7 ways to become more Resilient The Pregnant Resident My Job Search 3 days in Iceland RESILIENCE
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com win@morethanawinnermagazine.com MORE THAN A WINNER MAGAZINE
1
The world will know that you were here. MOVE.
2
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
More Than A Winner Magazine Intro From the Editor Playing Your Hand My Job Search Grandma Connie Crash Journey to Iceland My son, Oliver THE $145 Million dollar man The Pregnant Resident Breakthroughs
2 4 6
16 18 19 23 27 31 45 51 54 57
Big Henry Finishing
This month’s magazine is dedicated to the power of “resilience”. Let’s take a closer look.
3
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
4
FROM THE EDITOR…
Dear family,
Welcome to More Than A Winner Magazine.
We’ve created this magazine for the winner inside you. Every now and then, it is important to check in with yourself and make sure that everything is okay. Here, you have permission to reach for answers, inspiration, and encouragement. You work hard, and you deserve it. So sit back, relax, and enjoy our monthly online magazine. It’s our gift to you. By the way, it’s free of charge. You shouldn’t have to pay to feel good about being you. In this magazine, you will find interactive tools and learn how others face challenging experiences. More Than A Winner Magazine is your new road map to navigating life. Your journey to becoming a better version of yourself can start right now.
Keep looking up.
5
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Playing Your Hand
This is the hand you’ve been given. You have to play it. Is life fair? Not always, and it can be unpredictable. Everything can be going smoothly, then you get hit with a curve ball that you just didn’t see coming. How do you keep going? How do you keep your head above water and still succeed? Stand up straight. Square your shoulders. Hold your head high. Breathe, and swing from the rafters. Success in life is not about avoiding trouble. It’s about getting up again and again. It’s about resilience.
What is Resilience?
Resilience is having the capacity to stand and face your challenges, whatever they may be. It’s a decision that you make that no matter what, you’re going to finish. It’s called having a “bounce back”, and as you’re bouncing back, you’re also learning. When tough things happen, take the time to stop and look at all the factors. How did you get here? How did you participate and contribute to this outcome? What can you learn from this so that you can avoid repeating it? Don’t rush through a hard situation. Take the time to reflect on what happened; what didn’t happen; and how can you prepare for a different outcome? This will position you for more successful results in the future. This analysis will help you develop strong character, perseverance, and resilience. This is what separates the men from the boys. People who are resilient don’t see failure. They see opportunity and roll up their sleeves. They mentally command their desired result and move towards it. This situation is just the first stepping stone. There will be more, and they’re ready. They are determined. They are also picking up new skill sets along the way. Excuses are never allowed. The crutches were thrown in the dumpster last year.
6
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
“ People who are resilient don’t see failure. ”
7
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
“ Begin to incorporate daily exercise
into your routine. ”
8
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
How can you become more resilient?
1. Change Your Mind
How you think and what you think shapes your response. If you settle in your current situation, you’ll never grow. You’ll never change. You just might miss out on meeting amazing people, your public. On the other hand, if you believe that “more” is out there for you, you will get moving. Who’s knows? Maybe those amazing people are waiting to meet YOU.
2. Learn From Failure
When things go wrong, take a minute to discover three things that you need to learn, three skillsets that you didn’t have, three ways that you could have handled the situation differently. Think about how that could have impacted your outcome. It’s okay if you haven’t figured it all out yet. Keep talking. Keep asking questions. Keep reaching.
3. Add To Your Circle
Is your current community one that supports and understands you? If not, that’s okay. Everyone is on their own path. This is a great time to assess what guidance you need in your life. Look into new groups of people who share your perspective. Find that tribe that is moving forward. Discover new hobbies and interests. Chances are, they are looking for you too. Having supportive people in your corner makes the dips of life a little easier. Realize that you’re never alone. Just keep reaching.
4. Get Moving
As you grow mentally and emotionally, it is important to balance your health with the new found you. Begin to incorporate daily exercise into your routine. You will need energy as you begin to embrace new opportunities and new friends. Rest is vitally important as well. Don’t look at your “to do” list or pile of bills before going to bed. Avoid anything that triggers or upsets you. Whatever situations are looming over you, can wait until tomorrow. Night time is your mind and body’s
9
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
time to reset. This part of the equation cannot be ignored. Getting a good night sleep and rest is imperative. Facing the day with a “ready” mindset sets you up for success.
5. Define Your Target
It’s important to identify an accomplishment when it stands before you. How will you recognize it? Setting clear targets gives you direction. It helps you move forward because you have made the decision to accomplish “x”. Define why hitting this goal is important? What happens if you don’t hit the target? How will that impact yourself and others? Who is relying on you to show up? Sometimes, your decision can affect your public, those people who are waiting to meet you. Once you’ve attained your goal, be sure to celebrate YOU!
6. Pivot
When the “unexpected” rings your doorbell, answer it and become fluid. As life turns, you turn with it. That may include bending, moving faster, or slowing down. Keep your eyes open to what’s in front of you while keeping your target in focus. Flexibility will help you avoid bruises.
7. Forgive You
It’s important to remember that you are human, and humans make mistakes. So, what if you tried, and it didn’t work out? It doesn’t matter. You’re still here. It didn’t take you out. That alone tells you that you are a winner. You may have suffered a setback, but you’re still here. You’re still breathing which means you still have an opportunity for something bigger, better, and greater. You’re kind to others. Be kind to yourself. When you look in the mirror, give yourself a smile. You deserve it. By the way, you’re beautiful. You are important. You are needed.
10
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
“ You’re kind to others. Be kind to yourself. ”
11
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
12
Be Relentless.
Don’t Quit.
13
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Most men will receive 1 compliment a year. Most women will receive 8.
What is the next compliment that you want to hear?
Jason: I work hard, and I’d like for someone to notice.
Jason, we see you. You get up at the crack of dawn. You don’t call in sick. You don’t take vacations. Your boss can depend on you because you are a man of integrity. So, for that Jason, we celebrate YOU. You are fierce. You are brilliant. You are diligent. You take care of your family. You are an amazing husband and a compassionate father. You are an unsung hero. Jason, take a bow. YOU ARE DOING IT!
Mike: I have a wife that doesn’t support me in my dreams.
Mike, dreams keep people alive. Dreams give you direction and passion. There may always be mockers in life or people who just don’t understand. But don’t stop dreaming. Ignore the naysayers. We, at More Than A Winner Magazine, believe in dreams. So, write the dream down on paper. Start the business plan. Look for resources and vendors. Identify people who could push your dream further. Mike, you are next level. Your dreams are next level, and soon, THEY WILL ALL SEE!
Betty: I’m a single mother of four, and I’m tired.
Betty, you are a BOSS rearing four children by yourself. It can’t be easy because all the responsibilities lie on your shoulders. It’s okay to feel weary, but don’t give up. The fact that you have four people that you are guiding into adulthood is a sign that God could trust you with this task. He knew that you would pour into them a sense of honesty, integrity, hard work, and love for people. He knew that you are diligent enough to complete this task and complete it with excellence. Betty, you may not see it, but adjust your crown because you are a QUEEN!
14
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
15
My Job Search
Graduating was supposed to be the beginning of my future, the moment when years of studying, late-night cramming, and sleepless nights finally paid off. I walked across that stage with a degree in hand and a heart full of hope. I was so excited. Six months later, that hope has been tested in ways I never imagined. I’ve sent out hundreds of applications, tailored each resume, and poured my heart into every cover letter, yet the responses have been few and far between. The rejections come quickly. As the months pass, I’m getting a little nervous. The grace period on my student loans has ended, my rent is overdue, and the pile of bills on my kitchen counter keeps growing. The financial strain is suffocating, and I find myself questioning my worth. Did I work this hard for nothing? Was my degree a mistake? It doesn’t matter. I’m in it too deep to give up now. Every morning, I wake up and treat my job search like a 9 to 5 job. I improve my resume and attend networking events. I apply for positions I may have once overlooked, considering fields I never thought I’d enter. Some days are harder than others. The rejection emails hurt. The waiting game is painful, and doubt whispers in my ear. But I remind myself that it won’t always be like this. I can already see myself in the future managing my own department. I believe
and know my chance is right around the corner. I’ve learned to push forward even when the odds feel stacked against me. I know I will not fail if I don’t give up. My situation is not unique, and I know there are countless others just like me. To those who are in the same boat, I see you. I know the frustration. But I also know that we will make it through. The job that values my skills, my dedication, and my perseverance is out there. Until then, I will keep showing up, keep applying, and keep believing in myself. Because giving up is not an option, and success is only a matter of time.
16
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
We grow by the problems we solve.
17
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Grandma Connie
Some of my favorite memories are cooking breakfast casseroles with my Grandma Connie. Her tiny kitchen always smelled like love. She taught me songs from her childhood days while she cracked eggs into a big pink bowl, and I got to help by grating cheese. For her famous breakfast sausage casserole, Grandma Connie cooked the sausage and onions in her favorite old pan, and sometimes she’d let me have a little taste of the cheese. She liked to joke about having a “secret ingredient,” and I always tried to guess what it was. We worked together to put everything in the pan, then waited while it baked and made the whole house smell amazing. It wasn’t just about the food. It was about spending time with this beautiful lady, Grandma Connie.
Add bell pepper and continue cooking until meat turns brown. Drain excess oil from pan. Transfer sausage and peppers to a casserole dish. Top with grated cheese. Crack the 12 eggs (not beaten) on top of the sausage mixture. Add salt and pepper. Bake in oven for 25 minutes or until eggs are cooked.
Ingredients
1 lb of breakfast sausage with skin removed ½ c of grated cheddar cheese 12 eggs 1 diced green pepper 1 tbsp of olive oil ¼ tspn of salt Pinch of black pepper
Instructions
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.
Heat olive oil in pan over medium heat. Add sausage and separate meat allowing it to cook evenly.
18
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Stop looking for permission!
19
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
CRASH
It was October 2nd, 2021. I’ll never forget it. I was driving home after a long shift at work when my life changed forever. It was raining. I drove through the green light, and another driver ran a red light and slammed into my car at 75 miles per hour. He slammed into my life at a 100 miles per hour. I went spinning into a streetlight. Everything stopped. I could see & I could hear, but I couldn’t move. The pain started kicking in. I could feel it. I just started screaming. Other drivers stopped and came to help. Someone called 911. I was rushed to St Paul hospital. The doctors took one x-ray after another. Dr. Sanchez, walked into the room and told me that I had a broken pelvis, broken ribs, and my left leg was broken in three places. This didn’t look good, and it didn’t sound good. Dr. Sanchez said that the recovery would be long and grueling with no promises of ever walking again. Here I was just trying to get home. Now my address was Constant Pain. The painkillers were not working. Sleeping was a nightmare. This just didn’t make sense. It wasn’t fair. My family and friends rallied around me. They did what they could, but I knew it was up to me. After one month,
I started physical therapy. My address moved from Constant Pain to Torture Street. The warden in charge of my physical therapy had it in for me. I think someone told her that I stole 500K from her. It was the worst Christmas of my life. I had to learn how to stand, how to walk, how to hold a spoon. I felt like an invalid. It felt that I would never get my life back. It felt like I would never leave Torture Street. In February, I started a new therapy with an actually nice therapist. I think she came down from heaven compared to that last one. I started making strides. I was able to sit up on my own for the first time since the car accident. I took my first step with a walker. By March I was walking with a cane. This was my beginning. I knew in my heart I was leaving Torture Street. I started journaling to make the days go by and to also remind me of the progress that I was making. In the group sessions, I started sharing my small victories and that seemed to help the other patients not give up. They became my new extended family. We looked after each other and encouraged each other when someone was feeling down. This CRASH changed me. It changed my perspective about life
20
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
and the people in my life. It taught me patience, gratitude, and how to celebrate the little things. It also gave me a lens to see others who were suffering. Exactly nine months after the accident, I stood in front of my therapy family and walked without a walker or cane. I stood straight, and I stood tall. I couldn’t have done it without all the people in my life, even the warden from hell. I realized that
my recovery wasn’t just about me walking again. It was a test of endurance. It was a test of resilience. It took a while, but I passed. This CRASH has pulled the true me out of me. Now, I know that I can truly make it in life. I have what it takes to push through anything. Today, I use the CRASH to help others. I speak at safe driving events. My story really hits home. What’s your story?
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
21
Psalm 1
22
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Success is your address.
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
23
Journey to Iceland
Here are 3 fun facts about Iceland:
1. There are No Mosquitoes. Iceland is one of the few places in the world with no mosquitoes! The cold climate and unique ecosystem make it tough for them to survive. 2. You Can See the Northern Lights. Iceland is one of the best places to see the Aurora Borealis (Northern Lights),
especially during the winter months when the nights are long and dark.
3. It’s Powered by Volcanoes. About 85% of Iceland’s energy comes from geothermal power from its many volcanoes. The heat from the Earth even helps warm homes and hot water.
Here is a 3-day itinerary of Iceland to help you enjoy the culture.
24
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Day 1: Reykjavík & the Blue Lagoon
Morning:
• Arrive in Reykjavík and check into your hotel. • Grab a hearty Icelandic breakfast. Try a skyr parfait or Icelandic pancakes.
Afternoon:
• Head to the Blue Lagoon (about 45 mins from Reykjavík). ◊ Soak in the milky-blue geothermal waters surrounded by lava fields. ◊ Enjoy a mud mask and optional spa treatment.
Evening:
• Return to Reykjavík. • Dinner at a local restaurant. Try lamb stew or fresh seafood. • Optional: Walk around the city to see Hallgrímskirkja Church and the Sun Voyager sculpture lit up at night.
25
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Day 2: Golden Circle Adventure
Morning & Afternoon:
• Full day tour of the Golden Circle, including: ◊ Þingvellir National Park - Walk
between the tectonic plates of North America and Europe.
◊ Geysir Hot Spring Area - Watch Strokkur erupt every few minutes! ◊ Gullfoss Waterfall - A breathtaking double-tiered waterfall. • Optional stop: Friðheimar Greenhouse for unique tomato themed lunch.
26
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Day 3: South Coast Sights
Morning & Afternoon:
• Drive or take a guided tour of Iceland’s South Coast: ◊ Seljalandsfoss - A waterfall you can walk behind. ◊ Skógafoss - Powerful and misty waterfall, with a rainbow on sunny days. ◊ Reynisfjara Black Sand Beach - Stunning basalt columns and crashing waves. ◊ Optional: Stop in Vík, a small coastal village.
Evening:
• Return to Reykjavík. • Enjoy a relaxing final dinner with traditional Icelandic dessert like Hjónabandssæla (Happy Marriage Cake).
27
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
My son, Oliver
When I found out that I was going to be a father, I just couldn’t believe it. Here I was, 47, and becoming a father for the first time. A little complicated though. The young lady that I was dating was not quite as thrilled. She was a career woman who had a path already etched in stone. I totally understood because that was my mindset in my 20s, 30s, 40s and now 47. I didn’t plan on this new development, but I had to admit that I was excited. I couldn’t stop thinking, “I’m going to be a father”. Will I be a good father? Am I prepared? Will I be as good as my dad was? Whatever the outcome, I felt I was ready. So, my girlfriend and I made the decision that I would be the sole parent and provider of our child, and she agreed to turn all parental rights over to me. Great. Let’s do it. So, I prepared a room in my house for my new child. This opened a world that I just never envisioned for myself. Six months into the pregnancy, we learned that there were some concerns about the baby. The doctor detected some developmental issues but couldn’t be sure until the actual arrival of the baby. By the way, we learned that we were going to have a son. My heart just exploded with pride. I was going to teach him everything that I knew. I decided on the name, Oliver, after my father. Everyone who saw me just saw my smile that extended from one ear to the next. I was so excited. Oliver arrived. Everything seemed fine. He slept through the night without any issues. I quickly learned how to change diapers and why you need to burp a baby immediately after a feeding. However, after several appointments, the doctor diagnosed Oliver with autism. Okay, I didn’t see this coming. Did he get the diagnosis right? Did he read the correct chart? Was he talking about my Oliver or someone else? The doctor just didn’t understand. This was the only child that I would ever have. This was my legacy. On top of that, I was rearing him by myself. No help from anyone. I’ve never been an emotional person, but I felt it, and I felt it all: FEAR. CONFUSION. HEAVINESS. DESPAIR. I knew that single parenting came with its challenges, but this was next level. I was 47. By the time Oliver turned 20, I would be 67. Would he be able to navigate this world? Would people try to take advantage of him? Would he understand how people operate, and would they understand him? Would anyone be able to see his kind
28
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
29
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
heart and appreciate the innocence of his soul? In that moment I knew that I had to be strong, smart, and resilient for me and my son, Oliver. This was my test. This was my assignment. My life in corporate America taught me to think outside the box and find answers when others settled for the status quo. I’ve never let an employer down, and I refused to let my son down. That day I made the decision to settle in to my new reality. Each day was a learning experience for me. Oliver would get upset if a puzzle piece didn’t fit just right into the other shapes. I could relate. If my life did fit exactly how I expected, I became irritable. There were also days when Oliver was just the happiest kid on the planet. He would laugh when the doorbell rang or when his favorite song played over and over. I could relate. I felt immense joy when my son looked at me and just smiled. His eyes seemed to tell me that he loved me, and I have to be honest, I felt it. There were also days when the world seemed to be crashing in for him. Going out in public was a challenge. Crowds and noises irritated him to the point of non-stop crying. The noise level was something that he just couldn’t process. Our excursions into the public became few. I could relate. I have to admit that I’ve always enjoyed being homebody. It’s peaceful, and my home is my haven. Some days are super special. When Oliver turned three, I started to see a glimmer of hope. We were in the kitchen, and he was eating a hot dog. He offered the hot dog for me to eat and looked directly at me and said, “Dad”. Normally, he just pointed, but this was the first time he called me “Dad”. Don’t tell anyone, but my eyes started leaking. All I could do was hug him. This was my son. This was groundbreaking. This was a good day. I find myself growing as a person, as a man, and as a father. I’ve learned that Oliver is not just a child living with autism. He’s a little boy that is simply growing and learning one step at a time like all of us. I’ve also learned that I’m not just a single parent. I am a father and an advocate to an amazing child. Every day I have to keep going. I have to be resilient. There are no days off. His progress depends on me showing up daily. I choose to be optimistic. I choose to be patient. I choose to keep learning and adapting. Becoming a father has been a journey. Being Oliver’s father has taught me that being strong isn’t about overcoming struggles, its’ about never giving up. And for him, I never will.
30
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
The stone they threw at you has become your stepping stone.
31
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Selling over $145,000,000 in residential real estate in the last five years, Zach Payne has quickly developed a reputation as one of the top luxury real estate agents in North Georgia. His expertise in market data, analytics, and advertising, coupled with a comprehensive understanding of the real estate market, makes his approach to selling real estate stand out. Zach’s reputation, loyalty, and professionalism make him the go-to real estate agent of celebrities, tech founders, and business leaders from across the country. THE $145 MILLION DOLLAR MAN NORTH GEORGIA LUXURY REAL ESTATE
www.paynecorealestate.com 678-701-4700
32
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
33
with ALMA OHENE-OPARE
34
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
35
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
36
37
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Those who mock you are wasting their time.
38
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
EMPOWERING CREATIVES, ENTREPRENEURS & LOCAL BUSINESSES IN FORT WORTH, TEXAS.
https://www.launchboxcollective.com
launchbox_fw LaunchBoxCollective 678-701-4700
39
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
NONTOXIC HANDMADE PAINTS
Hi! I’m Kelly. Welcome to my little corner of the art world! Thank you for supporting my journey in making nontoxic handmade paints, I can’t wait for you to discover your new favorite colors!
40
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Since 2016, I’ve been specializing in creating and selling high-quality, handmade watercolor paints using only non-toxic materials. Each paint is carefully crafted with love and attention to detail, and my goal is to provide you with vibrant, smooth colors that inspire your creativity. What I Make
41
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Whether you’re a professional artist or a beginner exploring the world of watercolor, my passion is to make painting an enjoyable and rewarding experience. I believe that the right colors can make all the difference, and I hope you’ll find your perfect colors in my collection. Why I Make
42
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Who I Make Fo r
I create handmade watercolors designed specifically for professional artists, but I also craft paints that are perfect for beginners, hobbyists, and anyone eager to explore the world of painting. I’m passionate about collaborating with fellow artists, blending creativity and expertise to bring unique, high-quality products to the artistic community. Whether you’re an experienced painter or just starting out, my goal is to make painting an enjoyable and accessible experience for all. Additionally, I offer non-toxic paints made for artists who value their health and well-being. As an artist myself, I understand the importance of using clean, safe ingredients. That’s why I’m committed to providing products that not only inspire creativity but also support a healthy lifestyle.
43
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
I never thought I would find myself pregnant in the middle of my residency. I had spent too many years sacrificing sleep, my social life, and even my own well-being to make it this far. Medicine was my dream, my passion, and my purpose. But suddenly, my world was flipped upside down by two pink lines on a test that I took on my lunchbreak. At first, I was in shock. How would I continue my grueling schedule with morning sickness? How would I manage 28-hour shifts while growing another life inside me? And the biggest question of all, how would I do this alone? The father of my child, a man I had once trusted, made it clear he wanted no part of this. He suggested that I “take care of it” and move on. I won’t lie. I felt absolutely broken. The weight of uncertainty was crushing, and there were moments I wondered if I could do this at all. But deep down, I knew I had no choice. I had fought too hard, worked too many hours, and poured too much of myself into medicine to let this be my breaking point. So, I did what I always do. I pushed forward. I continued my residency, waking up before the sun rose and coming home in the dark. I fought through the nausea, exhaustion, and swollen feet. I took judgmental stares from some colleagues who whispered behind my back, questioning my ability to be both a doctor and a mother. But I also found unexpected allies: attending physicians who encouraged me, co- residents who covered for me when I needed a break, and nurses who slipped me food when they noticed my energy dropping. There were days I cried in the supply closet from sheer exhaustion, but there were also days when I felt I could take on the world. I was growing a life while saving lives. Every kick I felt reminded me that I was doing this not just for myself, but for my child. I wanted my baby to grow up knowing their mother was strong, capable, and unbreakable. The Pregnant Resident narrated by Finley
44
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
The moment I held my baby for the first time, I knew every sleepless night, every moment of doubt, every hurdle was worth it. Becoming a mother didn’t weaken me. It made me stronger. It reshaped my perspective on medicine, on compassion, on resilience. Residency is designed to break you, to push you to your limits. But I learned that my limits stretched far beyond what I ever imagined. I didn’t just survive residency while pregnant. I thrived. To any woman facing the same journey, know this: you are stronger than you think. Your dreams don’t have to end when life throws you an unexpected challenge. If anything, your dreams can become even more meaningful. And when you look into your child’s eyes, you’ll know, without a doubt, that you are unstoppable.
45
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Ft Worth, TX
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
46
46
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
2 bedrooms 2 baths
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
47
760 sq ft
48
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
220K
49
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
The Strength Within by June Secand
When storms arise and skies turn gray, And hope feels like it drifts away, I stand my ground, I will not bend, For I am built to rise, not end.
The winds may howl, the rains may fall, But deep within, I hear the call. A whisper soft, yet fierce and true, “You’re stronger than what you’ve been through.” Each scar I bear, a tale untold, Of battles fought and lessons bold. Not every path is smooth and bright, Yet still, I walk, I chase the light. For in the cracks, the light shines through, And from the pain, my strength renews. I fall, I rise, I try once more, Resilience guides me to the shore.
50
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Above only. That is my place.
51
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Big Henry
I’ve always dreamed of starting a business; being my own boss; and treating customers the way that I wanted to be treated. I shared my dream with my friends, but no one took me seriously. They just shook their heads and walked away. It was like I was speaking a different language that no one else on the planet understood. It didn’t matter because I believed in my dream. I decided to roll up my sleeves and made the decision that I would start my own BBQ catering business or die trying. I did my best to write a business plan. It wasn’t fancy, but it had potential. I went to bankers, investors, and people that I knew had money. They all said the same thing, “I just don’t think this is going to work.” It didn’t matter. I was not going to let their blindness stop me. I had a dream. I’m not a person who gives up. I knew I just had to figure out a way to make it happen. My grandfather, Big Henry, taught me that resilience and hard work would always see me through. My BBQ business, in my mind, was going to be a huge hit. I’ve always loved BBQ. Like, who doesn’t, if it’s done right. When I was a little boy, Big Henry, showed me the ropes. Every summer I would spend hours upon hours with him spicing the meat, making sure enough wood chips were in the smoker, and of course, our secret BBQ sauce. He shared that his grandfather passed it down to him. Now, he was passing it down to me. I’ve never tasted anything like it on the planet. He would often tell me, “Great barbecue isn’t rushed; it’s created”. I’ve never forgotten those words, and now it’s my time to create. I learned everything that I knew from Big Henry, but I never went to culinary school. I had no formal training. All I had were my summers with Big Henry, and I felt that that was more than enough. If others weren’t going to take a chance on me, I would. I took all the money that I had in savings and went after my dream. I started with one small smoker and sold BBQ plates from my backyard. Even after some success, I went back to investors to see if they would fund the next stage of the business because in my heart, I knew it was time to grow. One after another, they said, “No”. That was okay. I wouldn’t let them get me down because this was my dream, not theirs. And you can’t cancel what a man dreams. At night I
52
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
would go to bed absolutely exhausted, but I could still hear Big Henry telling me, “Great barbeque isn’t rushed; it’s created.”
I started catering local events, festivals, and concerts. I gave away free samples, and the word got out. Then, the magic started happening. People were talking. My phone started ringing. The orders became consistent. At one event, a local food critic tasted my brisket and gave an over-the-top review. That was it. Now corporations were calling me to cater their events. With the profits, I opened a storefront, invested in more equipment, and hired staff. It happened slowly, but it happened steadily. On top of that, I did it with no debt, one step at a time. Little did I know that the people who turned me down were simply pushing me into my destiny. Their rejection forced me to dig a little deeper and dream a little harder. They did me a favor. I’m grateful for them. Today, my BBQ is the talk of the town. People come to our storefront for lunch, dinners, special events, weddings. My heart is full, and Big Henry was right. Resilience and hard work will always see me through.
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
53
BUY NOW
Receive monthly shipments with 12 servings of our freeze dried raw ground beef straight to your door automatically each month.
☑ 10-15 year shelf life. ☑ Grass-fed, grass-finished. ☑ No mRNA vaccines. ☑ Freeze-drying process retains all nutrients. ☑ 4oz freeze-dried package = 1 lb raw hydrated meat. ☑ Packaged in an air-tight, vacuum-sealed package, with an oxygen & moisture absorbing packet. ☑ The blood and fat will show up just like fresh ground beef bought from the store.
SUBSCRIBE & SAVE
Breakthroughs
Maria S. I did it. I finally finished my book. I’m a published author. It took me three years to write it, but it’s done. On top of that, I’ve sold 150 copies on Amazon. Jamal P. I’ve always carried extra weight. In school it didn’t matter because I played football. I believed, the more weight the better. Not so much at 45. The doctor told me that I needed to lose 50 pounds. It took me nine months and a personal trainer. The 50 pounds are off and staying off. Lena F. I took a class in coding which
cost 10K. I soaked up everything I could and asked a million questions. I found two investors, and we just launched an app on budgeting. It’s the best 10K I’ve ever spent. Nina W. My husband and I used to travel all the time. After he died, I thought I’d never leave my home. Then one day, I decided that I wasn’t going to be depressed anymore. I joined a women’s travel club and met the most incredible ladies. We took our first trip together to Italy. It’s not the same as the trips that I used to take with my husband, but it’s a new adventure with new friends.
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
55
FINISHING
After going through a tough divorce and taking a lower paying job to stay close to my dad, who was very sick, life became really hard. Even with everything going on, I still wanted to keep learning, and I was excited when I got the chance to study for free. I saw it as a way to stay strong, build new skills, and help more people. But things didn’t go smoothly. A professor didn’t think my experience in business was good enough for his doctoral program in Higher Education Administration. That was tough to hear. During my interview for the program, I said, “Business and education both deal with people and how things are run. I still have a lot to learn, but I do have useful skills.” Even though I was told “no” at first, I didn’t give up. I believed that my different background could actually be helpful, not something that held me back. I knew that working hard and being open to learning would help me catch up. Four years later, I graduated. On top of that, the same professor who first doubted me ended up becoming my advisor. That experience taught me how important it is to never give up and to use all the different skills and knowledge I had. Finishing the program, especially after someone questioned if I belonged there, became one of my proudest moments. It wasn’t easy. I had to work hard to build a good relationship with the professor and adjust to a tough academic program. But I made it by staying focused, asking for help when I needed it, and always trying to learn more. After a family relocation and the elimination of my corporate leadership role, I founded Planning Management Consulting LLC. My next target is to expand our reach, helping more individuals and organizations navigate change with confidence and integrity. To achieve this, I am focusing on enhancing our service offerings, building a robust online presence, and fostering partnerships with like-minded individuals and organizations. You can find me at Planning Management Consulting LLC, where we help people navigate change with confidence and integrity. Let’s embark on this journey together.
56
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
57
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Remote Outside Sales Representative for Texas Region
Grow With a Leader in the Vinyl Window & Door Industry Are you a dynamic sales professional ready to represent a company that’s been shaping the future of vinyl windows and doors in the Gulf Coast region? Join a fast-growing, innovative manufacturer with a proven track record of success and quality craftsmanship.
What We Offer: Strong Compensation Package ☑ Competitive base salary. ☑ Uncapped commission. ☑ Full benefits package. Opportunity to Grow ☑ Represent a trusted name with decades of success. ☑ Be part of a company that was among the first to introduce vinyl windows, doors, and Low-E glass in Texas. Territory Coverage ☑ Work remotely while managing sales throughout Texas. ☑ Company also serves Louisiana and Mississippi.
Your Role: ☑ Prospect and secure new business across Texas. ☑ Build and maintain strong relationships with current customers. ☑ Represent the company at top industry trade shows. ☑ Qualify leads and sales prospects in your assigned territory. ☑ Negotiate deals to close both new and existing customer sales. Join Us Become a part of a forward-thinking team that’s driving innovation in home improvement materials. Help shape the next generation of energy-efficient, high-perfor - mance homes. Aaron Moylan Senior Consultant – Head of Building Materials Tel: 646-225-6611 Email: apm@groupbraddock.com
Our Products: ☑ Premium Vinyl Windows
☑ Sliding Patio Doors ☑ Custom Entry Doors ☑ Designed for both new construction and replacement markets
58
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
We Will Find Your Dream Home.
Whether you’re looking to find the next perfect home, sell your current space, or design the stuff of which your dreams are made, we can help. We’re your trusted advisor...now, let’s get you “home”.
59
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
60
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
$60 A MONTH FEEDS 10 PEOPLE EVERY SINGLE DAY.
61
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
WELCOME TO SILKS!! Where we blend comfort, style, and functionality to create adorable pajamas and bonnets for yourself and your little ones.
62
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
With SILK on your skin, bedtime becomes the best part of your day. Our ultra-soft pajama sets, made from breathable Bamboo + Spandex, deliver the perfect balance of stretch, softness, and style for both adults and kids.
From cozy nights to twinning moments with your little ones, SILK wraps your family in comfort — because great sleep starts with what you wear.
SHOP OUR LATEST COLLECTION
FOLLOW OUR SOCIALS
@silks.design
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com SHOP NOW
63
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Getting a chiropractic adjustment is important because it helps keep your body working the way it was designed to function. Sometimes, the bones in your spine can get a little out of place from things like bad posture, sports, or even just sleeping wrong. When that happens, it can cause pain, stiffness, or even make it harder for your nerves to send messages to the rest of your body. A chiropractor carefully moves those bones back into the right position, helping you feel better, move easier, and even stay healthier for the long run. Supporting Spinal Health You’ve only got one spine. Take great care of it with supportive chiropractic care.
Dr. Michael Halsell Burleson Chiropractor | Align Chiropractic CONTACT US
817-426-4950
www.alignburleson.com
225 W Ellison St, Burleson TX 76028, Burleson, Texas 76028
64
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
The Power of Your Voice Begins Here At More Than A Winner Magazine, we believe the next great idea could come from YOU. This is your personal invitation to shape the stories, people, and breakthroughs we feature. Your brilliance deserves a stage, and we’re making space for it.
“More Than A Winner Magazine” is powered by voices like yours. Thank you for helping us inspire the world, one idea at a time.
65
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Elevate Your Brand with Premium Advertising in More Than A Winner Magazine!
Unlock the power of targeted exposure with our exclusive ad packages designed to amplify your brand’s reach and influence. Whether you’re starting out or ready to scale, we have the perfect option to showcase your business to our engaged audience.
Contact us today at win@morethanawinnermagazine.com.
66
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Feeling inspired by these stories of resilience? Don’t keep it to yourself Share the strength! Pass this magazine on to 3 friends who could use a powerful dose of courage and hope today!
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
67
www.morethanawinnermagazine.com
win@morethanawinnermagazine.com
Page 1 Page 2 Page 3 Page 4 Page 5 Page 6 Page 7 Page 8 Page 9 Page 10 Page 11 Page 12 Page 13 Page 14 Page 15 Page 16 Page 17 Page 18 Page 19 Page 20 Page 21 Page 22 Page 23 Page 24 Page 25 Page 26 Page 27 Page 28 Page 29 Page 30 Page 31 Page 32 Page 33 Page 34 Page 35 Page 36 Page 37 Page 38 Page 39 Page 40 Page 41 Page 42 Page 43 Page 44 Page 45 Page 46 Page 47 Page 48 Page 49 Page 50 Page 51 Page 52 Page 53 Page 54 Page 55 Page 56 Page 57 Page 58 Page 59 Page 60 Page 61 Page 62 Page 63 Page 64 Page 65 Page 66 Page 67Made with FlippingBook - Share PDF online