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secure base from which to explore. The implications ofthis theory for proactive

interventions such as education for parenting and parenting roles would be significant.

Paternal Overprotection as a Predictor of Horizontal Faith Maturity

Paternal Overprotection accounted for slightly more of the variance in Horizontal

Faith Maturity than Secure Adult Attachment. This finding implies that Paternal Overprotection may influence serving others.

Parker (1979) claims that the variable paternal care clearly represents the care

dimension, and the variable paternal overprotection suggests a dimension of psychological

control over a child. A dynamic balance between the two measures needs to be achieved.

This study suggests that for the dimension of Horizontal Faith Maturity, having

experienced Paternal Overprotection may influence positive behaviors on behalfofothers.

What isn't clear is what emotion motivates that behavior? Could it be motivated by

anxiety as suggested by Strahan (1998) rather than security? If so, the relationship with

God would be dependent and needy rather than secure. Participants who are dependent

could also be motivated to serve others for God. Other influences may also explain this

dependency such as cultural, church, filial or a communal emphasis. These need further

exploration.

This result also implies that Attachment Theory needs to take a closer look at the

role of fathers in the bonding process and in the creation ofthe representational model

developed in infancy that is carried over into adult relationships with others and God. It

may be that affectionate constraint parenting may have positive effects on the outcomes

of Spiritual Maturity but are not motivated by love and intimacy resulting from spiritual

maturity. The balance between care and overprotection needs to be more clearly defined.

The lack of understanding ofthe balance between maternal and paternal care and

overprotection may be a result ofmany more years of exploration and study ofmaternal

care and less of paternal care. As more knowledge is gained ofpaternal care, parents can

be educated to attain the delicate balance (Parker et al. 1979) suggested so when children

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