Everyone Deserves a Happy Future
Divorcing a Controlling Spouse
Sometimes, making life decisions for a happier and more fulfilling life includes filing for divorce. For people married to a controlling spouse, this option is usually the only way they can find happiness, health, and freedom. Divorcing a controlling, narcissistic spouse can be a difficult process. Whether the controlling spouse learns their partner wishes for a divorce, or they initiate the divorce themselves, they may use all their manipulation tactics to get their way. This can include getting a larger sum of money, any and all property, child custody, and other assets involved. A controlling spouse may also try to bully or harass their spouse at any sign of resistance, hoping they will cave to their demands.
Bored on Thanksgiving? Plan a Movie Marathon!
They key to this situation is the response of the controlling individual’s spouse.
Once a divorce is underway, it’s crucial to understand that — no matter who initiated it — the victim of the relationship needs to step away from any previous role they had in that relationship. This is the time to break away from that control by setting boundaries in a firm and kind way. The controlling spouse needs to understand that, under no uncertain terms, their partner will no longer be controlled. An important step is to minimize the communication between both parties. In an attempt to make their partner falter, a controlling spouse may try to assert their dominance through a number of tactics. These include making legal correspondence a challenge, hiring a “shark” attorney who makes negotiation impossible, and sending dozens of texts, calls, and emails. One way to counter this is to consider getting a judge to order a court- approved messaging system, which can deter any unfriendly contact. However, the best form of protection is to get in touch with an experienced divorce attorney. Our team at Bruce Law knows that divorcing a controlling spouse won’t be easy. We are here to facilitate communication with all parties involved to ensure a brighter future for these victims. Starting on a new path toward a happier future is only a decision away, and no one must take that path alone. Our attorneys can help with every step.
After a giant Thanksgiving meal, it can be tempting to sink down onto the couch and never get up — so embrace it! This Thanksgiving, try planning a family movie night to enjoy while the turkey settles. Movie nights are about as low maintenance as family hangouts can get. According to Elle magazine, actress Angelina Jolie credits family flick marathons for helping her survive quarantine with six kids at home. Her secrets to success are comfortable clothes like pajamas and robes, along with plenty of movie snacks. This Thanksgiving, plan your marathon around these holiday-themed films. 1. ‘Free Birds’ — This hilarious 2013 animated film stars Owen Wilson and Woody Harrelson as turkeys who have escaped the Thanksgiving table. Together, they go on a mission back in time to break up the first Thanksgiving and get turkey off the menu for good. 2. ‘A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving’ — This old-school television special from 1973 is a Thanksgiving classic. In it, Charlie Brown and Snoopy navigate football, an ever-growing Thanksgiving guest list, and a backyard feast of junk food. 3. ‘Garfield’s Thanksgiving’ — Everyone loves Garfield, and this 1989 television special starring Jon, Odie, and the fat cat himself is another Thanksgiving mainstay. The vet puts Garfield on a diet at the worst possible time: right before Thanksgiving. 4. ‘An Old-Fashioned Thanksgiving’ — This 2008 period drama is based on a short story by Louisa May Alcott and tells the tale of an estranged family who find themselves back together just in time for the holidays. It’s historical, heartwarming, and fit for all ages. 5. ‘A Family Thanksgiving’ — This Hallmark comedy is a funny combination of “A Christmas Carol” and “17 Again.” A high-powered lawyer is transported to an alternate universe and gets a look at what her holiday life could have been like if she’d made different choices.
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With these five films on your watch list, you won’t need any other Thanksgiving entertainment!
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