How to Discuss It With Your Parents Talking About Long-Term Care Is Difficult!
Did you know that about 52% of people older than 65 require long-term care services? As our parents age, they may need assistance with daily tasks or cannot care for themselves due to a mental or physical impairment. Because of this, you may have to consider long-term care services for your aging parents. But how do you start this conversation? And how do you find an assisted living organization right for them? HOW DO YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT LONG-TERM CARE? Even though it can be difficult to talk about assisted living arrangements with your parents, it can be the best option for their health and well-being. However, when discussing these options, be mindful of your parents and include them in the decision. Don’t catch them off guard or make them feel like they’re being ambushed.
parent has more than enough time to process and consider the issue. Outline and inform them about the available long-term care options. Look into adult day care, in-home aides, assisted living units, nursing homes, and rehabilitation centers. However, if your parents show resistance or don’t want to talk about it, don’t press the issue — you can come back to the discussion again. WHAT QUESTIONS SHOULD YOU ASK WHEN TOURING LONG-TERM CARE FACILITIES? Keep these questions in mind when your parent is ready to discuss the topic in more detail and you want to begin touring different facilities.
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Can your parent leave the facility for short periods? What are the dining options and activities available to residents?
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It’s also beneficial to speak with current residents about their experience so you and your parents can get firsthand knowledge about the facility you’re looking at. Once you’ve selected a facility and it’s time to move in, talk to your loved one about what to expect from the process and offer support when needed. It’s also best to keep in close contact with the facility and your loved one to ensure their needs are met. If you have any questions about long- term care, your friends at DuPont Wealth Solutions can assist you. You can check out our long-term care and Medicaid planning guide, Aging with Confidence, at DandBLaw.LPages.co/aging-with- confidence-guide.
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What services and amenities do they offer? What is the cost of residency? What are their policies on visitors, overnight guests, or pets?
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Instead, bring up the idea of long-term care before it’s necessary to ensure your
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IRISH PANCAKES
Inspired by TheKitchyKitchen.com
Start your March mornings off with a seasonal flair by making these traditional Irish pancakes! Thick yet crispy, these pancakes are a sweet way to fuel your day.
INGREDIENTS
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 large egg, beaten 1 cup buttermilk
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1/2 tsp baking soda 1/2 tsp kosher salt 1 tbsp white sugar
2 tbsp unsalted butter, divided
DIRECTIONS
1. In a bowl, sift the dry ingredients together. Set aside. 2. In a skillet, brown 1 tbsp of butter.
3. In a separate bowl, mix the beaten egg, buttermilk, and browned butter. 4. In a constant stream, add the wet mixture to the dry ingredients while stirring. Do not over beat! 5. Heat a skillet over medium-low heat. Add 1 tbsp of butter, stir until the skillet is coated, and then add a few large dollops of batter (about 3 inches wide) to the pan. Do not overcrowd. 6. Cook 4–5 minutes a side, until golden brown and cooked through. Serve with butter, jam, and syrup.
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