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July 2023
HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY! Dear Theo
Dear Theo,
On June 6, 2022, I officially became a father of three. When Matias passed away a little over five years ago, I never thought I would have a second chance at fatherhood — let alone two chances! You and your sister have blessed my life in more ways than one. When your mom and I found out about your big sister Green, we were over the moon! It was a miracle that we could experience having children again. But that wasn’t our only blessing — we now have you. I still remember the day you entered the world. I will never forget seeing you, holding you, and loving on you for the first time — it was such an emotional and unforgettable moment. Before you were born and when you first arrived, I remember wondering what you would be like. I was curious about your personality, likes and dislikes, and the characteristics that make you, you! And while you’re still developing your quirks and personality, I can already tell you’ll be such a sweet little guy. The highlight of my day when I come home from work is seeing your wide grin as soon as I walk through the door. You crawl your way over to me so I can pick you up and squeeze you — I love hearing your laugh and squeals as I give you some love. You’re such a positive baby! While there are times you will whine, for the most part, you’re so happy. When I glance over your crib in the morning, all I can see is your smile when you wake up. It’s incredible how the smallest things will make the biggest impact on life — seeing you smile is the highlight of my day. You’re also very sweet to Green. I love seeing the relationship you have with your big sister. It makes your mom and me so happy to see you both playing together. Sometimes, if you wake up before Green, I will put you in her crib. While you may fall back asleep with her, for the most part, she will wake up, and you two will play with each other. Seeing the bond you both already share is heartwarming — I look forward to seeing it blossom as you both get older. On top of having a loving personality, I have a feeling you’ll be very curious! I swear, you have to touch anything and everything you can get your hands on! You will crawl around our home and pull out books, toys, computer cables, cabinets, and everything
in between. Your mom has to put things in high places just so you can’t reach them. No matter how well we hide something or think you won’t be interested in something, you always find a way to surprise us. We always have to keep an eye on you because if we don’t, who knows what you’ll get into! I can’t wait to watch you grow, take your first steps, say more words, and develop a personality that’s unique to you. You’re such a special boy with so much love to give others — that’s a trait that you got from your big brother, Matias. I wish he were here with you and Green. He would’ve loved you two so much and protected you both with every muscle in his body. But while he’s not here with us in person, I know he is looking after you and your sister in spirit.
Always remember you have a guardian angel, and it’s your big brother Matias.
Happy birthday, son. I love you very much.
Tu padre,
–Horacio Sosa
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AN ESTATE PLANNING MUST Why Everyone Needs Advance Directives
help loved ones from having to make stressful medical decisions that may or may not be wanted by the patient. Some forms of advance directives include:
When discussing estate planning, we often think about wills and the disbursement of our belongings after we pass. Yet, there’s plenty to organize, protect, and ensure when we are still alive. One aspect of estate planning we often overlook are advance health care directives, including living wills. Advance directives are a wide category of written instructions covering your health care wishes, and a living will is considered a type of advance directive. If you find yourself severely ill or injured, advance directives help you express your health care preferences if you cannot communicate. What is a living will? While a living will is within the advance directive category, it specifically determines your wishes if you become terminally ill. Not everyone has the same wishes when it comes to end-of-life care, so your living will communicates what medical procedures you would or would not want to undergo if you were either terminally ill or in a coma. Some individuals may only want their life prolonged for a certain amount of time for personal or religious reasons, or not at all. A living will helps the medical staff and family follow those wishes. Different Types of Advance Directives Since it’s a broad category, not all advance directives are limited to terminal illnesses. Various forms of advance directives aim to
• Medical Power of Attorney: A document that names someone who can make health care decisions for you if you can’t communicate • Medical Orders: Orders created by a medical professional with their patient’s wishes that are shared with other medical professionals. For example, it could detail a do-not- resuscitate (DNR) order. • Psychiatric or Mental Health Directive: A document created by a person with mental illness that details their health care wishes before a possible mental health crisis, when they may not be able to make decisions When it comes to advance directives, every adult should consider establishing their wishes as soon as they can. No one knows what the future holds, and it’s best to arrange your health care wishes before it’s too late.
To Buy or Not to Buy a House
Market Aside, Are You Ready?
Assess your finances. Potential homebuyers should be aware of the roadblocks before making any significant decisions. You’ll need to be entirely sure that your funds are ready to take the hit of both a down payment and a mortgage. Consider your credit, savings, and debt when determining your monetary readiness. These three financial aspects decide whether you’ll qualify for a mortgage. For example, those with credit scores lower than 600 will have slimmer chances and higher prices. Meanwhile, your debts can also hinder your ability to qualify for a mortgage if they’re disproportionate to your income. As for your savings, you will need enough money for the down payment, moving costs, as well as possible expenses associated with owning a home. Everything your previous landlord took care of will now be your responsibility. Even new homes have surprise repairs that will come out of your pocket.
If you feel financially comfortable to undergo the hurdles ahead (with a stellar credit score to match), you should be ready to start looking for a home! Consider some reasons to hold off on buying. While there are plenty of reasons why you should buy a home, there are also countless reasons why now might not be the right time for you. Look at your personal and financial situation and ask yourself: • Is your job secure? Have there been recent layoffs in your company? • Are you feeling pressured by family or friends? • Do your finances need some TLC? • Are you ready to put down your roots? These are just a few issues that can cause a disaster in the home-buying process. You will need to assess your situation and be honest about why you need to buy a home and if you’re financially prepared.
You’re probably hearing conflicting advice when it comes to home buying. While some say a recession is inevitable, others highlight the lowest selling prices in years. However, you should consider the current market conditions as context rather than deciding factors when buying a home. Whether or not the time is right to buy a home depends on your personal and financial circumstances. Real estate market aside, the more important question is this: Are you ready to buy a house right now?
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LEARN LIFE LESSONS WITH MR. BACHMANN The Journey of a German Classroom The documentary “Mr. Bachmann and His Class” shows how a small-town German teacher helps his diverse students feel at home. This heartfelt documentary even won several awards, including the Silver Bear, at the Berlin International Film Festival because of its simple, uplifting message. In the film, the rural town of Stadtallendorf has a history of employing migrant workers dating back to World War II. Despite having many immigrants in the city, Stadtallendorf has a history of excluding non-German residents. This divide is an issue that weighs heavily on students. In a classroom of 12–13-year-old students from different countries, Dieter Bachmann uses his authentic positivity to help each student become confident about their own potential. In one scene, after returning graded assignments to his students, he reassures those who scored lower by saying, “These grades do not reflect who you are.” This isn’t to say that Mr. Bachmann was easy on his class. In one pivotal moment, the teacher reprimands a student for acting unkind to a classmate. When the student provides a halfhearted excuse, Bachmann replies, “I don’t really believe that, but I’ll treat it as though it were sincere.” The student can clearly feel the teacher’s disappointment despite no obvious scolding or berating. Mr. Bachmann guides his students with a genuine heart and a steady hand. The affectionate film immerses the viewers in Bachmann’s classroom to witness the evolution of the students. Whether watching those who decide to spend their lunch hour with him in his classroom and others who share their most vulnerable feelings, viewers realize that all of these students needed an educator who showed sympathy and kindness. “Mr. Bachmann and His Class” follows the magnetic bunch until retirement. While there are plenty of films about heroic teachers, this gentle documentary reveals more about how all it takes is genuine interest and effort to change students’ lives.
Inspired by Delish.com GRILLED STEAK SALAD WITH PEACHES
Ingredients
• Black pepper • 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil • 1 large lemon, juiced • 6 cups baby arugula • 2 ripe peaches, thinly sliced • 1/3 cup crumbled blue cheese or feta
• 1 lb skirt steak, fat trimmed • 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar • 1 clove garlic, minced • 1 tbsp light brown sugar • 1 tbsp vegetable oil • Kosher salt
Directions 1. In a large resealable plastic bag or baking dish, combine steak, vinegar, garlic, and brown sugar. Marinate 20 minutes at room temperature. 2. Remove steak from marinade, coat with vegetable oil, and season generously with salt and pepper. 3. On a grill or pan set to high heat, cook steak until desired doneness. Rest 5–10 minutes, then thinly slice against the grain. 4. In a small bowl, whisk olive oil and lemon juice to make dressing. Season with salt and pepper. 5. In a large serving bowl, add arugula, peaches, blue cheese or feta, and steak. Drizzle with dressing and gently toss.
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954-532-9447 www.SosaLegal.com 2924 Davie Rd., Ste. 102 Davie, FL 33314 INSIDE THIS ISSUE Theo Is Turning 1!
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The Difference Between Living Wills and Advance Directives
Should You Buy a House Right Now?
Grilled Steak Salad With Peaches
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An Inspirational Documentary Inspires Hope
A Comedian’s Heartwarming Will
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How He Ensured His Wife’s Happiness Comedian Jack Benny Made a Romantic Request
“Every day since Jack has gone, the florist has delivered one long- stemmed red rose to my home,” Mary Livingstone wrote. “I learned Jack actually had included a provision for the flowers in his will. One red rose to be delivered to me every day for the rest of my life.”
The idea of creating a will can seem grim for many. We don’t want to ponder our passing and the effect it will have on our loved ones. Our distaste for estate planning is evident, too — only 33% of U.S. adults have a will. Yet, what if we saw estate planning as an opportunity to send a final affectionate message after our departure? That’s exactly what Jack Benny, an iconic radio and television comedian, did for his wife after he passed away. Both starred in the quintessential radio program “The Jack Benny Program” from 1932 to 1965, and the couple was known for their comical disputes and banter. However, his wife, Mary Livingstone, would later confirm that her kind husband was far different from the penny-pinching naysayer he played in his show. For decades, the duo became a must-listen act on countless home radios. Sadly, Benny passed away in 1974 at the age of 80. While his wife was mourning the loss of her husband, she was shocked to discover one final romantic gesture from Benny. Livingstone shared the loving gift with the world in a magazine article dedicated to his life and legacy.
Rain or shine, Livingstone was delivered a red rose sent from her late husband until her death nine years later. The loving husband and famous entertainer proves that wills don’t have to be daunting documents; they can be one last way to leave a kind gesture behind. You could also shock your family by leaving your estate to your favorite furry friend! Whatever route you take, a will is sure to maintain your spirit and estate.
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