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relationship with God. Mature spirituality then is reflected in three capacities. The first capacity is to know, love, and depend in confidence on God. Second, is the ability to love

others which is reflected in intimate relationships and service to others. Third, is the

ability to integrate one's faith in God with their whole life reflected in moral choices and

life-affirming values. Vertical Spiritual Maturity measures relationship with God and

Horizontal Spiritual Maturity measures relationship and service to others. For this

study, Total Spiritual Maturity will be measured as well as Vertical and Horizontal Spiritual Maturity.

Independent Variables

Perceived Secure Childhood Attachment

This variable represents the amount of secure attachment that is perceived when

recalling childhood relationships with parents. A child is securely attached to parents

when three different behaviors are seen. First, they are unafraid in the presence of the

parent. Second, they are interested in exploring and mastering their environment. And

third, they desire to establish contact with others. Therefore, not only does a parent need

to be a safe haven of protection for their child, but also a secure base from which a child

can gain strength to move out toward others and the environment.

Secure Adult Attachment

For this study, the most fundamental and clear distinction is between secure and

insecure adult attachment. People with a secure attachment style have high self-esteem

and are confident about their relationships with other people. They are also comfortable

with closeness and see relationships as important, without obsessing about them.

Control Variables

Becoming spiritually mature is a complex process. There are a number of

variables involved in a person becoming mature spiritually. This study is looking

specifically at the relationship between secure adult attachment and spiritual maturity.

Therefore the possible effects of age, the number of years a Christian, religiosity of

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