When-Someone-You-Care-About-Is-Dying-What-to-Expect-Irish-H…

Sleeping more As a person is dying they may spend more time sleeping. When they are awake they may be tired and sleepy, with little energy. They may not want to speak. They may slip in and out of consciousness. This is normal. Let the person relax and rest. It is important to remember that hearing does not always fade before death, so even when the person seems less conscious they may be able to hear you.

You can let them know that you are with them by speaking, holding their hand or doing something that you know will comfort them. Speak softly and clearly, and use the person’s name.

Becoming confused When awake the person may be confused about where they are, the time of day, who you are or even who they are. They may see or hear things which are not there. They may appear to speak with people who have died before them. You can remind the person gently about reality and reassure them they are safe and you are with them.

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