. newportaquarium.com
through May 18. cincinnatiarts.org
DR. NEIL DEGRASSE TYSON: SEARCH FOR LIFE INTHE UNIVERSE Astrophysicist, author and science communicator Dr. Neil deGrasseTyson will be on stage sharing his insights. The Andrew J. Brady Music Center, 7:30 p.m. $49.50-250. bradymusiccenter.com Pre-schoolers can visit the farm with their grown-up to hear themed books and en- joy sensory activities. Parky’s Farm, 10:30 a.m. Free. greatparks.org WED 7 STORYTIME ONTHE FARM REC READS Toddlers can hear stories, sing songs and do senso- ry activities. Cincinnati Art Museum, 11:30 a.m. Free. cincinnatiartmuseum.org THU 8 CREATURE CHRONICLES Toddlers love wiggling, gig- gling and playing at the park with new friends and animal pals, too. Miami Whitewater Forest Visitor Center, 10 a.m.
UPSIDE DOWN FAIRY TOWN
River City Puppets presents a tale of fairy tales all mixed up! Help the storyteller un- tangle the stories. Featuring music, comedy and puppets. Memorial Hall OTR, 2 p.m.
Free, tickets required. memorialhallotr.com
CINCINNATI REDS VS. WASHINGTON NATIONALS
Be sure to get to the game early for an exclusive bob- blehead featuring a Reds CloneTrooper. Great Ameri- can Ball Park, $23+. 6:40 p.m. mlb.com/reds YOUTH NERF BLITZ Experience fast-paced, ac- tion-packed game modes in a custom-built parkour arena. Swift Movement Studio, 5-7:30 p.m. $17.50-35. swift-movement.com/nerf SUN 4
SWEET CHARITY
DISNEY’S FROZEN JR. May 2-5
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Stadium, 7:30 a.m. $30-40. gotrcincinnati.org
care for their young in Zoo Families!Through hands-on activities, up-close animal encounters, and fun facts, families will uncover the incredible strategies of na- ture’s most devoted parents. Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden, 6-7:30 p.m. $20-25. cincinnatizoo.org SUN 11 ART ON VINE Browse lovely local artist’s booths to do some Mother’s Day shopping. Washington Park, noon-6 p.m. Free. artonvinecincy.com Back for the first time of the season! Hyde Park Square, 9:30 a.m.-1 p.m. on Sun- days through October. Free. hydeparkfarmersmarket.com MOTHER’S DAY MARKET Treat mom to some sips and shopping. Featuring local vendors and unique gifts. MadTreeTaproom, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Free. madtree.com HYDE PARK FARMER’S MARKET RE CREATE Head to the Rosenthal Educa- tion Center to meet up with REC Artist in Residence Kar- en Saunders to create some awesome art. Cincinnati Art Museum, 1-3 p.m. Free. cincinnatiartmuseum.org Celebrate the cultural heri- tage of Asian Americans, Native Hawaiians and Pacific Islanders and learn the basics of traditional paper folding techniques from instructorYu Ling Huang.Taft Museum of Art, 1-3 p.m. Free. taftmuseum.org MON 12 SENSORY EXPLORATIONS KIDSPACE ACTIVITIES After school, head to the Kid- SPACE for activities focusing on Science, Play, Art, Creativ- ity and Exploration! Cincin-
GOTR 5K May 10
HURRAY FOR MOM Many animals (including humans) have close relationships with their mothers. From the gentle jaws of an alligator to the comfy pouch of an opossum, come learn about the Zoo moms.Cincinnati Zoo & Botanical Garden, 10 a.m.- noon $20-25. cincinnatizoo.org MATT MAUPIN MEMORIAL KIDS FISHING DERBY Bring a fishing pole and join in on a day of fishing and fun. Pattison Park Lakeside,
FC CINCINNATI PRE-MATCH AT THE PARK Festivities will include music, tons of vendors to interact with, a variety of food trucks serving up some delicious grub, inflatable soccer games, the inflatable FCC slide and so much more! Washington Park, 4-6:30 p.m. Free. washingtonpark.org FC CINCINNATI VS. AUSTIN FC Celebrate Asian American and Pacific Islander Night with local AAPI organiza- tions.TQL Stadium, 7:30 p.m. $26+. tqlstadium.com FISHING FOR BEGINNERS Learn all about fishing safety, casting, how to bait hooks and even how to identify caught fish. Fishing rods provided on a first-come, first served basis. Lake Isabella Boathouse, 1-3 p.m. $10-13. greatparks.org The Krohn butterfly show is as enchanting as ever with an edgy level of mystery in 2025! Shadowy black foliage and deep-hued blooms set the stage for hundreds of iridescent butterflies to shimmer in the light. Krohn Conservatory, 10 a.m.-8p.m. GOTHICA BOTANICA BUTTERFLY SHOW through August 10. See website for ticket details. cincinnati-oh.gov GOTR 5K Confidence through accom- plishment! Girls can cele- brate their spring season of Girls on the Run with this 5k which features a fami- ly-focused Fun Zone. PayCor
This brassy, bold musical comedy follows the hapless but unflappable Charity Hope Valentine in her search for love, friendship and the chance to make it big inThe Big Apple. Aronoff Center, Jarson-KaplanTheater, 7:30 p.m., show runs through May 17. $26+. cincinnatiarts.org SAT 10 ART ONTHE RISE Venture to the Art Climb for live performances and art-making activities. Cincin- nati Art Museum, 1-3 p.m. Free. cincinnatiartmuseum.org ARTISANFEST513 This flea features local small businesses selling unique wares. Washington Park, 10
10 a.m.-1 p.m. Free. clermontparks.org
MAY FARM FEST This new event celebrates the season of growth at the farm with baby animal inter- actions, touch-a-tractor, craft vendors and so much more. Gorman Heritage Farm, 9
a.m.-3 p.m. $8-15. gormanfarm.org
MOM’S DAY OUT! Venture to this unique destination made specifically for women, by women to shop til you drop. Vessel Collective, 10 a.m.- 2 p.m. Free. vesselcollectivecincy.com MOTHER’S DAY MARKET Pick some stems at a flower bar, design a special piece at the charm bar, gift a custom poem and browse a curated selection of local vendors. Handzy Shop + Studio, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Free. handzyshopstudio.com WESTSIDE MARKET This vibrant pop-up features passionate entrepreneurs, talented artisans and creative makers. Westwood Town Hall, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Free. westsidemarketcincy.com ZOO NIGHT HIKE Discover the diverse and fascinating ways animals
a.m.-2 p.m. Free. artisanfest513.org
BIG WEEK OF BIRDING HIKE
Spring is in full swing, and it is a fantastic time for birding in Butler County! Limited binoculars available for use. Harbin Park MetroPark, 10-11 a.m. Free. yourmetroparks.net FAMILY WORKSHOPS: 3D PRINTING PENS This hands-on workshop invites families to explore the exciting possibilities of 3D printing technology while learning to design and create their own unique projects using 3D printer pens. Clifton Cultural Arts Center, 10 a.m. $5-80. cliftonculturalarts.org
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