Not wanting to eat or drink When close to dying, many people stop wanting to eat or drink. Their lips and throat can sometimes get dry. This is normal, but it can be upsetting for those who care about them. You can help the person by gently wetting their mouth and lips using small sponges. Applying a lip balm can also help. This will usually be enough to keep the person comfortable.
The healthcare team caring for the person can help too.
Becoming restless Sometimes the person who is dying can become restless. They may appear anxious, or make repeated movements, like pulling at the blankets or their clothes. This is usually because of physical changes in their body and is part of the dying process. Medication can be given to relieve this, aid rest and help with sleep.
Talk to the healthcare team if the person’s restless actions are upsetting them or you.
Getting cold hands and feet The person’s hands and feet may feel cold and may change colour. This is because their heart is sending blood to the vital parts of the body only. You can put extra blankets over the person’s hands and feet to keep them warm and comfortable.
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When Someone You Care About is Dying in a Nursing Home - What to Expect
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