4. Talking about beliefs When seriously ill or dying, some people think about the meaning and purpose of life. They may say things like, “Why is this happening to me?” or “What has it all been about?” These are deep and personal questions. Many people get consolation just from saying them out loud. Some people who are seriously ill or dying ask themselves questions about life and death. Some people find it helps to think or talk things through with another person. Others may want to talk about spiritual or religious matters with a religious leader or a spiritual person. People who don’t have any religious or spiritual beliefs may also want to speak about what’s happening. Many people find it consoling to think and talk about these things. You may find that the experience of being with a dying person is meaningful and spiritual for you, too. Your dying relative or friend may want to pray, meditate or reflect with you. Many nursing homes are supported by a spiritual leader who can help people with their religious and spiritual needs. You may also want to ask a member of the person’s religious community to provide spiritual support.
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