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Plan today for peace of mind tomorrow. NOVEMBER 2022
and Their Families Alzheimer’s disease is a serious form of dementia that can severely alter family relationships. It’s widespread, afflicting around 5.8 million people in America, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It’s estimated that the number of Americans who have dementia will increase to 14 million by 2060. A lot is misunderstood about Alzheimer’s, and many people suffer in silence because they aren’t sure where to turn for help. November is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, and it provides an excellent opportunity to clear up misconceptions regarding Alzheimer’s while providing resources to those who need them. I’ve helped many families as they try to navigate a loved one’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis. It’s a difficult and challenging time for families, but they come to understand that the person afflicted with Alzheimer’s is not the person they used to be. The disease messes with their mind and can cause them to become hostile, aggressive, and physically violent even if they never showed these tendencies in the past. Seeing someone who was previously loving and kind act in a different, unpleasant manner is difficult. If you can continue to love them and remember who they were, it’s easier to carry on with your life. Some families don’t want to discuss their loved one’s struggles with Alzheimer’s disease. They think it’s taboo and choose to suffer in silence instead. This is not the healthiest approach. It’s essential that families seek out professional help. When families fail to get this help, their last years with their loved one can engender bitterness toward that person, and families eventually feel guilty when they realize they could have been more compassionate, but it’s too late. Finding Help for Those With Alzheimer’s
needed. It allows you to be a son, daughter, or spouse instead of a caregiver. A caregiver can come to the house for a few weeks or your loved one can go “on vacation” to an assisted living facility for a short period of time. Doing this doesn’t mean you don’t love them; it means you love them so much that you’re willing to do what it takes to maintain your relationship with them. We think we have to do everything and are often unwilling to go to others for help, but it’s necessary when you’re caring for someone with Alzheimer’s. They’re sick; it’s okay to get professional help for them. If your child were to fall and cut their leg, you wouldn’t give them stitches yourself. You’d take them to the doctor. Caregiving for your loved one with Alzheimer’s can be viewed in the same light. Some families may think they don’t have the financial means to afford a caregiver or assisted living facility, but there are other options. You can join a support group to help you find ways to better care for your loved one. You may qualify for different county programs that will actually pay for a caregiver to come help during certain hours. It might take some initiative, but you can find alternatives if you can’t afford professional care. It is okay to ask others for help in this situation. It doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t help. Nor does it mean you don’t love the person afflicted with Alzheimer’s — it’s a sign you do care for and love them.
–Andrea Shoup
When you get professional help, you learn that you and your family must take a break from taking care of the person with dementia. This is often much
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Save Room for Good Food and Finances PREPARING DINNER IS A LOT LIKE FINANCIAL PLANNING
Are you hosting Thanksgiving dinner this year? From planning grocery lists, cooking meals, and decorating, you may find some parallels to financial planning along the way. Consider the following financial lessons you may encounter this year while cooking Thanksgiving dinner!
Similar to finance, developing a plan allows you to put aside the money you need for your event while saving enough money for other expenses.
Improvise when necessary. Life is unpredictable, and things don’t always go according to plan. But sometimes, you just have to wing it and make the most out of the
Create a budget. Thanksgiving dinner is one of the most expensive meals of the year, so most people need to budget for ingredients before going to the grocery store. It’s essential to determine the number of people attending your dinner to get a better sense of how much you’ll need to spend.
situation. Let’s say you forget an ingredient, but the stores are already closed. What should you do? You may consider using a different ingredient as a substitute or run next door to ask a neighbor if they have what you need.
Whatever the situation may be, learning to utilize your resources proves to be essential when things don’t always go your way. There are several valuable takeaways from this holiday season. Just like how the main course can change each year, your financial planning goals can always evolve, too!
This task alone is a prime example of building a financial budget — by determining how much you will need to spend ahead of time, you can give yourself more time to save.
Develop a plan. Like any other social gathering or event,
Thanksgiving dinner requires some planning. You will need to find the recipes ahead of time, check to see which ingredients you have or don’t have, and be sure to have enough space for all your guests.
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From the minute you walk through our doors or call our phones, we want to provide you with the best possible customer service. Our Welcoming Team is full of kind and caring people who want nothing more than to help our clients with their questions or concerns. They’re well trained and ready to assist with whatever you may need. One of our Welcoming Team members who consistently puts smiles on our clients’ faces is Oscar. Oscar started working at Shoup Legal this past May. Before joining our team, Oscar worked as a veterinary assistant in Sacramento. He helped out with examinations, drawing blood, giving vaccines, and more. Over time, Oscar realized this wasn’t the career path for him, which began his search for something new. He knew he wanted to work a job where he could assist people, which led him to us. Oscar has continued to impress us since he joined our team. He always remains calm and confident on the phone. He knows how difficult
it can be when searching for an attorney to help deal with sensitive matters. He does everything in his power to make sure every call and email is clear and understandable while providing the best insight into the questions being asked. You never have to worry about loose ends with Oscar. He starts every day by going through emails and responding to everyone he can help. You never have to worry about a long wait on your inquiry when Oscar is working. When Oscar is not at work, he’s usually spending time with his girlfriend and two dogs. He has a rat terrier mix named Lincoln, and his other dog looks like a mini German shepherd and is named Elric. He also has a cat named Mochi Chim Chim. Oscar always keeps a lint roller on hand to help keep himself free of fur. We are so glad to have Oscar on our team and can’t wait to see how he grows and develops in his role.
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Roasted Pork Loin With Apples Inspired by MomFoodie.com
After we celebrate Thanksgiving at the end of this month, many Americans will head to their favorite stores and local malls in an attempt to score some great Black Friday deals. We usually spend this time shopping for ourselves or our loved ones, but the Tuesday after Thanksgiving is the perfect opportunity to give to those in need. National Day of Giving is on Nov. 29. We like to think Thanksgiving is a time to eat turkey and watch football with our loved ones, but I always use this time to reflect on all I’ve been blessed with. I don’t take things for granted, so I try to pay it forward whenever possible. One of the best ways to do this is by giving to a charitable organization. Many organizations locally and nationally devote resources to help those in need. NATIONAL DAY OF GIVING IS THIS MONTH! How Do You Plan to Help Others?
Ingredients • 4 lbs pork loin • 2 tsp garlic powder • 2 tsp salt, divided
• 1 tsp black pepper • 8 apples • 2 red onions • 3 garlic cloves
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1 tbsp brown sugar
• 2 tbsp olive oil • 2 tsp cinnamon • 3 tbsp butter, softened
Directions
1. In a large bowl, season pork loin with garlic powder, 1 1/2 tsp salt, and pepper, then cover and place in refrigerator for 30 minutes. 2. Preheat oven to 425 F. 3. Slice apples and onions, then chop garlic cloves. Season with brown sugar, olive oil, remaining salt, and cinnamon. 4. In a 9x13-inch baking dish, place a layer of apples and onions in the pan, put pork loin on top, then place remaining apples and onions around it. 5. Break butter into small pieces and place them on the pork loin and apples. Place dish in oven and let it bake for 15 minutes. 6. Reduce the heat to 350 F, then continue to bake for 60 minutes. 7. Remove dish and stir apples and onions. 8. Increase heat to 450 F, put dish in oven, and roast for an additional 8–10 minutes. Free Estate Planning Seminar
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One group I belong to is called 100 Women Who Care. Every quarter, we all come together and donate $100 each to a worthy cause. We usually bring in three different organizations that give presentations about their group and cause. We then decide which charity aligns with our values and needs the money the most. Giving $100 to a charity only goes so far, but when we all come together and give $10,000 instead, it really makes a difference. As you celebrate Thanksgiving this year with your family, take some time to think about those who aren’t so lucky. Think about the causes you believe in and find ways to help. Many charities throughout our community aim to help veterans, children, animals, and the unsheltered. You just need to find a cause you believe in and find ways to donate. You don’t have to donate money, either. Many organizations are in need of volunteers, so donating your time goes a long way. Wherever you decide to help out, I hope you all have a productive National Day of Giving.
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1 | Alzheimer’s Awareness Month 2 | 3 Financial Lessons Learned From Thanksgiving Dinner 2 | Learn More About Oscar 3 | Helping Others on National Day of Giving Inside This Issue
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Experience Fresh Powder and Great Views TOP 5 SKI RESORTS TO CROSS OFF YOUR BUCKET LIST
Mad River Glen, Vermont For an authentic, deep-mountain experience, Mad River Glen is considered the best skiing mountain in the East. One of the best features of the resort is that it has single-chair chairlifts — and no snowboarders! The runs are long and the sights are gorgeous while providing an amazing ski run, throwback style! Aspen, Colorado Aspen just had to make this list! This incredibly popular ski resort has four different mountains, providing a wide range of terrains for all different skill levels. The ski resort town is fun, developed, and exciting as well. Deer Valley Resort, Utah A ski-only resort, Deer Valley is a quaint ski town with legendary customer service and unbelievable Utah powder. It should be noted that the chairlifts are speedy and efficient, and the trails are well- groomed. Lift lines are nonexistent, making for an exclusive and remote experience!
Temperatures are dropping and snow is falling in some parts of the country, so it’s time for some winter fun! Whether you ski, snowboard, or just enjoy the snow, here are some of the best ski resorts to check out this ski season! Steamboat Springs, Colorado A little less glitzy than some of the other popular ski resorts and towns in Colorado, Steamboat Springs is extremely family-friendly with a Western vibe. Because Steamboat is tucked away in the northwest corner of Colorado, the area catches snow from both Utah and Wyoming, which means you can expect some of the best skiing powder. Whitefish Mountain Resort, Montana While Whitefish Mountain Resort was originally a sleepy, quiet, and remote ski resort, it has gained popularity over the past few years, but it still remains an under-the-radar ski destination with friendly locals and smaller crowds. For beautiful, lush Montana views and no ski lift lines, Whitefish is a must!
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