third time in a week. College isn’t a perfectly curated routine—it’s messy, spontaneous, and full of ups and downs. The Verdict? College is WhatYou Make It TikTok’s version of college isn’t completely false—it just leaves out the harder, more unglamorous parts. The reality is: college is a mix of stress and excitement, independence and uncertainty, unforgettable moments and everyday struggles. It’s not a movie, but that’s what makes it real. And that’s the best part. College isn’t about fitting into a perfect aesthetic—it’s about discovering who you are, finding your people, and embracing the highs and lows that come with it. Some days will be tough, but others will be incredible—the kind of moments you’ll look back on and smile.The reality of college isn’t always picture-perfect, but it’s yours to shape. So go in with an open mind, take the pressure off trying to make it look likeTikTok, and focus on making it an experience that’s meaningful, exciting, and uniquely yours.
REALITY: It Takes Time to Find Your People—AndThat’s Okay! Making friends in college isn’t always instant.The first few weeks can feel lonely, and it takes effort to find your group. With time, shared experiences, and some trial and error, you will eventually find your people. Editor’s note: I met my first college best friend in our dorm’s elevator! She noticed we both walked to the same science class every morning and asked if I wanted to sit together.The rest is history! Moral of the story? Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. EXPECTATION: Balanced, Productive, Instagram-Worthy Life According toTikTok, college students somehow manage to maintain perfect routines: waking up early, working out, making healthy meals, staying on top of assignments, and still having time for a vibrant social life. REALITY: Chaos, Procrastination, and Cereal for Dinner In reality, most students are just trying to survive. Sleep schedules are unpredictable, motivation comes in waves, and “meal prep” sometimes means eating instant ramen for the
Social Life on Fire From Greek life ragers to themed dorm parties,TikTok makes it seem like every weekend is an endless cycle of fun, complete with neon lights, great music, and an effortlessly cool friend group. REALITY: Some Great Nights, Some Netflix Nights Yes, parties exist, but they aren’t always the cinematic experienceTikTok makes them out to be. Sometimes they’re overcrowded and sweaty, sometimes they get shut down by campus police, and sometimes you’d rather stay in and binge-watch a show in your pajamas.The reality? College social life is a mix of great nights out, awkward encounters, and plenty of quiet nights in. Not every college student loves a rager, and universities offer plenty of other extracurriculars to keep you occupied. EXPECTATION: Instant Best Friends and a Built-In Support System TikTok often shows college students forming deep friendships right away— laughing in dining halls, going on spontaneous road trips, and having heart-to-hearts at 3 a.m.
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