modify custody or visitation are motivated by anger or revenge. Be factual. Your word will probably not be enough. Factual evidence includes driving records, criminal history, and the observations of unbiased witnesses. Some courts will accept the testimony of family members and friends, older children willing to talk about their concerns, or private investigators may be interviewed. Calmly suggest alternative transportation. Recommend the driver postpone travel or offer to drive the child, if appropriate. Avoid a heated altercation that may put the child in further danger. Call 911 if the driver shows up impaired and wants to drive the child. Be prepared to provide as much information as possible (such as name of the impaired driver, vehicle description and/or license plate, and destination). Give the responding officer your name and contact information. Provide a summary. Document all contacts with the police with a follow-up written sum- mary. Request a copy of your complaint from the law enforcement agency. Call Child Protective Services. Some agen- cies will conduct an investigation if they believe that a child’s life is in danger. Most courts will seriously consider the findings of Child Protec- tive Services. Keep in mind that both parents and the children will probably be evaluated and evaluations include home visits. If you do con- tact Child Protective Services, obtain a copy of the written complaint for your records. Maintain a log. Document each time your child tells you the other parent consumed alcohol or other drugs while in the role of custodial parent.
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