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balance several of these themes or emphasize one preference as the way to train the mind and will. This leads to spiritual maturity.

Another route to spiritual maturity is the approach which includes the affective

response to the need for social justice. For instance, some have followed the heart and

spirit ofMother ofTeressa and have given their lives to the cause of Christian service by

helping care for the sick, poor, and needy. Some have formed organizations such as Food

For the Hungry, while others have experienced spiritual growth by having left their home

and country to feed the hungry, heal the broken-hearted, or set the captive free. For these

people, responding from the heart in service to others is paramount. Scripture adds the

dimension of love to Christian service by suggesting that by love people should serve one

another (Galatians 5:13). This passage argues that spiritual maturity involves freedom of

the believer to choose to serve others in love (Braunius, Ecklebarger, Loth, Newton,

Patterson, & Ross, 1988).

Another avenue to finding spiritual growth is through relationships in small group

communities. This follows the example of Jesus who gathered disciples around him

whom he loved, trained, and sent out. The key to small group ministry, is the authentic

and accountable discipleship relationship between group members. Those who believe in

small groups propose that if Christians are to grow to maturity and have an impact on

society, committed personal relationships of love and trust that support a Christian way

of life must be nurtured (Blattner, 1987). It is this love and trust leading to depth of intimacy in human relationships that is

being suggested by Houston ( 1989) which will also bring depth to relationship with God.

Although created for relationship, the sin of wounding one another is universal, creating a

need for God. In reverse, a rich relationship with God will give depth to other

relationships (Houston, 1989). As a person' s relationship with God deepens, there is a

gravitation toward others. So the nature of one's relationship itself gives greater depth of

spiritual maturity.

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