You could hold the person’s hand or gently stroke or massage it. Many people find this reassuring. It can also help the person to relax, sleep or deal with discomfort. Sensing you’re there can bring comfort and peace. Being quiet together As the person becomes weaker, they will have less energy for talking. Sometimes they may not want to talk. That’s okay. Just knowing you’re there and ready to listen can be reassuring. It can be good to be together in silence. Letting go Saying a final goodbye is never easy and most people find it difficult. Tears and talking about memories can be part of saying goodbye and can help you both to let go. Some people want to be there every moment, others find it difficult. Some people don’t get to, or even want to, say goodbye. Some people don’t cry. It’s important to remember there is no right or wrong way to behave. You must do what feels right for you. It’s important to remember everyone is different and their relationship with the person who is dying is unique.
The healthcare team can give you support at this time.
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When Someone You Care About is Dying in a Nursing Home - What to Expect
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