In the labyrinth of my own journey, I stumbled upon a profound truth - the importance of self-care and self-acceptance. For too long, I had believed that my worth was measured by how much I gave to others, leaving me empty and depleted. blossoming like flowers in the sunlight. Witnessing their transformation reaffirms my belief in the profound impact of mentorship and propels me forward. The true fulfilment of my work lies in the connections I forge with these women. I watch them grow, their confidence and empowerment I understood that healing is not a linear path; it's a tumultuous voyage through treacherous seas. But with my guidance, these women found the courage to persevere. They emerged from the crucible of their past, reborn as conquerors of their own stories. I've had the privilege of witnessing countless women break free from the chains of self-doubt and societal expectations The torment I endured gave birth to a mission, a purpose that consumed me. I recognised that I was not alone in my suffering; countless women shared similar scars, and their silent cries resonated within me. I vowed to be their advocate, their ally, their guiding light out of the abyss. As the Can You Relate Coach, I channelled my own experiences into a lifeline for others. My ability to relate, to empathise, became a bridge over the turbulent waters of their pain. In my presence, they found trust and safety, enabling them to open up about their own journeys of self-discovery and healing. But I came to understand that self-love was the key to becoming enough for others. It meant treating myself with the same compassion and kindness I would offer a beloved friend. It meant embracing my imperfections, recognising that they were the threads that wove the tapestry of my uniqueness. Through my advocacy and mentorship, I witnessed countless women break free from the chains of self- doubt. I watched them rise above their circumstances, find their voices, and unapologetically embrace their true selves. It was a breathtaking transformation - the reclamation of their inherent worth.
My deepest hope is that every woman I encounter discovers her innate worth and power. I long for her to realise that she is enough, just as she is, and that by prioritising her own well-being, she becomes a beacon of inspiration and empowerment for others. In my own life, setting boundaries marked a pivotal moment of growth. It was an assertion of my worth, a declaration that I was enough as I was. It was the ultimate act of self-respect. One of the fundamental lessons I imparted was the importance of boundaries. Boundaries were not walls that isolated; they were bridges that protected. Learning to say no when necessary and to prioritise one's own needs became the cornerstone of self- empowerment. Together, we will forge a world where women raise each other up, celebrate their unique strengths, and find peace and joy in being enough - for themselves and for the world. The entrapment of emotional turmoil is no match for the resilience of the human spirit, and together, we will rise above it, victorious and unbroken. As the first light of a brand-new day painted the sky with hues of hope, I discovered something magical – my soulmate, a man whose love envelops me just as I am, celebrating the very essence of my being. Though the dream of welcoming more little feet into our world may remain unfulfilled, I've found the boundless capacity to shower my affection upon my son and three extraordinary bonus children, their laughter echoing like music in my heart. And, oh, the sweetest treasures of all, three precious grandchildren whose giggles fill my days with warmth. In the tapestry of life, I've woven a tale of fulfilment, each stitch holding the strength to mend the threads of yesterday's struggles, illuminating the brilliance of resilience and love.
November 2023 | Collective Action Magazine
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