Talking to children about dying and death Children who are close to the person who is dying may have many questions. How much you tell them will depend on how old they are. Very young children do not always understand illness, and older children may want to know more. Even very young children can tell when something is wrong, so try to be as open and honest as possible, using words they will understand. If helpful, the social work staff or other members of the healthcare team can help you to answer their questions. Touch You do not always have to use words in order to communicate. Indeed, you may find it hard to find words for what you want to say to the person who is dying. At times like this, touch is a good way to let the person know you are there. This simple act can be very important and valuable. It may also be comforting for both of you. You could hold the person’s hand or gently stroke or massage it. Many people find this reassuring. It can also help the person to relax, sleep or deal with discomfort. Sensing you are there can bring great comfort and peace.
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