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suggesting a comprehensive theory of attachment redirected attention from personality to

attachment in adult relationships. Included in their thinking is how adult relationships

develop, the functions they would normally serve, and the security of relationships. The

affect from an adult relationship may change or influence affectual bonds ofchildhood.

This allows for a more interactive model between representational models from childhood

and the processes of change in adult attachment relationships (Kobak, 1994). The lack of

correlation may suggest that adult attachments may influence internal working models

established in childhood to a greater degree than has previously been suggested. This needs to be addressed in future research.

The second issue raised in the relationship between child attachment and secure

adult attachment is that perceived paternal bonding in childhood has a significant

relationship to secure adult attachment. When multiple childhood attachments are

considered in empirical attachment studies, maternal behaviors constitute the primary

caretaker role exclusively (Lewis, 1994). Lewis raised some concerns regarding

attachment researchers' exclusive focus on the mother. Up until 1991 there were only 11

studies in which the child's attachment to both mother and father was obtained (Fox,

Kimmerly, & Schafer, 1991). Although there is nothing in attachment theory requiring

that mother be the primary attachment figure, in actuality, it tends to be the mother. One

exception is Colin's (1987) study, where 24% of the studied infants directed stronger

attachment behavior to their fathers than to their mothers. Each of the father's in Colin's

study had spent substantial time with their infants and had participated actively in their

care. When paternal attachment is reported significant and maternal is not, such as in this

study, the question arises as to the difference in attachment between fathers and mothers.

This needs to be addressed in future research.

Relationship of Secure Adult Attachment and Faith Maturity The most significant finding of this study is the significant positive relationship

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